“Meaningless days, as I’m getting used to it, as I’m getting tired of it. More than half of my day is empty because the depth of my heart won’t be filled. It’s getting bigger, deeper and wider. When my head is pounding, when I’m exhausted you hold my worn out hand, you hold me warm and tight. My day’s been rainy, other people can’t see my sky. I can’t breathe, I can’t eat, I can’t sleep. I’m confused and lost. When my head is pounding, when I’m exhausted. My cuts get healed by your touch. I was completely destroyed before I met you. Now I’m okay, feel alright. Because I have you by my side” – GOT7: You Are ( 2017 )
keep things realistic. you may think you can read 200 pages of jane eyre in one night, and honestly, you could…but you won’t unless that essay that’s 30% of your grade is due, you know, tomorrow.
you know your habits better than anyone. try to work around what you know you’re going to do. can you read about 25 pages without getting totally bored/sidetracked? well, make yourself do that. it’s only 25 pages, right?
try to accomplish one thing every day. don’t ever let your day slip away from you without doing anything. even if that “one accomplishment” is making a stupid text post on tumblr or revising your notes or washing your sheets…just be productive!
this is especially important for those of you with mental illness! having a “zero day” can really plummet your mood or set you in an unproductive rut.
if you really feel like you need a day to just chill out, napping can count as your accomplishment
don’t push studying off! you’ve probably heard this one a million times, but seriously. don’t. you’re not going to retain 10 weeks worth of information with one study session…okay, maybe you can, but do you really want to?
the best, low-effort way of remembering information is to, at first, review it often. right after you learn the material, review it a couple times during the week. maybe re-write your notes that weekend. then, the next week, visit one or two times, just glazing over parts you don’t really remember well. then, maybe once every two weeks, etc…by the time you get to finals, you’ll be familiar with all the information! trust me, it works.
organize your to-do’s. personally, i make a huge to-do list for the entire week. then, i delegate different ‘levels’ of urgency to it (see below.) you can do this however you want, but i do it this way to help me visualize how lazy i can be and not pay for it…
i tend to organize it by these ‘categories’ / ‘urgent levels’
is there a quiz on the material due soon
how likely is there to be a pop quiz
what’s my grade in the class like / how badly do i need that ‘a’
does the homework/assignment need to be turned in
actually doing it:
studyspo helps. okay, i know this is kind of obvious considering i’m a studyblr, but… you see that notebook you just bought? isn’t it fucking adorable? don’t you want to make some sweet, sweet note-love to it? you know you do.
don’t spend too much time setting up your work space or browsing tumblr. seriously. you know when you’re overstepping.
have some nice playlists. preferably with music you alreadyknow! if you don’t know the song already, chances are it’s just going to become a distraction.
8tracks is a great site for this! you can make your own mixes or take a listen to one of the many, many study / chill playlists available. again, take a listen to the track on your way to class or whatever before actually trying to study with it on.
instrumentals + classical + video game music are the standard
get organized. messy = stressy. seriously. organize your desk, organize your notes. even if it’s not really your style, at least try to keep things ‘in your personal order.’ try to pretend you have your shit together. you will be so much more productive & confident if you feel in control of your situation.
if you’re a perfectionist, you may want to disregard this. really. you don’t want to put ‘tidiness’ above productivity.
taking pictures of your awesome, super-nice work space is awesome motivation. give that illusion of productivity. become tumblr famous.
if you can afford it, matching stationary and cute shit like that is super awesome feeling. it makes studying aesthetically satisfying.
take care of yourself. brush your teeth, put on that nice-smelling lotion, drink water. eating healthy foods, getting some exercise, all that good shit people tell you to do…it really is important. it’s kind of hard to focus or remain motivated if you’re miserably bloated & haven’t showered in 3 days.
especially for my neurod or mentally ill followers!
i fucked up:
repeat after me: IT’S OKAY. IT’S OKAY. we all fuck up. you’re allowed to fuck up. sometimes assignments don’t get done, sometimes we don’t do as well on tests as we’d like. it’s okay. you’re okay.
recovery. alright, so, now that we’ve accepted that we’re human beans who sometimes grow upside-down…
cuddle in a blanket, and write down what you think you did wrong. did you not study enough? do you need to go to your professors office hours? write down your ideas.
let your failure motivate you! you hit your lowest point, alright? now you can focus on doing better, even if it’s just a few points difference.
you can do some things wrong. you don’t need to get an A every single time. did you understand 50% of the material? well, that’s halfway there!
you’re not going to be perfect at everything. we all have growing pains.
well, that’s all i have to say. keep growing towards the sun, kids.
what i expected from the ready for it music video: an island, pretty sunshine shots, clear water, taylor and her lover frolicking on the sand
what the ready for it music video actually is: TRON, STAR WARS, GHOST IN THE SHELL, THE HUNGER GAMES, STAR TREK, DIVERGENT, STRANGER THINGS, ALL THE SCI-FI, TAYLOR’S WEARING A FUCKING CLOAK AND THEN NOTHING AT ALL BITCHES!!!
I’m sorry, but this is complete bullshit. I get censoring out videos that talk about sex and more explicit things - which these restrictions accomplish to some extent - but this does more than just that.
You know dodie’s “Sick of Losing Soulmates” video? Yeah, the official music video got taken down, but not because of language. The original release of the song on her main channel is still up with the restrictions on.
When you look up creators like Connor Franta, Troye Sivan, Hannah Hart, and Tyler Oakley, just to name a few, in the search bar, their channels don’t show up.
Mary Lambert’s “She Keeps Me Warm” official video isn’t available. Some videos of her performing it are up, but not the actual music video, a video that has no adult themes.
Evan Edinger’s video on demisexuality isn’t available. Sure, he mentions the word “sex” a few times, but sex ed/human reproductive system videos aren’t down.
MilesChronicles only has eight videos up with the restrictions. All their videos relating to their gender or sexuality don’t appear on their channel.
Troye Sivan’s coming out video (2013) isn’t there.
All of Melanie Murphy’s videos - except one - where she talks about her bisexuality aren’t available.
Only eight of Stevie Boebi’s videos show up on her channel; only one directly relates to being queer, the other is her identity video where “lesbian or bisexual” is in the thumbnail.
Trust me, there are more; you don’t have to look far to find them. But why does it matter? Can’t you just turn off the restrictions? Well yes, if it isn’t locked. YouTube offers an option to lock on Restricted Mode for the browser. A kid who’s trying to figure themself out and is terrified about it won’t have these resources and stories and models to help them if their parent(s) enable this restriction. Their self journey will be so much longer and harder than necessary because of it.
And what about the younger kids. The kids who are in a heavily sheltered environment where the only information they have about being queer is taken-out-of-context Bible verses. They’ll see the very minuscule number of lgbtq+ videos and feel even more isolated and like a pariah.
We need these videos.
Youtube has been a happy place and a space of belonging for me and so many others, we can’t take lose that. @youtube you said you’re proud of representing queer voices, you better fucking mean it.
As pointed out by Philip DeFranco - amongst others - this is not only an lgbtq+ issue. We should not be viewing this just as *potential* homophobia, but rather marking people who are different from the societal norm as an “other.”
It has been brought to my attention that some videos concerning mental health issues have also been taken down. As @srgtfuckybarnes said, Hannah Hart’s video about living with depression is no longer available with these restrictions.
This is a bigger issue. It takes people who have different thoughts and opinions and placing them in a light that suggests their views are less than.
I want to make this very, very clear, though: the intent of YouTube isn’t bad. I highly, highly doubt workers at YouTube sat down and at a meeting and said they were going to censor these types of people. That being said, the result/effect is still negative. How it effects people (in this situation) stands out more than whether or not YouTube is trying to separate people as an “other.”
Thank you to everyone (especially @2022hadmefrickinzazzed) for making constant updates to this. That is very much appreciated.