that's me trying to flirt

anonymous asked:

I've been seeing some stuff lately (not here on tumblr, but elsewhere) about ppl claiming Yona doesn't deserve to be with Hak... like that she hasn't done enough for him to earn his affections or to be in a relationship with him. Idk it made me mad so I was wondering what your thoughts are about it?

‘Kay. I got this ask a while ago and couldn’t quite decide how to form an answer, so please bear with me as I try to put my thoughts into words. 

The entire idea that Yona needs to prove herself in some way or another to be worthy of Hak’s affections, to me, is ridiculous. For one, people fall in love for many different reasons, and just because Yona was a bit of an airhead and not a badass when Hak liked her shouldn’t mean squat. If Hak liked Yona for such a long time he obviously saw something in her that he appreciated and wanted to pursue. That’s his choice, so people making out like Yona needs to be someone worthy of affection or something are likely disregarding that Hak fell for her because, to him, she was worthy of his affection. Now, I get that a simple response here is that, “oh but Yona didn’t like him back so it wasn’t good for him to like her, etc.”, but again I think this has no root as Yona wasn’t aware of Hak’s feelings. She never led him on or toyed with him, she simply liked someone else, Hak never let her know how he felt, and she therefore never viewed Hak as a love interest. Hak himself knew this and still chose to like her and not move on. That to me puts all these “not worthy” complaints on him. He could have moved on to someone “more worthy of his time” but he didn’t. That was his choice.

From a different light, and after Yona flees the castle and Hak starts to be more open with his feelings, I feel that perhaps some people who hold this thought don’t so much think that Yona doesn’t deserve Hak, but rather that because she didn’t return his feelings right from the get-go that there’s an imbalance and “Hak loves her more”, or “she hasn’t contributed as much to their relationship”, or [insert similar thing here]. In response to this I just… arg, I dunno, it just seems silly to think that Yona has something to make up for. Yona just… wasn’t too into Hak in that way at the start of the series and both have had to grow to reach the stage they are at now in their relationship. People are allowed to not like other people romantically, even if said person is super nice and would love them unconditionally. That’s called having a choice. And Yona is allowed to not like Hak’s sometimes iffy advances and tell him to stop. She is also allowed to start developing deeper feelings when the two begin to grow and mature together as they face different trials and support one another. 

I just… don’t see where the idea of “deserving someone” comes into this at all. Hak and Yona are just two people who have realised that they enjoy each other’s company and support in a deeper way than friendship and as such have started to grow closer romantically. Yes, Hak has dedicated his life to being her guard and has supported her for a long time even though one could argue he didn’t get out of it what he wanted (that is, Yona’s interest) but again, that was his choice. I’m not trying to defend that it was the right choice, but blaming Yona for his choice and then thinking she needs to make up for it just goes over my head. I really don’t get it. 

anonymous asked:

Can I have some headcanons for oikawa iwaizumi and bokuto where they're crushing on a part time trainer at the gym (she got a bangin booty too)

I’m alive guys…. I’m surprised i have time right now to write this. oh wait, i don’t but thats not going to stop me. -mod owl


Oikawa:

  • Will try to flirt with other girls to see if you’ll get jealous. 
  • If you do, he’ll stop immediately and try to talk to you instead and explain that he actually isn’t interested in that girl. 
  • If you don’t, he’ll pout then befriend you boss THEN complain how you’re not getting jealous and not showing that you like him. 
  • Will only go to the gym when you’re working because he’s honestly only there to see you. 
  • You actually have you hit him because he’ll stop working out just to look at your ass. 

Iwaizumi:

  • Subtle hints that he likes you. aka brushing against you when he’s walking to go lift and weird awkward winks. 
  • Like Oikawa, he’ll only go to the gym when you’re there.
  • Works out shirtless so prepare yourself. 
  • Will always look at you while he’s working out and flex when you look at him. 
  • Is a try hard when it comes to working out near you because he wants you impressed. 
  • Tries not to look when your butt is in front of him for whatever reason and has to grab his hand and not spike the fuck out of it. 

Bokuto:

  • NO SHAME AND WILL STARE AT YOU HARDCORE WHILE HES RUNNING. 
  • WILL FOLLOW YOU AROUND LIKE A PUPPY DOG. “____-chan!!! Work out with me!!!!!” 
  • Will bench more than he can actually bench near you so he can show off even though his arms are literally about to break off. no shame. 
  • Doesn’t care and will go up to the front desk and ask for you number, your last name, where you’re from, and then proceed to ask to use the intercom to page you to the front just so he can talk to you. 
  • Doesn’t know what self control is when you’re teaching your client how to squat. will go up to you and watch. 
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