I feel like almost every selfshipper has the feeling when a fav has an in character quirk, comment, catch phrase or action that becomes a running joke in the fandom. I’m victim of it. Sometimes it’s funny. But when it becomes all that character is and ppl start defining them as a jerk when they’re really not it sucks. Like no, that’s not all they are. They’re human and they’re not perfect. No one is.
certain types of frilly shit i think acc make me look more androgynous even tho u’d think it’d look more feminine lol? i think it’s bc like if it makes my shoulders broader, it helps maybe idk? i have quite narrow n rounded shoulders i think so