thats like the only face i make in pictures



Hey! I’ve never posted proper photos of myself on here before, but now I’m like, #yolo, even if just for today, so here we #golo

ADHD is…

Not being diagnosed in childhood, because you did “too well” in school

Spending your teens feeling stupid as all hell, because you struggle to meet deadlines and can’t quite understand concepts in subjects that don’t 100% capture your interest (math, u lil bitch, i am lookin @ u)

Having your executive dysfunction chalked up to “laziness” because if you’re smart, you “can’t” have ADHD, so you’re obviously just unmotivated and lazy. Except if you were unmotivated and lazy, you wouldn’t have high achievement, so like, check mate, bud?

Being told that ADHD isn’t a reason for your behavior, it’s an “excuse”, and that you should just “do better” despite your brain literally not being able to

Not being told you have it until you’re 18 and struggling to function like an adult

Having trouble driving because you can’t focus, having trouble sleeping because you can’t stay still, having trouble with chores because you never remember anything

Hyperfocusing on something so hard that suddenly it’s 6 AM and you’ve ruined your sleep schedule all over again

Suffering from loads of mental health issues, overcoming literally all of them, and having your executive dysfunction still blamed on them because people just??? really love????? to use mental illness and their ableism as a scapegoat?????? instead of trying to help, and recognizing that adhd is a permanent part of you?????????? like “are you sure you’re not just depressed” yes. thank you for your opinion even though i never asked for it, but I am actually very sure, good day to you too sweetie :) :)) :)))

Not being able to make yourself shut up when you’re speaking about something you’re passionate about. Having that problem in college lectures, and hearing a few people snicker each time you talk because you’re /that girl/ who /talks too much/ and has /too many opinions/ like gawd sorry for taking up space ffs


Finally having an explanation for some of your less-loved quirks, and knowing that you’re not just lazy or stupid

Finding a whole bunch of people who get it

Being able to do amazing things when you hyper focus, getting more done than most people because you actually can’t get distracted for once

Finding outlets for your energy very early on in life, and finding them to be your favorite things in the whole world (acting, dance, music)

Being able to multitask like a pro (and also having to multitask, because when you have the tv/radio/whatever on in the background, it’s a distraction you can control, which helps a lot)

Knowing a whole ton of totally random trivia about so many different things, and a bunch of information on a few select topics, to the point that people think you’re a student in those things (example - I’ve been very physically sick this year, I like to read medical journals, and when I went in to get a CT scan a few months ago, the tech asked me if I was a medical student because of how much I know about it all)

Having a huge amount of energy when you’re doing things you like, and feeling it exponentially grow, feeling like you can take on the world

Understanding that nothing’s wrong with you. You work differently than most people, and it makes life hard, but that’s because of the world, not because of you. It’s just how we are.

anonymous asked:

ur ugly and that's why you need make up

reconsider that because I only wear makeup cause I like it and feel more confident with it but here is a picture of me rocking my makeupless face so :) maybe I don’t need it anymore but I enjoy it and anyway your hateful opinion doesn’t matter since I am happy the way I am with or without makeup

anonymous asked:

Perrie is beautiful without make up bet you look lyke shit. And yes zayn lvs perrie and he'll never love you so just stop with this patetic blog.

right, hold the fuck up. When have i actually ever said anything about peralds appearance? i haven’t but okay….the only thing ive said that relates to her appearance is ‘i can face my flaws un like her.’  why do all my questions to do with perries appearance always involve Zayn? what the fuck does he have to do with the way she looks?

i do look like shit without make up, im aware of that….have a picture of me from yesterday morning, no make up and no sleep for 24 hours

^^^ thats the worst photo ive ever taken.

now stop with the Zayn loves perrie bullshit…..hes already dmed his next victim to meet him in boston. the boy doesnt mess around, and that the only one we know about so far. i bet he had a hot Colombian girl last night. hes already planning out whos next. I Bet he has a girl for every single stop of that tour, probably more in certain places, as they are their for longer. he doesnt love her….he loves the extra 5 grand hes getting payed, to pretend to be in a relationship.

nows heres me with no make up on a good day 

by the way love, please learn how to spell, your mistakes are making me laugh. my blog isnt pathetic. the only reson you think my blog is pathetic is because im hitting a nerve, you are finally seeing that what i say makes sense, that your perfect little ship is nothing but a stunt.