the feels men!

Tbh unless you are making a deliberate effort to hear and respectfully acknowledge people’s concerns, anger, or hurt feelings about your behaviour, there is a 100% chance that unspoken resentments are quietly forcing distance into your relationships.

If people feel like they can have a productive conversation with you when something’s not working, tiny things can be adjusted as you go instead of building into the kind of huge divides that end relationships bitterly.

Communication goes both ways. You gotta be able to take in what they need to say, or they’ll stop telling you when something’s wrong.

lmao all these people in the tag bitching a) ‘you wanna tell me elizabeth would let her son work for the navy and chase after pirates???’ and b) ‘you wanna tell me elizabeth wouldn’t follow will???’ YES I wanna tell you BOTH THOSE THINGS ‘cause a) sit down she was always the biggest Pirate Nerd™ and seeker of adventure and her own freedom so no way in davy jones’ soggy locker would she ever forbid henry from his own adventures especially if it was to connect with his father when he could and b) will wanted her to stay safe and told her to keep his heart safe and that’s difficult to do if she’s lugging a chest around from bunk to bunk on whatever derelict ship she’s booked passage on and you know he wouldn’t be happy with her living on some other ship chasing him whenever she could and he wouldn’t be happy with her living on his ship (also how was she supposed to do that??? sell her soul to the sea and lmao over will’s undead body was that happening) he never wanted them to be mr. & mrs. barnacle he wanted her to be safe and Idk maybe spend some time RAISING THEIR CHILD until he could come back to them so ya’ll can stop questioning actual queen of my life pirate king elizabeth swann

A PSA for people commenting on the Alamo’s women-only showings:

Getting real tired of people sneering that the women-only showings are a marketing ploy. Who cares? Businesses make money. That’s kind of their thing. If they can make extra money by doing a particular thing, it’s in their best interest to do it. Great! Here’s the thing:

WE ALL KNOW THAT. You’re not special or intellectually superior for going “ugh, don’t you people realize they’re a BUSINESS and they’re doing this FOR MONEY?”

1. Yes. Allow me to present a new idea to you: people can do things for more than one reason! A business owner can, for example, support a charity AND benefit from the positive press that comes from doing so.
2. Perhaps it is worth celebrating that something like celebrating women and donating to Planned Parenthood is a good business move? Hey, things that are good to do are popular to do! Progress!
3. Sneering at everyone doesn’t make you cool, thinking you’re smarter than everyone just makes you an asshole.

reblog if you would actually date a chubby boy

i see a lot of chubby boys say that they dont feel as though anybody would actually date them; even the ppl that make positivity posts abt chubby boys. being a chubby boy myself, i cant help but to feel the same way.

so, if you would date a chubby boy, not for any fetish purposes, then could you please reblog this? it’d make all of us happy to know that we are loved in a non-fetishized way

Pretty proud of the progress I’ve made towards my body goals… bulking starts Monday

While I Was Clearing Out My Desktop, I Found This Gem

It Still Remains as One of My Life Goals: Find Someone Who Will Hug Me the Same Way Oscar Hugged Evan

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Important to the Medblr and Nurblr community - as well as the other hardworking women who are both a mother and a professional.

You don’t have to feel guilty about pursuing your passion while raising a family.