Riding an oxytocin wave into a sunset, showered in rainbows and love hearts.
Ie. Feeling really good after finally welcoming my little girl into the world. Miss Elise Noella is earthside and possibly the smooshiest thing I have ever seen 😍
Okay, I know this a personal question and if it's to personal please feel free to ignore it, but I was wounding if you cane out to your parents, if so how, and do you have advice for anyone else who wants to come out
I got out my Ouija board and was like, “Heads up, y'all, I won’t have tits when I see you in hell, so like, get hype, I guess.”
I really don’t feel like I’m settling in very well to my new apprenticeship. And I really can’t figure out why. I mean, I sort of know, I guess.
Partially because I know this midwife is moving out of state next year, and I know I’m going to possibly have to start over with someone else. Again. Because she doesn’t have a large enough client load for me to finish my numbers. AND the only other midwife I really would like to work with is also moving, in July.
And partially because this midwife is reaaaally good, and I’m always afraid I’m going to disappoint her.
I’m supposed to do a start care appointment tomorrow, which I know how to do, and I’m still so fucking anxious. It’s a lot different than being at the birth center, where everyone just filled out all of their info online, and everything was so streamlined, and I felt like I knew what I was doing because I’d been there so long. Ugh.
I’d appreciate any calm vibes anyone has to send. Because I certainly don’t have any over here. 😞
You guys know that terrible, sinking feeling you get when you thought you finally finished writting something, and then you open your work the next day, reread it and realize that it actually needs a lot of work? Because that’s how I’m feeling :,)
Hey, if you happen to know a trans person’s deadname, for any reason? Whether it’s because you knew them before they came out or you accidentally found out or they trusted you enough to tell you? Don’t tell anyone else. It’s not your information to give out and literally nobody needs to know a trans person’s deadname. If you tell somebody that without explicit permission from the trans person, then you’re an asshole.