the girl i grew up with

anonymous asked:

I just realized how effing bi I've always been. This is such an epiphany. I've just always been interested in girls and boys, but I grew up in a very heteronormative environment and never thought of the possibility of being bi. But damn I had a crush on my female math teacher and on my male latin teacher. I had a crush on a girl in my class and I fell in love with a male friend. I think I'm really bi. God. This inner coming out thing is so huge and eye opening. OMG. I'm bi! I AM BI. Thanks <3

Awwww I am so happy for you, my friend!!! Welcome to the bi club!!
And it’s bi visibility week - what a time to realise you’re bisexual!!!


sylversepharis  asked:

For mod Paula, I feel exactly like that. I told my friends that I was nonbinary(didn't know what else to call it), but I was okay with them using she/her with me because it's more convenient around strangers and teachers. I'm sure that if I asked, they would use they/them, but I don't want to be a bother I guess. I don't really know what to call myself besides nonbinary

Mmmm yes nonbinary does sound a lot like it but it doesn´t quite feel right, idk I just dont really want to label myself as anything label wise I just wanna exist as me and well I was born as a girl and its just a lot easier and less stressful to address you with the pronouns you grew up with and also less of a hassle about legal stuff or paperwork and my dude German is like the worst country considering bureaucracy like my dude we even call it bureaucracy monster in German xD cause it´s so much paperwork for the simplest things

- Mod Paula

anonymous asked:

Ok but also like 17 year old Alex and Lexa outside in just shorts and sports bras passing football and laughing and smiling. Lexa just suddenly catches the ball and holds it for a sec while she stares at Alex smiling. Alex is confused then sees a tear fall down her mommas check so the runs over and Lexa gets all sentimental cause she's just so proud of her baby and so happy that her little girl grew up to be a beautiful young woman and just gives her a tight hug and kisses her head.

I LOVE them

anonymous asked:

I don't think that's true necessarily, just like the Teen Titans reboot the main demographic they're aiming at is kids in general.

I’ve been following this reboot since it began, I think I would know who they’re trying to target. In fact, there’re several articles on my blog I’ve linked to that say how the show is allegedly targeting EVERYONE, but I’ve got this particular article on hand here.

“With the original fans now young adults, we think it’s the perfect time to introduce a new generation to the girls and give moms of young daughters an opportunity to share their love for Blossom, Bubbles and Buttercup,” Yoder says of the young Townsville, USA crime-fighting trio.

And not only did they create toys to sell based off of the reboot, but they also created things like PPG themed makeup and PPG themed clothing and fashion accessories from designers… for adult women. Women who grew up with the show are ABSOLUTELY on their radar when it comes to this new iteration.

anonymous asked:

Hi, so I've been struggling in discovering my sexuality lately. I identify as female and know I like girls and have had crushes on them but I have also liked guys. The only thing is that when I got close to a guy romantically and they asked me out on a date, I would run and not want to commit. Also in all my more intimate dreams with guys I've been uncomfortable except for one dream where I was a guy and with a girl (although I'm very confident in my gender identity, she/her), am I gay? Or bi?

this is how one of my friends was! she realized she had this feint idea that she liked guys so she tried dating them but didn’t like it at all. she figured out that she only thought she liked guys because she grew up her whole life thinking she *had* to like guys because that’s what the social norm was. but really she liked just girls all along! she’s in a very happy relationship with her girlfriend now. 

that’s just what the case was with my friend, but it is possible that you could still be attracted to some guys. i would just say don’t limit yourself, but don’t go into a relationship that you’re uncomfortable with <3 

deeplysunkissed  asked:

96 (jealous) mileveeeen

El always thought it was adorable how modest Mike was, but as he continued to deny Carly Thompson’s feelings for him it got frustrating. Carly was assigned as Mike’s chemistry partner for the last semester their sophomore year and her advances grew increasingly flirtatious, always flipping her hair or donning low cut tops. Of course El knew Mike would never cheat on her, but that didn’t mean she’d let girls push up on Mike.

Mike, El, Lucas, Dustin, Wil and Max were all at Mike’s locker about to go to lunch when Carly apprached Mike, asking for help on last night’s homework. The group walked a few feet to give them privacy, El lingering reluctantly. 

El was stealing glances at the two when Max elbowed her. 

“Chill El. You know Mike wouldn’t.”

“I know, but just… ugh! How can he not see that she’s clearly flirting with him?” El said, crossing her arms.

“Cause he only has eyes for yooooooou.” Dustin teased causing El to flush. 

The all heard a guffaw and looked back to see Carly’s head tipped back as if Mike told the world’s funniest joke, her hand on his forearm. Mike was chucking shyly, his face slightly flushed. 

El let out a shocked gasp and Carly leaned forward, planting her lips on Mike’s swiftly. Mike’s eyes bugled out of his head as Carly put a hand on his shoulder, pulling him closer.

Carly flew back, as if she was yanked, and slammed hard against the lockers. 

“I’m going to fucking kill her.”

Before El could storm her way to them, Carly ran away screaming. Mike looked over to see a fuming El making her way towards him.

“El she kissed me I swear!”

“I saw that, but you didn’t push her off!” El said, feeling her eyes moisten.

“I-I was in shock! She was laughing just laughing at my joke about covalent bonds and then she’s kissing me!”

“I told you she liked you!” El yelled, a tear running down her cheek.

“Well I don’t care cause I only want you!” Mike yelled back. 

El’s face softened as Mike cupped her face and wiped her stray tear with his thumb. 

“I don’t want you to think anyone could ever, ever come between us because no one can. I’ll always love you El Byers. Forever.” Mike swears, smiling down at her adoringly.

“You can’t promise that.” El said, smiling sadly.

“I can and I did.” Mike said, swooping down to gently place his lips on hers. El smiles into the kiss, reaching up to wrap her arms around his neck.

“Get a room!” Lucas jeered jokingly.

“Yeah if you lovers are done, there’s hot pizzas to be eaten!” Dustin yelled.

I hope you liked this! I hope I get more mileven requests cause lord knows it’s been a while since I wrote about mileven!

When you stop reading a fanfic because the reader is supposed to be like childhood friends with the dude. Sus, I’m black, chill. I ain’t suddenly finna be some girl who grew up in Japan/Korea. Find some other way to develop a friendship between the characters

I was Drunk.// Min Yoongi PT2

You were expecting much, atleast not what you had encountered.

Him being older than you was established and you saw he liked older women and flirted with them when you first met him.

You were a very dark skinned girl than most asian chicks since you mother had come from Mexico and met your dad. Other than that you grew up in Korea.

Your complexion attracted so many men, you knew this. But it was more a fantasy of one night than a commitment to you. You were a fantasy , you knew that well.

The fact you practically wanted to run away to your studio was hard when your feet felt like they were glued to the ground.

You wanted to be mad , you thought everything over. Does he think i’m a fantasy too? But you shit those thoughts out when you realized that you slept alone and he rejected your drunk attempts for him to take you.

You stared at him, somewhat still drunk with the toxins from yesterday.

“Is this a joke ? Am i one of your one-time fantasy ?” you looked at him when his reaction to your question were a shock to him.

You took a step away from him that felt impossible at the time.

Why would he take you seriously, he probably thought you were one of those girls and wanted a one time thing. Just like everybody else, no strings attached.

“I’m not that type of person” you said as you headed to your studio as your head started to feel it might burst at any moment.

You opened your door , and set your stuff down. Your door suddenly slamed shut as you quickly turned around.

Hands suddenly gripped your waist and pushed you to your desk.

“You think i’m not attracted to you, fuck i can’t keep my hands to myself when i’m around you.” Min yoongi mumbled as his face was inches away.

“Every guy says the same thing and leaves me the next day, since you met me you never noticed me.” you whispered as you got lost into his eyes .

“Didn’t notice you, i practically made Hoseok to introduce me to you. I’m not everyguy , i wasn’t sure if you were into me .” He scoffed.

You looked at hos face , something to tell you like the millionth of time they didn’t mean it.

“You want me just how i want you, do you know how fucking bad i wanted to say yes to go back to your apartment. You kept teasing me all night after you found me. ” He suddenly grabbed your neck and brought his face closer as he started to kiss your neck soflty.

“You kept teasing and teasing , did you think it didn’t have consequences.” He said between bites and kisses .

Gasps and moans suddenly started to come out of you when he started sucking on your skin. You whined as he stopped and took of his hoodie.

You were about to panick right there and then, but your eyes suddenly met his his neck. Hickies were everywhere . Was that you….

“I had to hide them since there were many fans outside.” He said as laughed at your horrified reaction.

“I-i didn’t remeber that” you said as your hands reached his chest and went up to his neck as his eyes turned dark.

“What else did i do?” You said as you looked at his chest avoiding any type of reaction.

“You were on my lap as you gave me this , and we kissed” he said grabbing your face and touching his lips with his thumb.

“You called me daddy too, i wouldn’t mind hearing that again” he said as he whispered near your ear.

Your eyes went wide as you almost fell back into your desk that was digging into your back.

He reached up and carried you up and sat you on your desk.

“I wouldn’t mind hearing it again you know” he said as he leaned into your face.

You moved your hands from your waist and put them against his shoulders to bring him closer.

You had a glint in your eyes that he couldn’t miss, he saw those determination eyes last night. Those eyes that made him loose control. The eyes that pleaded him to take them home.

“Make me ” you whispered.

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I wasn’t going to post bc I’ve been so worried about Hurricane Irma but I just wanted to remind ppl that it’s hitting the carribean right now and I hope you guys will keep them in their thoughts and prayers. I was born in Texas but I grew up in the Virgin Islands as well and that’s where my family is from. They’re the ones who first taught me what pride looks like and to love my blackness. Embracing my heritage and culture is what ultimately made me the confident person I am today and I just hope and pray to God that they will make it out of this alright.
Happy Blackout.


su characters but theyre from that shitty fairy book series i read as a kid

Guys, i can’t. like. im crying. this is so real right now. jodie whittaker is the face of doctor who, but it’s even bigger than that, it’s about everything else that surrounds doctor who as a british institution and a worldwide phenomenon. board games, posters, trade cards, and action figures and comics, books, cosplay, the social influence and reputation it carries, it’s all accessible to woman in a new and intimate way. everything just changed for us. and yes, everything has changed for little boys and men too. boys will grow up seeing the doctor as a woman, seeing women as equals. men will learn to relate to to her in ways that women have been taught to relate to men. and little girls will grow up without one more limitation, they will grow up not knowing that they can’t be the hero. it’s going to cause a revolution.

Watchful Shadow

Writer - @damndescendants

Requested - @too-good-to-be-tru 

Hi! Can you do a Harry Hook x daughter of Peter Pan?

Disclaimer - I do not own any of Descendants’ characters and/or ideas all credit goes to the creator and producers of Disney Descendants

Pairing - Harry Hook x Reader

Summary – (Y/N), daughter of Peter Pan goes to the Isle with Mal only to run into an old friend

Warning(s) - none

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In a heartfelt tweet last night, Aaron Carter came out about his sexuality, saying that he’s found “boys and girls attractive” since he was 13. 

While he didn’t specifically use the word “bisexual” or any other label in his tweet, Billboard magazine says they were able to confirm that Carter was coming out as bisexual. 

Here’s the text of the tweet in its entirety: 

To start off, I would like to say that I love each and EVERY ONE of my fans. There’s something I’d like to say that I feel is important for myself and my identity that has been weighing on my chest for nearly half of my life.

This doesn’t bring me shame, just a weight and burden that I have held onto for a long time that I would like lifted off of me. I grew up in this entertainment industry at a very young age and when I was around 13 years old I started to find boys and girls attractive. There were years that went by that I thought about it, but it wasn’t until I was 17 years old, after a few relationships with girls, I had an experience with a male that I had an attraction to who I also worked with and grew up with.

To me music has always been my temple. Music will ALWAYS be what transcends all of us and myself. The studio has always been my safe haven. But the ultimate goal for me is to be satisfied. I never want to be a figure of disappointment. 

The best quote to sum: “I’ve never felt as though I didn’t belong, I just acted as though I did.” -Boy George

Aaron was my very first childhood crush, and this is a really beautiful moment for him to share, especially since he’s had a bit of a rough year. Congrats, friend. (via Billboard)

i fucking hate when a het girl shows me a pic of some ugly guy and when i tell her he’s ugly she’s like “you’re a lesbian!!!” honey. sweetie. im a lesbian, not blind and neither have i been living in a canalization away from folks, eating sports illustrated magazines for 18 years bc i grew up in a heteronormative society where people expected me to find certain men attractive. or men at all. i know what good looking men look like but your man ain’t it and is just shit sorry


When I was 10 years old I fell in love with the little girl on the left who was ready to change the world with her guitar. The girl on the right is her now. She grew up to be the strongest and most inspiring woman of our generation, the one who pickes up the bricks and makes the most beautiful castles. I will never be sorry for picking her as my rolemodel.

anonymous asked:

So I'm going to write this character who grew up for a major part of her young life in a fighting pit without an arm, she mainly relied on the "that girl without an arm can't be a threat" and then beat their butts when their backs were turned, and I'd like her to be able to wield a sword and shield, and I'm trying to work out the logistics of that, like would it make sense for her to have a piece of wood attached to her stump to better support the shield and stuff, or am I wrong?

So I’ve kept this in my askbox for a while because I’m not sure how to respond to it. I give prompts and some writing advice on this blog.  This question is way outside my limited expertise. I’ll throw it out there in case someone has an answer.

Storage Room (M)

Originally posted by seagulljjk

╳ Pairing: Jungkook x Reader

╳ Genre: (one shot) smut 

╳ Summary: You didn’t know that accidentally being locked in a storage room with Jungkook could turn out to be so fun.

All you wanted to do was go to the mall by yourself and have a relaxing day but no, of course that can’t happen. You were just walking by a store, glancing at a display window, admiring a cute outfit until you heard screams. You quickly whipped your head around to see a swarm of girls coming at you. You had no time to think before you got pushed into the store, the employees freaking out trying to shut the door, and a guy in all black pacing back and forth.

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I remember when I was 12 “I Kissed a Girl” came out. It was one of the biggest songs of the year and it left me so utterly confused. Was it okay if I wanted to kiss a girl? Would people know that I might to kiss girls if I sang it? Was wanting to kiss a girl about sex?

The general outrage from some parents, including my own, about the lyrics of the song and the video terrified me even more. It made something that was already confusing and scary for me feel even more sinister and wrong. I grew up hearing the word gay being thrown around as an insult. I knew that some guys like guys and some girls liked girls, but barely knew what “that’s so gay” was actually supposed to mean except that it was an insult and the idea of homosexuality was taboo. I was scared, alone, and resigned to ignore my feelings.

I remember so many of my friends changing the lyrics to “I Kissed a Boy” and it made me feel even more confused. They talked about kissing boys and holding hands and I realized that while I didn’t want to do those things with boys, I wanted to do them with girls. But kissing girls was supposed to mean having sex with girls. And at 12, I wasn’t interested or ready to think about that. I just wanted to hold hands and kiss someone who liked me too like my friends. Liking girls seemed like this inherently sexual thing.

One of the things that bugged me when “In a Heartbeat”, was announced was the response that some individuals had that the characters were too young. As if 12 year olds having their first crush was inherently sexual as long as it wasn’t heterosexual. It was something that plagued me for years, the idea that liking someone of the same gender or not of the “opposite” gender was always supposed to be exclusively sexual and couldn’t be romantic or involve feeling no matter what age you were. Those feelings would never be anything but
al deviancy whether you were a kid or an adult. That romantic and platonic relationships for people who were gay would always be exclusively sexual in some way.

The response of the filmmakers to immediately shoot down those critics and the finished short film gave me something I’d been missing as a scared kid. “In a Heartbeat” captured both the innocence of a first crush and the fear not being accepted by others because it was “wrong”. It was simple in the same way it was complicated. It wasn’t just about a middle school crush. It was about normalizing and not sexualizing being gay. That finding that you might not be straight or that you have feelings for someone of the same gender isn’t inherently sexual. Why should kids having crushes or those feeling be sexualized that way because it’s not heterosexual? Having your first crush and discovering having romantic feelings for someone is scary. And it’s scarier realizing that there are people who think it’s wrong or internalizing the idea of it being wrong, of you being wrong. And it’s terrifying. But there isn’t anything wrong. It’s not any more sexual. It’s normal. And there’s hope that people will accept you and your feeling.

This is just a bunch or rambling but I feel very strongly about this short film and it means so much to me now as an adult.