the best thing i just!!

I married Kaze last night, because hahahaha of course I did asdfga send help, so yeah anyway I made a thing to celebrate

i’m glad to see that astro have enough free time to do these random ass vlives like jinjin just dancing around to songs was the best thing i’ve seen in ages


LET ME JUST SAY THIS: Jhope’s performance was one of my FAVORITES of the night - yall when I tell you this boy is an ANGEL I am not lying - I was uplifted, my acne cleared, I felt like I was seeing and hearing for the first time, my sickness was cured future, past and present yall - Jhope’s performance left me feeling like I was kissed by the sun, I am not exaggerating yall I felt blessed and I will be forever grateful I got to experience that live. 

Since this is becoming a thing with people I am close to:

So this seems to be happening a lot lately—where people get down in the dumps, and then suddenly, I have people coming to me (because I know the person upset) and asking me to ‘go make them happy’ and they’ll tell others to join in.


I know your heart is in the right place, but your mind is not.

If I come to you—you, and you alone—and talk to you about something personal (even if it’s talking of suicide or even a disease I might have or a death in the family), it shouldn’t be your responsibility at that moment to go tell everyone what we just discussed and blast it on the airwaves. A community should support one another as one, and I certainly get that, but sometimes we just need that ONE person to talk to and to listen to.

When we get a bunch of strangers talking to us, it can get weird, feel overcrowded, and make things worse; especially, depending the situation and the country in which that person lives.

I was born and raised in America, so I have rights and freedoms that other countries do not have. I didn’t realize how useless and not to mention, stupid, my support and ideas to address this one friend’s problems in another country halfway across the world sounded until I spoke to someone a bit more ‘in the know’ about that countries’ policies and how they handle things this morning. I found out, things are a lot more dire than I realized, and what I should be doing is just being there to try and distract their mind from the problem and hope that the pieces will fall where they may. (Seriously, I wish them the best, and I offer my support best I can as their happiness means a lot to me).

But in the end, I feel that if someone wants their problems to be public, they will make them public. It is not up for you, especially not as a friend, to decide that for them. What you may see as just a ‘oh, it’s fine to tell people about this’ moment could be super personal and upsetting to the person you’re talking to.

If I tell everyone that I am feeling like shit, mostly, it is to let you guys know why your questions have not been answered, why there’s no update, or why I seem to be avoiding people in the private messenger system. People around me seem to assume more than realize what’s going on, and I’d rather the news be there for you to see than nothing at all.

Truthfully, there are only THREE people I trust with my feelings right now, and those three will be the main women I go to during such low times—nobody else. I could be dying, and I would feel it is better they know over anybody, because I am the closest to them, and I feel that death would most impact them.

So please, guys—I am begging you all, in the future, to be respectful and mindful of the people you call your friends. Don’t just jump the gun because you’re upset they’re in a bad spot; think of them first and foremost before doing something irrational.

Okay Listen Up

Lyra lied to Winn to save her brother.

Maggie lied to Alex (about her coming out) because she wanted better for Alex.

Mon-Ew lied to Kara so that he could possibly have the chance to be with Kara.

In Lyra and Maggie’s case their intentions were to benefit someone else’s well being. In Mon-El’s case he just wanted to have a romantic relationship with Kara. That’s all he ever focuses on, I mean come on, “I love being a hero because it means I get to spend every single day by your side.” His “heroism” doesn’t come from the want to help people. He knows that Kara wouldn’t be with someone who doesn’t have the best interest in mind for the people of Earth. 

anonymous asked:

Hi! Your pins are really gorgeous and I'm hoping to make some enamel pins myself in the near future. Where do you get your foil backings printed and do you have any tips for someone just getting into making/selling pins?

Hi there! Thanks for the compliment! 

I get my foil backings printed through - they do a great job! 

As for tips, the best thing I think is to just make something you’d want to wear! I’m pretty obsessed with flowers (as evidenced by basically everything I do), so I wanted to make pins of the kinds of flowers I like. If there’s something you have a strong interest in, maybe other people will too!

And you didn’t ask, but just FYI - I get all of my pins made through Good luck!

anonymous asked:

SF Sans' treatment of UT Paps is the best thing ever. I just wanted to say that. Then I wrote this ask. And I thought... "I feel sorry for SF Paps, now...if he saw his brother be so protective of another version of himself..." So now I have to ask. I have to. What is SF Paps' reaction to seeing SF Sans interact with UT Paps?

I literally just squealed when I thought of Rus’s reaction. I love him so much. Forget Stretch, Rus is my husband. 

Original ask

Swapfell Papyrus

Rus is not upset or sad, in fact, he’s quite the opposite! He shares Black’s view of UT Papyrus and is instantly at his side. Rus sees Paps as an angel that’s too good for this world. He deserves and need all the protection he can get. And oohh man. When Papyrus pets  him?! Rus is crying from joy from being touched by such pureness. 

{could be triggering}I was doing so well. I was two months clean and now I’ve failed myself and it’s just… I don’t even know. I feel worthless and shitty. I just want to stop. And the next best thing was… this and I don’t feel better, I feel worse cause I let everyone down by hurting me. Now I’m just staring at the mess I’ve made like, great what was meant to numb me has only made things 20x worse!!!!!!!!!’ There’s just blood everywhere and I have no idea what to do with myself!!- Ro

Originally posted by wonderlandgirlforever

anonymous asked:

omg i feel so bad, i was the one who requested the las imagine, if would have known that it was gonna make you cry i would have never requested it, i rlly hope you're okay now, i wish you the best, and i'm really sorry about the whole thing, just, when you don't feel like doing a request bc of personal problems let us know, i mean it's completely fine, you are amazing and i'm really sorry

no it’s totally okay! omg don’t be sorry! i’m sorry if i made you feel bad when i posted about crying. i just wanted everyone to know how important that subject was to me. it’s totally okay, and if i wasn’t comfortable writing something i wouldn’t ( obviously i didn’t write your request exactly the way you wanted which i apologize for) but yeah it’s totally okay! i like to write things that are challenging! thank you for your thoughtfulness ❤️

no but aldertree sent raj to fetch a change of clothes and a cup of tea for clary aka raj probably stood in clary`s room going oh this shirt will go nicely with those jeans and i would like to personally thank him for that because clary looked fly 


A big thanks to BTS for inventing shorts.