the encouragement anon

It’s okay to question your sexuality. 
It’s okay if you find a perfect label right off the bat.
It’s okay if it takes you years to figure it out. 
It’s okay to spend years questioning your sexuality just to realize that you actually were heterosexual. It doesn’t make your experiences any less valid. 

Questioning your sexuality is a normal part of life, some know what they are right away, but others may take longer to know. 

Whether you find a label or not, or if you question for days or years to figure it out, your experiences ARE real. 

Always remember no matter what, you are valid, your questioning is valid, your choices are valid, and I wish you so much luck in your self discovery journey. ❤️ 

The Edge of the Night

She wasn’t sure why it had come to a head at 1:17 AM on the last day of July, but that’s when it happened.

Tom didn’t know why he’d woken up, but even in the dark he knew right away that Taylor wasn’t in the bed alongside him.  He pulled on a t-shirt and left the bedroom, walking down and finding her in the den, curled up on the corner of the couch, surrounded by darkness.

“Hey,” he said softly when he entered the room.  He didn’t want to startle her. “Whats wrong?”  He sat down beside her and rested a hand on her back.

“I can’t do it, I’m sorry,” she said, turning away, tears streaming down her face. “I can’t go back with you. It’s too much.” She stood and walked to the other side of the room and looked out the window at the pitch black backyard. “I’m sorry.”

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anonymous asked:

My grades have been suffering lately, and my anxiety hasn't been much help. Especially with the quarter ending in just a few days, and a 78 average in a core subject, that I have no way of raising. I just need a hug, and maybe a star, please?

You can have both, anon. *hugs*

I know how stressful classes can be (stupidly stressful). They can make you feel inadequate, ashamed, stupid, and like you’re the only one who’s struggling.

It’ll be okay though. In all honesty, as long as you pass the class you’ll be fine- no one’s going to say “hey why did you get such a low grade on this one assignment from this one class? HUH??”. (as far as I know).

If you’re really worried about your grade, see if your teacher will work with you to raise it! You’d be surprised how may teachers/professors are willing to work with students to help them pass. I did that once and my professor had me re-do an assignment to get a higher grade on it :>

I hope this helps. You’re doing your best, anon, and all this stress will be over soon. Stay strong <3

Keep on shining!
♥ Courtney

Here’s to the people questioning their gender and sexuality

Here’s to the people who were questioning for weeks, or years and still don’t have a label that fits them. 
Here’s to the people who just started questioning and already found a label. 
Here’s to the people who don’t even want a label. 

Figuring out your gender is difficult. Since the day we’re born, we’re forced into either “male” or “female” binaries, and are often told that we don’t have any other options. Suddenly feeling as though you don’t fit into those binaries is confusing, to say the least. 

Figuring out your sexuality is just as difficult. There’s a vast spectrum of sexualities that you probably didn’t even know existed. 

I want to tell all of you something; questioning your gender and sexuality is a normal part of life. Some people know exactly what they are without having to question, others can spend years questioning until they find something that fits them. 

It’s okay to question only to find out that you’re actually cis or straight. It does not make you a liar. It does not mean your experiences are any less real or valid. 

Questioning is normal, there is nothing to be ashamed of. 

anonymous asked:

Can I request a star for @notcondraws She's fighting a lot of demons right now, and her health has severely deteriorated in the past few weeks. I'd like her to know that she's strong and she is more than her depression. And that she has so much courage and fight. {sorry started crying} I just wish she knew....

Sure!

This star is for @notcondraws, who sounds like an amazing person. You are incredibly strong and have so much courage and fight, don’t let your depression and demons get the better of you. Take care of yourself, and know that you will be able to make it through this tough time. Show those demons who’s boss <3

Keep on shining!
♥ Courtney

anonymous asked:

When you want to buy the Twice Fanclub Membership but shipping it to the UK is expensive (£45.91 in total with shipping) and you're really poor R.I.P

That’s too much money, the shipping is so ridiculous

Anonymous said to incorrecttwicequotes: Ah! I’m so excited! They released some information about TWICE Japanese debut AND about their album!! ;w; Im not ready for anything. TWICE always me enough already #soproudtobeaONCE -Encouragement Bug

Ooh finally some more info about the Japan debut, I’m so excited. Main vocalists Mina, Sana and Momo rise

Anonymous said to incorrecttwicequotes: I sometimes question my sexuality when I look at mina and momo. Gosh. What am I? Still straight? Bi? Les?

Yeah pretty girls can do that to you. Sometimes I think I might actually be a lesbian but then I watch Monsta X’s beautiful MV and I’m like, nope definitely still attracted to males

Anonymous said to incorrecttwicequotes: Here to save some lifes yall twitter(.)com/myouiminart/status/844079808703209472

https://twitter.com/myouiminart/status/844079808703209472

How to Save a Life by the Fray plays dramatically while I cry over this photo collection

Anonymous said to incorrecttwicequotes: The holy duet twitter(.)com/hiraimim0/status/843844224147632129

https://twitter.com/hiraimim0/status/843844224147632129

We’ve been blessed

Anonymous said to incorrecttwicequotes: twitter(.)com/twicetw1ce/status/829450706381856775 AIGOOO BLESS MY SOUL

https://twitter.com/twicetw1ce/status/829450706381856775

She’s so cute, and in that moment we were all aigooo blessed

Anonymous said to incorrecttwicequotes: I’ve gotten so used to seeing peoples posture that I can tell twice apart (almost) completely by their posture and not their faces or hair (it’s like this with a couple of other groups too) - ,’:^) anon

That’s actually impressive, I can sort of go by body shape and height a little bit. But I usually have to see their faces to be sure.

Anonymous said to incorrecttwicequotes: Hi, I just want to ask if you know what is the meaning of 트둥이? I think it is related to Twice but I am not sure what is it. I search it up on google but all I see is korean characters and I can see Twice videos and photos. I hope you enlighten me with this. Thank you.

It’s to do with the ‘Twice Characters’ that have been announced on twitter, people still aren’t one hundred percent sure what exactly they are

Anonymous said to incorrecttwicequotes: I just watched Momo’s Hit The Stage performances and I can’t even describe how shook I am. Like it was literally the coolest thing I’ve ever seen. Also the Mimo one just shook me off my chair, I’m pretty sure I’m not okay

THE MIMO HIT THE STAGE PERFORMANCE WILL ALWAYS BE MY FAVOURITE THING OK I LOVE IT SO MUCH

Anonymous said to incorrecttwicequotes: okay so i lowkey(highkey) ship saida, and there was one gif I saw of when Dahyun graduated and everyone surprised her, and Sana literally sprinted to be the first one to hug her and it gives me life ok (also can we talk about how she literally wouldn’t let anyone else near Dahyun for the entire v-live bc wow Sana.)

That graduation vlive was basically a Saida fest not gonna lie. Sana was so excited and proud of her that she wouldn’t let go

anonymous asked:

I !!!! Would love!!!! OMGCP fairy tale fics!!!

Haha y'all have been super excited about this, so I’m working on it!

Right now I have three in the works:
Holsom Snow White, Zimbits Beauty and the Beast, Charmer The Little Mermaid

On backlog:
Trans!Dex as Merida, Zimbits Cinderella, Zimbits The Golden Goose, and Holsom Little Mermaid. (and there was a request for Zimbits Mulan which I’m not sure I’ll do because the story is so China-centric and I don’t want to steal it, but I’m trying to think of ways it might work)

Things I’m interested in but don’t have a ship in mind for:
Sleeping Beauty, The Princess and the Pea, Aladdin, Rapunzel, The Frog Prince, Spindle Shuttle and Needle, and honestly any regional or uncommon fairy tales. I’m also open to most ships, so send me a pairing and we’ll see how it goes!