that's not even a big deal

my mom watches her shows in the family room of our house where everyone is always hanging out and sometimes theres a (hetero) sex scene in whatever she’s watching and no matter how explicit or non explicit it is no one cares. its not a big deal. i mean its a little weird sometimes to just listen to really bad moaning for a solid minute but its not like she changes the channel or anything its just part of the show.

but me? i flinch when i’m watching two girls on my laptop and someone walks by or enters the room. not sex with two girls just. two girls. thats all. i pause the video and i wait for them to leave, my heart beating really fast. im not even in the closet. if the girls kiss i feel like i have to hide my screen and make sure no one saw i was watching that. 

i hate this more than anything

Can I just remind people that many bisexual and pansexual people, myself included, use gay as an umbrella term for all people attracted to the same sex and we use it as a descriptor for our and everyone’s same sex attraction because it’s specific to that part of our identity. So please stop policing me for using gay to describe my and characters’ same sex attraction. Using gay as an umbrella term is not the same as invalidating and erasing a bi/pansexual person’s identity.


Roxas: HAHA you didn’t tell them!? Not even you Zack? Oooh boy.

Zack: No, I DID tell them. I just forgot a minor detail.

Roxas: You mean major.

Ven: Not a big deal right? It’s fine- It’s totally fine.

Roxas: Have you seen the way they treat Axel..

Ven: Ah, damn.

My Game, My Rules



“Will you just admit it Joe?! I don’t understand what the big deal is” you snapped at your boyfriend. 

“No Y/N because I’m not jealous.” He snapped back walking across from the room. 

“Yes Joe you are. Your scared that I can pull more people than you can.”

“Y/N its not that…” Joe’s voice shifted an octave as you rolled your eyes.

“Then what is it? Because as I do recall, before me you had a pretty hard time pulling girls” You cocked your head to the side as the boys sat behind you, cheering you on. 

“Fine then.” Joe said feeling rather annoyed about this conversation. “Lets play a little game, whatever one of us can get the most number tonight wins”

“What do I win?”

The winner gets to do whatever they want to the loser…for a week”

You narrowed you eyes, complementing your boyfriend’s offer. Obviously you weren’t second guessing your chances of winning tonight, rather thinking of all the ways you could have your boyfriend for a whole week. 

“Deal.” You said sticking your hand out, Joe taking it firmly giving it a shake.

“Alright is that settled because I want to go, my buzz is wearing off” Jack said standing up from the couch. 

“Lets go over the rules once more…” You rolled your eyes at Joe’s words, already hearing the rules of his little games twice now. “The person with the most numbers win. You can’t ask for the number, they have to be given it. You may, however, do whatever it takes for them to give your their number. The only thing that is off limits sex, thats not the objective here.”

“Joe I’m going to have sex with someone just so I can get their number and win this stupid game”

As the night went on, Oli and Josh kept tally of each number you and Joe had brought back to the table. You were a head by only a couple and were determined to beat Joe in this stupid game but you were pleasantly surprised at how good he actually was with picking up girls. 

You watched as Joe handing Josh another piece of paper signally he had just gotten another number. Deciding that you were going to have to pick up the pace, you excused yourself from the man you were currently talking to who honestly, didn’t seem interested, and made you way over to a guy who had been eyeing you up and down all night. 

“Hi there” you said as you walked up to him. 

“I’ve been watching you nearly the whole night, you playing a game?” the man asked, a smirk sliding across his lips. 

“Yes, my idiot boyfriend doesn’t think I can get more number than he can” 

“Hmm well, I think I might be able to pull you ahead” He winked as he snaked his arm around your waist, pulling you closer to him. 

Joe was back at the table when he looked in the direction where all the boys had been staring for quiet some time now. 

“Mate she’s good” 

“Yeah I didn’t know she had it in here” 

They were all watching you and the man as you whispered something in his ear, his grip around your waist tightening. 

Joe was unamused. He was a little mad even. He had watched you with the first couple of guys you had talked to and none of them were thing handsy. 

Something flooded over Joe as he watched the mans hand travel to your bum and he couldn’t just stand around watching anymore. 

“Hey!” Joe called out walking up to you and the stranger. “Thats my girlfriend you have your hands on”

“Hey mate, calm down, I was just helping her win the game. Here you go love” The man said handing you a piece of paper with numbers scribbled on it. 

“She doesn’t need it” Joe said swatting the paper out of his hands and he pulls up away from the man. 

“Joe, what are you doing?” you asked confused at his sudden actions. 

“I hate this game.” He mumbled pulling you outside and flagging down a taxi. 

“You’re just mad, I was winning” You smirked getting into the back of the taxi.

Once you were back at your flat, Joe was quick to push you against the wall, his lips burning against your skin. His hands traveled down your back, unzipping your dress and pushing it down your body. 

“Hey hey hey,” You said pushing him away. “I do believe I won.” 

“I don’t care”

“Joe this isn’t fair”

“My game, my rules” he said before reattaching his lips to yours. 

He pulled away and you were quick to pull his shirt over his head. Joe pulled you into your room, pushing you to the bed removing his jeans and boxers. He was already hard and you were already dripping. Joe unclasped your bar and ripped your panties from your body, discarding them on the ground next to his own clothes.

Joe hovered above you, kissing your deeply as he eased into you without warning. 

“Shit Joe” You gasped as he filled you, your hands going to his back nails digging into his skin causing him to wince.

“You’re mine Y/N.” He said as he started to thrust into you quickly and harshly. 

Your hands fell from Joe’s back, gripping the sheets as Joe’s cock reached deeper inside of you. Moans were leaving your mouth so loudly that you were sure that your neighbours would call with a noise complaint but that was the last thing that was on your mind. 

Joe’s moans were loud too. The moans were more curse words mixed with your name as he picked up the pace even more. Your back arched off the bed pushing your chest into Joe’s as you felt yourself get closer and closer to your release. 

“Joe..m’close” You panted out trying to hold in the sensations that so desperately wanted to be set free. 

You’re attempt, however, failed as you felt a wave of euphoria wash over you as you clenched around Joe releasing onto him, his name leaving your throat as your body shuddered underneath him. Joe came right after you, only intensifying your oragasm as he continued to thrust into you.

Joe pulled out of you and laid next to you on the bed snuggling his head into the crook of your shoulder. 

“Well.” You said after catching your breath “I do believe, I won and that you were in fact jealous or else that wouldn’t have just happened.”

 You turned over so you were facing hims, pushing his fluffy hair out of his eyes. Joe’s eye were closed and you smiled and kissed the tip of his nose. 

“But you’re cute even when you are jealous”

“I’m not jealous” He said pulling you closer to him, then covering you both up with the duvet. 

“Whatever. But I still won!”

“Yeah yeah, we’ll discuss the logistics in the morning” Joe said squeezing your tighter. 

I know it’s not a super big deal but I saw some people trying to say these were pics of Kaistal and some trying to disprove it. I don’t like lies or drama about Jongin no matter how big or small so I’m just going to set it straight.

I don’t know who the girl in the bottom left is and kinda feel bad for reposting it, but the girl in the top left and right side is a fan who took a picture with him while he was in LA back in May 2015. Some may remember fans making a big deal about him being upset at the airport because it was supposed to be a vacation with his family, and their were alot of rude fans at the airport when he shouldn’t have even known he was there. Jongin is very private especially when it comes to his family and the only reason people knew was because of sasaengs thats why he was upset, NOT because he was trying to hide something. But these are some of the pics he personally agreed to at the time because fans who were polite asked him for a selca. [read their comments] One of the fans mentioned he couldn’t understand her English at all and she had to ask him in Korean. (Another reason he may have came off as “rude” to the international fans at the time.) Here are some others along with the original in the first pic.

I’ll… uh… deal with the other neighbors later.

but hoho, I know someone who should help.


[Jasper] what.

[Peri] Many of those Lapis Lazuli birds have been lost in the storm. look out for any that get in or around here. I ESPECIALLY need you to keep your awful cats inside. they shouldn’t even be outside in the first place. It’s VERY irresponsible though like I’d ever expect you to be anyw-

…what are those????

[Jasper] free dogs.

[Peri] I doubt that! where did you get those???

[Jasper] none of your business. the cats are hiding upstairs because they cant handle these beasts. pussies.

[Peri] this is no time for jokes!! make sure they stay inside! YOU make sure they stay inside. not because those dogs are stressing them out. SPEAKING OF WHICH GIVE THEM BACK BECAUSE I’M PRETTY SURE I SEE COLLARS ON TH-

[Jasper] shut up and get out. your business isn’t my business either. this was probably all your fault anyway. deal with it yourself.

[Peri] …UGH!

[Lapeep] !!! phphhhhpt!!!!

yeah. fuck Jasper. I don’t even really want her involved anyway.

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anonymous asked:

I hope that they've talked but I can also see them not being in contact. I mean even if they all went to the lunch LA Reid held there were so many people there they could've avoided each other of they really wanted to.

yes but there would have very very very likely been other occasions that they would be around each other. And thats not even my main point. For me the big deal is the timing of everything. Especially D’s not-so-subtly-making-a-point support for C just before she officially left (so after the apparent “screw-over” happened in mid-november). So if the break-up was all real, the whole thing just logically wouldn’t make sense. The actual date of the ‘break-up’ is just when it became public to us. Remember that and think about the timing. It doesn’t make sense that that date would mark the beginning of them not speaking to each other. Again I want to keep an open mind and be objective, but they have such a big incentive to lie to us about this, and too many things don’t add up

This is cheesy, but...

About this time last year I’m wanting to say I had /maybe/ like… 50 followers and mostly lurked around the site. And I’m not like a Big Deal™ now or anything, but over the last year my follower count has more than doubled and a lot of those people are mutuals that have really given me a much better Tumblr experience than I ever had before. (Especially within the MtG community) You guys have really helped draw me out of my shell and actually start participating in discussions and meme posting and just generally having a good time.

I’m not going to name names. If I do I’ll inevitably forget someone with as scatterbrained as I can be, but I guess I just wanted to take a moment to say thank you. Even if we don’t talk that much, heck even if we’re not mutuals and for some reason you just follow me, thanks. Thank you for being around and reblogging my stupid jokes and talking to me.

yo i don’t blacklist stuff often and it’s not a big enough deal for me to unfollow anyone over it but could yall maybe start tagging #ace discourse?? including both serious discourse posts and jokes making fun of ace folk - as someone probably on the ace spectrum myself (trans and non-straight before yall get up in arms) still struggling with my identity some of that stuff can lean way too close to legit dislike/generalization of ace people even if not intended that way, and more to the point i just. i don’t care about it. i don’t really have an opinion on the subject and it’s too fuckin complicated and annoying for me to want to get involved. that is all

hey hot tip: if someone tells you about a misophonia trigger, and you continue to create that sound in their presence, you are an asshole. pain is not “funny” or “no big deal” just because it’s not something that personally harms you.

being in a car with strong subwoofers hurts me. it feels like physical pain even though it’s not. high pitched noises like that whine old CRTs make also hurt, and give me a migraine if i’m around them for too long.

other people have different triggers, but they are just as important to avoid. please take this seriously. it’s hard to speak up because so many people are dismissive, so if someone manages to, please respect that.

HI i need some advice pls. my friend from work (whom i found is is 8 years older then me) is having a birthday get together and since her and i (im 18) are such great friends and we get along so well, shes invited me out with her older friends whom i have not met before, i dont have any friends now that i have left school, just my family and my boyfriend. so having work friends is a big deal to me, im just so nervous because ill be the baby in that group when we go out. idk how to act or what to even say to them, they’re all basically gonna be like 10 years older than me and thats so scary to think about, i never really had friends over 1-2 years older then me, but im kinda just glad because i actually got invited out somewhere with someone because i actually have NO friends whatsoever other than work ppl. who i occasionally have a chat to in the tea room at work (except this one friend whom im talking about). none of my old “school friends” never even put in effort to see me so i knew they all didn’t really care about me at all

honestly me learning to play piano wasnt even like a big deal to me at first like i had this shitty keyboard i would play when things got stuck in my head and then i had to get a full piano bc the pieces i was playing needed 88 keys but it was some old shitty $50 upright from the 1880s & then i finally started lessons and thats when i realized i was actually good at it? and like after a few months and i had learned some chopin and beethoven thats when alla these random ppl were giving me their cards and asking me to be their student like ………it was really fucking wild considering i only started playing bc i had some bach stuck in my head one day jsfbsjfh

honestly ive been channelling all my hyperfixation into my car blog and i really think its been doing me good? like externalising overwhelming thoughts into writing? its also brought my mind away from worrying about my appearance. like i can now go a full week without even thinking about what i look like and i think thats really a big deal.

Quick lil mspaint doodle, thanks so much for 50 followers!! 

i know to most people thats a small number and not a big deal but like its a huge deal to me? like 50 people want to see my posts and like my blog/art and that just means the world to me, thank yall so much!!!! <3 <3 <3 

i never thought id even get 10 followers, im so glad yall are here ;w; <3 

Obligatory Voltron post

Things to like about Voltron: Legendary Defender

  • Shiro. Just… all of Shiro.
  • Allura flinging things.
  • Pidge being snarky
  • Everyone just being ‘oh, ok’ at Pidges reveal and not making it a big deal at *all*
  • Did I mention Shiro
  • Keith and Lance. Ok, I get everyone ships them but as characters, I like how fucked up of a red oni, blue oni team they are. Like, they’re literally red and blue, fire and ice, but their personalities don’t match the trope at all.
  • Hunk is a delight and a voice of reason and I will defend him and his common sense to my dying breath
  • Even the stupid butler is kindof a badass
  • Is he a butler? Wtf is he supposed to be? Is he, like, the prince consort or something?
  • The show actually gets so much better as the season progresses? Like episode 9 is super emotional, and 10 is just amazing.

Things not to like about Voltron

  • Give me my god damned Keith-centric episode! I want to know all the things!
  • I’ve seen the 'form Voltron’ clip, thanks. I know you’re proud of it, just.. that’s about enough of that clip.
  • Also: that’s your season ending?