that's too much rude for one person

anonymous asked:

Okay I've been in the CC fandom for years now and I got to say that the one thing I don't like about this fandom is the fact that whenever someone has an opinion or idea or views a situation in a way that's even remotely different, you guys push it away and put that person down as if your ideas/opinions/views are the only "right" way of viewing things. News flash: not everyone is going to see or interpret things the way you do so stop being rude to others in the fandom when they don't agree.

Oh, now suggesting with affection to take a break if it’s too much to avoid drama or trying to tell people to stay positive despite the bullshit is being rude. Duly noted. And how rude i am if I underline that the live and let live goes in two direction and not only one…. Silly me again. Anyway next time you know, you can come off anon. And if i upset you, dear, don’t read me. 

earlier today i found a note on my phone titled “a message to myself”. i vaguely remembered writing it during the summer last year, after having a string of bad days, but i could not remember the specifics. heres what i wrote. i think it has some good reminders for everyone

• dont forget, you are beautiful
• you can do anything that you want to do
• dont compromise your morals
• you dont need anybody (namely a boy) to feel whole, you are an individual
• continuing to love someone in the end is your choice, nobody elses
• if you arent ready for something, dont let anybody convince you to do it
• remember the promises you’ve made to yourself
• the monsters in your head are an illusion, your brain trying to bring you down. you are stronger than them
• imagination is a good thing, but dont let it become powerful. living in a dream land can only bring more pain in reality
• remember how you felt at playlist live, remember that happiness exists
• go out on adventures, go to new places, make the most of summers
• routine is nice but remember to shake it up sometimes
• dont ever neglect your friends
• love is love, regardless of platonic or romantic. dont forget that there will always be somebody who loves you
• theres nothig wrong with feeling down sometimes and talking to your friends about it, it doesnt “bother” or “annoy” them. they like to help
• theres nothing wrong with failing, its a part of being human. and we both know how much you love humanity
• you do have flaws. but your flaws are what make you who you are and embrace them
• appreciation can go a long way
• try talking to people, even if you’re scared. good things can come from that
• if you’re anxious, thats okay too
• your grades are not how smart you are
• dont fight fire with fire, fight fire with pity and justification. an opinion is an opinion, and a person whos rude about that doesnt deserve respect
• dont become one of those people thats afraid to post videos due to “quality”. post ehatever the fuck you like
• breaking down is good sometimes. it helps release built up stress. break down if you need to
• music. never stop listening to music
• try new clothing combinations
• dont be afriad to be “girly”, it doesnt make you any weaker of a person
• if somebody doesnt think you’re worth their time then they’re not worth your time
• pain demands to be felt, dont try to mask it of disguise it. accept the pain, take a few days to yourself, and move on
• paint, draw, write whenever you feel like it
• try not to procrastinate, it only makes you feel worse
• be proud of your body. there are going to be times when you look in the mirror and hate yourself but in the end remember that you have a hot body and nobody can tell you otherwise
• you can live without the internet, take deep breaths
• do not feel bad if you like something that other people dont like. that is their superiority complex
• pictures. take lots of pictures of life so you can remember
• you are worth it.

The trans community on tumblr attacking straight allies are just hurting their own cause. 

A. You’re making the people of the Majority that were willing to fight for your cause hate you. 

B. You’re beginning a bad name to the entire trans community and making it so transphobes DEFINITELY WILL NOT want to change their views

C. Screeching “Don’t coddle the majority” when you are telling them to kill themselves (WHICH IS ILLEGAL) just for linking the sex they were born in

D. Immediately thinking that just because someone is either cis, white, heterosexual, all or a mixture of the above immediately makes them transphobic is really fucking rude and definitely not going to get you any help

E. YOU ARE FIGHTING TO SMASH STEREOTYPES AND HATE FROM A MAJORITY AND GAIN THE RESPECT AND BASIC HUMAN RIGHTS YOU DESERVE, yet how does the tumblr trans community think that should be done? Rudely attacking and demeaning the majority.

F. YOU DO NOT DESERVE RESPECT IF ALL YOU ARE GOING TO DO IS ATTACK PEOPLE THAT HAVE DONE NO WRONG.

G. IF YOU ACTUALLY TAKE THE TIME OUT TO TALK TO A DAMN BIGOT AND EXPLAIN THINGS WITHOUT ATTACKING THEM THERE’S A GOOD CHANCE THAT THEIR HATRED WAS ROOTED IN IGNORANCE AND THEY MIGHT ACTUALLY OPEN UP AND JOIN YOUR SIDE BUT APPARENTLY THAT’S TOO MUCH FUCKING WORK FOR THE TUMBLR TRANS COMMUNITY

“UUUUhuhuhuHuhuuuuuuuuuhhhh they’re mean to us tho”

“we’re oppressed!!!! *says the person thats experienced one transphobic joke, Oppression is prolonged cruel or unjust treatment sweetheart you’ve been oppressing cischets more than you’ve been oppressed*”

“being nice isnt goooonnnaa change anything” Really? Judging by the hundreds of ‘Die cis scum’ posts you reblogged, I doubt you’ve actually tried being nice. 

“*super long SJW post by someone who spends every ½ seconds saying 'SJWS ARE ASSHOLES!’ 'FUCK SJWS!’ 'BEING SJW DOESNT GIVE YOU THE LICENCE TO BE AN ASS’*”

anonymous asked:

dude you're beautiful ok, inside and out. don't let shitty, irrelevant people bring you down

dude you too tho thank you so much i’m so glad i have you guys bc i can get one crappy person and you know…like it does make you feel bad like yes my dad was significantly better before I saw that someone took time out of their day to make me feel bad but then i have people like you and the 20 other people in my inbox who take time to make sure i’m okay and not letting the rude people affect me and thats just a really nice feeling to have so thank you