the gayness of it all i love it

It pisses me off so much that countless people are going to see BATB and then returning and going ‘uwu all those hateful angry gays were wrong!! le fou was so great!!’ like

1) even if, magically, le fou was a fantastic character and fantastic rep, it doesn’t change the fact that people ABSOLUTELY can be wary of Disney fucking up yet another thing

and 2) le fou’s gayness was a joke when it was explicit, but he still wasn’t allowed to be truly gay - I went with my straight family and they all missed EVERYTHING. he dances with a transmisogynistic joke guy at the end of the movie for like four seconds - ACCIDENTALLY - his affection/care for gaston is a joke when gaston isn’t manipulating him with it, and the funny gay sidekick desperately in love with a mean straight guy isn’t… good rep at all

finally 3) gay actors being in the movie means shit if they’re playing straights, especially when the gay character is a joke and there’s an awful transmisogynistic joke

all of y'all can shut up

anonymous asked:

I'm straight but I think you should really stop talking about being gay so much. It doesn't help the LGBT community at all, and it's really quite excessive.

‘i’m straight but…..’

I, a Gay, would just like to say, with my Gay Voice, that you, a Straight™ (ie not Gay like me), have no right to tell me, a Gay, that me talking about my Gayness is excessive.

Do I, a Gay, complain, with my Gay Voice, when Straights™, being not Gay like me, marry someone they don’t love and cringe every time they see a Gay Couple, like me, a Gay, kiss or hold hands, in a Gay Way

Do I, a Gay, complain, with my Gay Voice, when Straight Cis Men™ refuse to even change a diaper or make their own meals? Do I, a Gay, complain, with my Gay Voice, when Straight Cis Women™ laugh uncomfortably when Gay Folk refer to their partners as wife/husband/spouse, in a Gay Way

Do I, a Gay, complain, with my Gay Voice, when Straights™ use slurs as jokes to prove how Straight™ they are because ‘Haha, Chad, don’t worry, I’m not a homo!’? 

Do I, a Gay, complain, with my Gay Voice, when Straights™ whine about having too many Gays, like me, on television, because it’s ‘not realistic’ that so many people are Gay, like me, a Gay?

I mean. Those are bad examples because I, a Gay, most certainly do complain, with my Gay Voice!

In conclusion…

Shut the fuck up. I’ve been in the closet for almost two decades. If I want to talk about my gender and sexuality, I fucking can. :) Sweetie :)

~I’m Gay~

(please note my use of Straight™)

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Black Girls Classics

The Playlist Series: African American/Black American Weddings, The First Dance

Requested By: riamonaee15

Etta James: At Last
K-Ci & JoJo: All My Life
Whitney Houston: I Will Always Love You
John Legend: Stay With You
Patti LaBelle: If Only You Knew
SWV: You’re Always On My Mind
The Isley Brothers: For the Love of You
John Legend: You & I
Beyonce: Halo
Faith Evans: I Love You
Four Tops/Whitney Houston: I Believe In You and Me
Tammi Terrel & Marvin Gaye/Cheryl Lynn & Luther Vandross: If This World Were Mine
Anita Baker: Sweet Love
Percy Sledge: When a Man Loves a Woman
New Edition: Can You Stand the Rain
Rufus & Chaka Khan: Sweet Thing
Jill Scott: He Loves Me
Nat King Cole & Natalie Cole: Unforgettable
Whitney Houston: You Give Good Love
Jaheim: Anything
Rose Royce: Wishing on A Star
Ginuwine: Differences
The O'Jays: Stairway to Heaven
Mariah Carey: When I Saw You
Aaliyah: At Your Best (You Are Love)
Dru Hill: These Are the Times
Babyface: Every Time I Close My Eye
Brian McKnight: Back At One
Minne Riperton: Loving You
India Arie: Ready For Love
Troop: All I Do Is Think of You
Prince: Adore
Kindred The Family: Where Would I be
Chaka Khan: Through the Fire
Jagged Edge: Promise
Dondria: You’re the One
Kevon Edmonds: 24/7
Kem: I Can’t Stop Loving You
Stevie Wonder/Luther Vandross/Donell Jones: Knocks Me Off My Feet
Tony! Toni! Tone!: Whatever You Want
Musiq Soulchild: Dontchange
Beyonce: Speechless
Seal: Kiss From A Rose
Case: Happily Ever After
Kem: Share My Life
Keyshia Cole: Love
Gerald Levert: Made to Love You
Musiq Soulchild: Love
The Deele: Two Occasions
Mawell: Fortunate
Xscape: The Arms of the One Who Loves You
India Arie: The Truth
Tendy Pendergrass: Love T.K.O
Kenny Lattimore: For You
SWV: Weak
Musiq Soulchild: sobeautiful
Mariah Carey: Vision of Love
Aretha Franklin: You’re All I Need
Gladys Kinght & The Pimps: Best Thing That Happened to Me
Beyonce: Rather Die Young
Luther Vandross: Here and Now
Pressure: Love And Affection
Heatwave/Luther Vandross: Always & Forever
Chaka Khan: Ain’t Nobody
John Legend: All of Me
Alicia Keys: If I Ain’t Got You
Luther Vandross: All The Woman I Need
Ruff Endz: Someone to Love You
Stevie Wonder: You and I
Beyonce: Dangerously In Love
Avant & Keye Wyatt: You & I
Shanice: I Love Your Smile
Maria Carey: Open Arms
Musiq Soulchild: Teachme
Roberta Flack & Donny Hathaway/Beyonce & Luther Vandross: The Closer I Get to You
John Legend: P.D.A. (We Just Don’t Care)
Stevie Wonder: Signed, Sealed Delivered (I’m Yours)
Atlantic Starr: Always
Luther Vandross & Mariah Care: Endless Love
Blackstreet: Let’s Stay in Love
John Legend: So High
Lionel Richie & Diana Ross: Endless Love
Whitney Houston: Greatest Love of All
Mariah Carey: Underneath the Stars
Jagged Edge: Good Luck Charm

comprehensive analysis of sam & cap meeting for the first time
  • ‘oh hey look how fast i can run look how fast and cool i am look at me’
  • cap is wearing a t shirt 2 sizes 2 small that may as well be soaking wet come the fuck on cap put on some fucking clothes
  • i can’t hear anything steve is saying over his flexing
  • ‘what unit u with? where u work? what’s ur name? u got a boyfriend? where yo boyfriend at?’
  • flimsy excuse to hold hands (’oh help me up from this tree i’m so tired i can’t possibly get up by myself’)
  • sam immediately all ‘must be weird coming home after the whole defrosting thing’ like wow personal much? buy a guy a drink first
  • steve is like ‘uh ya it’s weird that’s personal buy a guy a drink first’ and goes to leave
  • sam: -anguished expression- oh god i fucked it up
  • sam:

damn it sam save it! save it! don’t let him go! -says the first thing that pops into his head-

  • steve like

‘what the fuck buy a guy several drinks first?’

  • sam: your bed, it’s too soft. when I was over there I’d sleep on the ground, use rocks for pillows, like a caveman.

steve:

  • what
  • sam: -explains what the fuck he’s talking about, beds are too soft, etc etc etc’
  • steve: ohhhh the marshmallow bed thing? ya i get that. fucking soft beds right haha -is apparently into the whole caveman thing-
  • sam: nice, saved it -high fives self-
  • steve: -demonstrates how Knowledgeable he is and how much Perspective he has and how Funny he can be’ we use to boil everything!!!!
  • steve literally sounds like one of those beauty queens having a question sprung on her that she didn’t expect
  • ‘Miss New York how does the world of today compare to the days of world war 2??? 30 seconds on the clock’
  • ‘no polio is good’
  • ….’no polio is good’….
  • ‘we used to boil everything!!!’
  • somehow sam is still cool with this. it’s probably bc steve has mouth-watering melon pecs
  • Sam Makes His Move

you can tell this is his Move. he tells this to all the ladies. there’s no way you can get someone listening to marvin gaye and not get laid instantaneously

  • steve doesn’t know what the fuck sam is talking about but this is a great excuse to show off his arms by pulling out his little notebook

are you looking at those arms sam?? bc i am

  • btw
  • this

this is the face of a man who is DTF

  • ‘Miss New York, what are the most significant historical events and cultural changes that have occurred since world war two?? 30 seconds on the clock’
  • ‘uhh…. I Love Lucy. Moon Landing. Berlin wall… up and down. Steve Jobs…. apple….???? Disco. Definitely. Thai food. Star Wars and Trek. Nirvana… I’m pretty sure that’s a band. Rocky and Rocky 2. And whatever this guy just told me. idk I’ll look it up on the Google later’
  • ‘all right Sam, duty calls. Thanks for the run…… if that’s what you want to call running.’
  • ‘Oh, that’s how it is??’
  • ‘Ohhh that’s how it is.’
  • this is better flirting than i have ever implemented in my nearly ten long years after hitting puberty
  • ‘Hey anytime you want to stop by my place of employment that I told you explicitly within minutes of meeting you but now I’m bringing up again to make sure you remember where I work and where to find me again, make out with me me look awesome in front of the girl at the front desk, just let me know’
  • Steve: hella B)
  • nat: -rolls up-
  • nat:

Kobayashi-san chi no maid dragon is completely gay anime this season. They’re a happy gay family with Kobayashi as a father, Tohru as a mother, and Kanna is the child. No one can tell me otherwise. Let all the gayness from the manga version be transferred to the anime. Amen.

Parents on a date:

Originally posted by dracobane1

Bonding time of mother and daughter:

Originally posted by aidoru-ojisan

Father and daughter playing:

Originally posted by wakata

Well, this is from op, and i just love it

Originally posted by aku-no-homu

I might love this series a little bit too much

Bonus scene from the manga mother scolding father:

EDIT : it is my bad that i put Kobayashi as a ‘father’ and putting the heteronormative roles to both of them. It was my bad and i was not considerate. I really do feel bad, and i apologize to everyone who has seen this post. And i’m not going to change anything above so that anyone who reads can learn from the mistake that i made. Restatement: Kobayashi is not a father! They’re a happy family. Thank you for everyone who has pointed out the mistake! The society i’m living in is not really friendly with the LGBT+ community so my mindset is still contaminated with such norms, so i make mistake every now and then, but that’s not an excuse, i’m really sorry and thank you!
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Ok guys I’m sorry I’m not uploading some stuff but here’s some bnha sketches done in october/november uploaded on twitter,  if you’d like to follow me there here’s my account GAYNESS SHRINE
I’m working on commissions, deadlines for projects THAT I WILL SHOW YOU ASAP, I just need time to define everything.
I’m also working on some merchandise to sell at japan expo, obviously I’ll have BNHA Stuff. If time helps I will make a sort of BNHA charms pre-order if you’re interested, I’ve never done something like this so…dunno? I hope you’ll be interested :^ I could upload here on tumblr some preview!




So heres a rant about Lefou with some points that I think a lot of people are missing. He's just a character that has a thing for dudes.

I get that we all want More™ representation for the lbgt+ community but I think his inclusion (and the way it was handled) was done EX-TREAMly well. This wasn’t a story about a gay guy. It was a story about a headstrong girl challenging gender norms and becoming a furry due to stockholm syndrome. This wasn’t meant to be a story about a gay guy.

While more reprensentation is deffiently on our wish lists, I believe that this movie is a sign of what is to come. It’s a stepping stone and I think we need to stop discrediting it. ((also the movie was flipping beautiful so stop!!))

People are mad that The Fool was our tokin gay guy but honestly!? Disney deliberately transformed The Fool into such a beautiful person? His character development was spectacular and well paced. The growing tension between his morals and Gaston as time went on, his singing numbers were fab, and he had his own mini redemption arc and became a hero at the end! Plus his happy ending was.. like perfect???

Some people are mad at his “it was *only* two seconds (if that)” of dance time but. like. Thats the trope.? Its suuuch a common trope for the sidekick character to cutely/clumsily bump into their love in the last scene of the movie with the music playing and get their alluded happily ever after. that. like? How are you mad at that?? This feel good trope is so well known and now its being twisted because you wanted more gayness? This wasn’t *his* story!

And like. his gayness didn’t even begin and end in that scene?? He was fab at the tavern and all throughout the darn movie flaunting his stuff, winking at gaston and comfortably, unapologetically being himself. ((I mean. Thats the kind of representation i want)) Le Fou is so much more than just his orientation and I think Disney did an amazing job at portraying that. Disney made a dynamic character with a compelling story (that stole the heart of damn near everyone who watched the movie) who just so happened to be gay. And I think thats great??? It would have been totally different if his being gay was the focal part of his character but he is so much more than just that label!

Honestly, Lefou’s character representation in this film shows how much Disney cares about this. I doubt they want to throw something together to appease our hungry butts but have it done the wrong way or not at the right time. And besides, as sad as it is, the world isn’t ready for Disney to just: BAM GAY!! all up on everyone. Yeah, sure it wasn’t perfect. But there was so much more to this movie. There was POC romance, a fab crossdresser, historical accuracy, amazing character development all around, backstory, beautiful animation and the soundtrack (Oh the soundtrack! Be still my beating heart!) I find it hard to believe people are walking out of there bitter.

Beauty and the Beast wasn’t going to be ‘The Film About a Gay Guy.’ But I believe this is a colossal step in the right direction to getting one.

Tl;dr

This movie isn’t about a gay guy. Lefou isn’t just a gay guy. Disney turned him into so much more.

Originally posted by mgmpluto

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I’m Your Lady.. And You Are My Man - A Trio of DickKory Playlists

Because I have too much free time, I decided to make a DickKory playlist. It kind of got out of hand… so I made three…

Please send help.

Playlist 1: And She Was - Dick Grayson’s Playlist (Spotify Link; Running Time - 57mins)

Playlist 2: I Do Adore - Koriand’r’s Playlist (Spotify Link; Running Time - 52mins)

Playlist 3: All I Ask of You - A Duet Playlist (Spotify Link; Running Time - 54mins)

Cover Art is taking from the 2016 Starfire mini-series, but I honestly don’t remember which issue.

So, without further ado, enjoy the music!

Track Listings:

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Ok but please consider sincerely three having date nights once a week and alternating who picks the date like first week is Evan, next is Connor, then Jared, and then all three of them agree on something special at the end of every month (because lowkey they probably got together near the end of a month and thats kind of how they celebrate their love)

it gets long and gay oops

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anonymous asked:

Hi Ally, what are some Universe-shattering, manifesting my dreams, life's so good I could cry songs? Inspire me! X

I LOVE when you guys ask me interesting questions like this!

Here are some of the songs that touch my soul:

  • Everglow by Coldplay
  • River by Leon Bridges
  • Holocene by Bon Iver
  • Old Pine by Ben Howard
  • Rainy Season by Hunter Hayes
  • Say You Won’t Let Go by James Arthur
  • Young and In Love by Hunter Hayes
  • Tenerife Sea by Ed Sheeran
  • Everything by Michael Buble
  • Shower The People by James Taylor
  • Fire and Rain by James Taylor
  • Up On The Roof by James Taylor
  • Free Fallin by John Mayer
  • Hold You In My Arms by Ray LaMontagne
  • Unwritten by Natasha Bedingfield (honestly best song of all time)
  • Landslide by Fleetwood Mac (but I think I prefer the Glee cover)
  • You’re All I Need To Get By by Marvin Gaye (again, the Glee version)
  • Just Imagine It by MKTO (rip to one of the best bands ever)

anonymous asked:

What are the top 5 podcasts you recommend?

Oooooh, anon, that is a difficult question, because I listen to so many, and would also recommend different ones if you like different genres.

Oh, but first, I’m not gonna rec Welcome to Night Vale (or anything from Night Vale Presents), mostly because it’s on virtually every podcast rec list, and if you’re asking for more podcasts, you’re probably already in the process of listening to it, or have already done so.

(The recs are under the cut, bc I love podcasts too much and went a little crazy with the descriptions and why I recommend them)

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YASSSSs MY first Yuri On Ice fanart  (ノ ヮ )ノ*:・゚✧ ofc my first fanart of it would be such trash

This show is LIT af, definitely exceeded my expectations as a sports anime in terms of plot, animation and gayness, 10/10 would recommend

“Yes! How [Sol] felt about Frankie was clearly v different to how Robert felt about Grace [therefore he can’t be gay.]”

ah yes of course because all gay men are actually the same person. and women are interchangeable and all relationships are the same i guess, how could i forget

“YES. I wish they would allow men to be bi on this show; it would make so much more sense and be so much more meaningful.”

…ANYWAY i love sol bergstein and his meaningless explicit gayness

(look i don’t really care if you want to imagine that he’s bi, it’s fine, that would have been fine canon too, i just chafe at people’s reasons why someone MUST not be gay because they’re basically always horseshit and the idea that robert and sol’s complex experiences are insufficiently meaningful unless they’re attracted to women is just, can we not)

Old Meets New Soul

some songs and their samples & more :)

Might Be // Anderson .Paak
Who Can I Run To // Xscape
Olive // denitia and sene
In Your River // Snoh Aalegra
Distant Lover // Marvin Gaye
Permisson // Ro James
Brothers Gonna Work It Out // Willie Hutch
Sweet November // SZA
Mandota // Marvin Gaye
You Are Everything // the Stylisticks
Full of Smoke // Christion
Paradise // Daniel Caesar
Never Say You Can’t Survive // Curtis Mayfield
Dear Summer Sixteen // dvsn
In Your Eyes // BADBADNOTGOOD
MATH // QUIÑ
Pour Maman // Gabriel Barzón l-Montano
Magnus Carlsen // The Game Anderson .Paak
Rocket Love // Stevie Wonder
Cruel Intentions // JMSN
Cause I Love You // Lenny Williams
Mad // Solange
Get Bigger/ Do U Luv // NxWxrries
In Summertime // Ronnie Mcneir
Make Yours A Happy Home // Gladys Knight
My Sweet Love // October London
Cameras/ Good Ones Go // Drake
Calling On You // Jon B
Focus // H.E.R.
RusK // Swisher Sweet
Close To You // Frank Ocean
Close To You/ Never Can Say Goodbye // Stevie Wonder
Angela // Dvsn
Adore You // NAO
Something Else // Kelela
Moments in Love // Art of Noise
Inner City Blues // Marvin Gaye
Table // Little Simz, Kehlani
Use Your Heart // SWV
Playing Your Game // Barry White
People Make the World Go Round // The Stylisticks
Barcelona // River Tiber
Tell me // Groove Theory
Misdemeanor // Foster Sylvers, the Sylvers
Home // Snoh Aalegra
Look of Love // Isaac Hayes
Cold Outside // Ari Lennox
Miyazaki // Gallant
Dance // Damar Jackson
Dance Tonight // Lucy Pearl
When Did You Stop Loving Me // Marvin Gaye
I Can’t Go For That // Hall & Oates