its not fair for you to say you were the one who was hurt. i know you are spreading lies that i cheated and that im a shitty person but i did not and im not. im allowed to want to understand why you lied about everything. im sorry if it hurts that you got a slap on the wrist but thats not even half of what others deal with. this isnt about choosing sides its about you not being honest about anything. what does your mother have to gain from lying about any of that?
guess i got a confirmation on who this is. im not spreading a lie that you cheated. you did and thats the truth. i dont care what you say. you had a boyfriend the entire time we were together, and i dont know if you didnt think it was a real relationship or not, but i did. i considered it one. i was in love with you, and you broke my heart.
you were a shitty person. you stopped talking to me suddenly, cut me off, had your mother tell me to never talk to you again and then continue to hate on my fami ly and my life for multiple days afterwards. i found out from her that everything you told me was a lie, and that you had a boyfriend. one that you had been happily with even before we got together.
i knew who she was talking about. i had given you permission when we were qpps that it was okay to be talking and flirting with a boy you liked,, since we werent romantically together.
you manipulated me into agreeing to date you, by repeatedly and consistently asking me every single day to go out with you, even tho i expressed blatant uncomfort to that, and that i didnt want to. i started to break down bc it was all you did, i only agreed to it to get you to stop.
you asked me to send you sexual pictures, and got upset when i didnt feel comfortable doing it. you explicitly talked to me about otayuri and pliroy when i told you multiple and repeated times that it made me extremely uncomfortable when you did that.
you got angry when i had friends. you messaged kidd, one of my best friends because we were talking, to tell nym to back off. ne is 3 years older than me, and i never liked nym in that way, ever. you got jealous over my friends and made me feel guilty for talking to people.
i talked to you about my problems because i thought i could trust you with them. i thought i could talk about my problems at home and my uncomfort in my life with you, because i trusted you. i loved you. you were my confidant and my best friend and my girlfriend. i expressed things when i was uncomfortable, and if you chose not to, that was your choice.
i thought you were okay because you didnt communicate with me. you lacked communication. you lacked telling the truth.
it wasnt my fault that you destroyed your own life. failing your college course? not my fault. i pushed u consistently to finish your assignments, and offered to help regularly. now not being able to go to vanderbilt (which, wasnot where you wanted to go at all when we talked about college. you wouldnt shut up about florida)? not my fault, that was your own doing. you quitting cheer? it was all you talked about. you hated it, and i urged you to quit because it made you so unhappy. you hated it with every fiber in your being and i hated seeing you so upset, so i just wanted to help you be happy again. your having problems in your own life? you could have talked to me about them, which i thought you had.
im as honest as a person can be about my relationships. ive been in too many bad ones, and so has my mother,f or me to to lie. i tell the truth. i say when im upset i say when im uncomfortable . i speak my mind.
my motherr didnt lie about anything either. shes embarassed by our situation, and that has nothing to do with ours.