that that was like


Working on my design for fem!/nyo!England. I still haven’t nailed down a hairstyle, so let me know which one’s your favorite!

I kind of like C even though that’s basically just male England’s normal hair, pffft.

i think its so strange that because we surround ourselves in such a safe space (on tumblr, with our peers, etc) we tend to forget how many people out there are still so close minded about things that weve become comfortable with for so long. like ive become so used to being on this site with such empathetic and “woke” people that when im confronted with bigoted people in real life im actually astonished because i forget that people like that exist and its like where have you been that you are still this ignorant? and then i remember that not everybody is as informed as we are because we use this site that is constantly feeding us new and valuable information


Marlee: “So, next weekend you’re finally getting married. How do you feel?”
Darren: “I’m excited! It’s been quite a while since our engagement but we just couldn’t find the time with these toddlers running around and work.. But it’s finally happening.”

NO I didn’t forget about the wedding… :”) The toddler update really messed up my timeline lol.. I already did the wedding the moment the toddler update came out and I really wanted to played with toddlers BUT I wanted to use the same screenies too :/ ANYWAY that didn’t work out anyway because I realized too late that Lumen got grey hair while she still had blonde hair at the wedding… So oopssss

Why am I ALWAYS wrong???

I mentioned to my mom about signing the boy up for the Big Brother program, I think it would be good for him having another male role model. He gets super attached to any guy I bring around, even if the boy doesn’t know we are dating. Like Manny, he thought we were only friends. So she tells me today that if I sign him up it’s basically telling my dad he’s not a good enough role model and I’d rather have a stranger around instead of him and it will hurt his feelings. No matter how I’d respond to that I’m fucked. Yes my dad is around and a role model to look up to, but d-bag isn’t around and the boy can’t have enough men to look up to. Not to sound like a bitch, but it’s not about my dad, it’s about what I think is best for my son.

princessababwa  asked:

Ey, if you've already talked about this, I'm sorry, but I'm wondering what you think about Azula's ability to generate lightning during the events of Sozin's Comet? Like, the reason that Zuko couldn't generate lightning was because his emotional state wasn't stable enough, but there's no way in heck one could say she was stable at that time. So, why do you think that was? Is it a plot hole or just something I'm missing? (This has been bothering me for 9 years lol)

Azula can lighteningbend because she is able to suppress her emotion and her anger, focusing entirely on the task at hand. Where for benders like Iroh and Zuko require peace of mind, ruthless firebenders like Ozai and Azula can use use an alternate method to achieve lightening.