that paramore line

anonymous asked:

How did you come to terms with your sexuality. I came across the term asexual about a year ago and I feel it makes sense for me. I've never really wanted sex. I've never really felt sexually attracted. I mean yeah they're aesthetically pleasing and they're attractive but I don't want to hop in bed with them. My sister dismisses me when I bring it up she sums it all up to "I'm just a virgin whose scared of sex" which is not the case. I just feel it's not for me.

I find the best way to come to terms (at least the way that works best for me) is to fake it till you make it. I made tons of ace puns and kept pushing away any negative thoughts (such as “you’re not ace, you’re just faking it”) with “I’m asexual. That’s the label that works best for me right now, who cares if that changes in the future? It’s my life, my experience, my label. No one gets to decide it for me.” Because, really, no one else gets to tell you you’re “just a virgin scared of sex” when they only see through their eyes.

This is a bit of a random insert, but as I was typing this I thought of the song Playing God by Paramore and the line, “You don’t deserve a point of view if the only thing you see is you.”

(Also you are a valid and loved person regardless of what they say. I love you, and I believe in you:))

-Sarah

ACROSS THE SEA ~  a playlist for friends or lovers that are too far away from each other [listen]

homesick at space camp - fall out boy • where the lines overlap - paramore • call n return (say that you’re into me) - hellogoodbye • maps - yeah yeah yeahs • digital love - daft punk • closer - tegan and sara • american love - jack’s mannequin • hey there delilah - plain white t's • across the sea - weezer • at least we made it this far - relient k • home - edward sharpe & the magnetic zeros • proof - paramore • two weeks in hawaii - hellogoodbye • the girl - city & colour • hard to say goodbye - bryarly bishop • transatlanticism - death cab for cutie • comin’ home - city & colour

Alien Ant Farm

The All American Rejects

The Amity Affliction

Architects

Arctic Monkeys

Avril Lavigne

Basement

Beartooth

Blink 182

Brand New

Citizen

City and Colour

A Day To Remember

Escape the Fate

Fall Out Boy

Four Years Strong

Framing Hanley

Front Porch Step

Green Day

Hands like houses

Handguns

In Hearts Wake

Issues

The Killers

Knuckle Puck

La Dispute

Linkin Park

The Maine

Man Overboard

Mayday Parade

Midtown

Modern Baseball

Mumford and Sons

Neck Deep

New Found Glory

Northlane

The Offspring

Paramore

Radiohead

Real Friends

Red Hot Chili Peppers

Seaway

Seahaven

Secondhand Serenade

Sidelines

Simple Plan

State Champs

The Starting Line

The Story So Far

Sum 41

Three Days Grace

Title Fight

Tonight Alive

Trophy Eyes

We Came As Romans

The Wonder Years

Yellowcard

This is everything I listen to, please suggest music to meeeee

Pick up lines

Boy: So, I’m in this band…

Boy: I like that book you’re reading.

Boy: Wanna follow my tumbr?

Boy: *looks at your t-shirt* I really like that band.

Boy: Let’s go to the Warped Tour.

Boy: Hi, I have this extra concert ticket…

Boy: I love that movie.

Boy: Wanna wear my hoodie?

Boy: I really like your peircing. 

Some Reylo for your earholes!

angst, pining, fluff, dark, light, the whole kit and caboodle. i worked my butt off on compiling this list of songs that speak Reylo to me! I listen to a lot of music, mostly stuff that isn’t mainstream, but hopefully you can find something you like. bonus points if you can make it through the whole list! without further ado…

“Winter” - Daughter [indie] (x)
When we were in flames
I needed you to run through my veins
Like disease
And now we are strangers

“Terrible Love” - The National [indie] (x)
It’s a terrible love and I walk in with spiders
It’s a terrible love that I’m walking in
It’s quiet company

It takes an ocean not to break

“Unmade Bed” - Sonic Youth [post-punk/indie] (x)
Can you unlock this door babe
Will you just undo the chain
Will you take your time before you mix up love
His love and pain
Lonliness lays down his head
wants to get you high, better take it now
A man like that’s like an unmade bed
Stained eyes searching for another way out

“Undo” - Bjork [electronic/indie] (x)
You’re trying too hard, surrender
Give yourself in
It’s warmer now, lean into it

“Brainy” - The National [indie] (x)
You might need me more
than you think you will
Come home in the car you love,
Brainy, brainy, brainy

“Just Like Honey” - The Jesus & Mary Chain [post-punk/shoegaze] (x)
Listen to the girl
as she takes on half the world
Moving up and so alive
in her honey drippin’ beehive

“Where The Lines Overlap” - Paramore [pop-punk/alternative] (x)
No one is as lucky as us
We’re not at the end but
we already won

“Run Forever” - Emma Ruth Rundle [indie folk/dream pop] (x)
If we both get caught then we run forever
Just as soon
Just a force passing through
Just as soon as a little blood that’s missed
Just as soon as a kiss
Wait for me just like that

“My Beloved Monster” - Eels [indie rock] (x)
My beloved monster is tough
if she wants she will destroy you
but if you lay her down for a kiss
her little heart it could explode
She will always be the only thing
that comes between me and the awful sting
that comes from living in a world that’s so
damn mean

“Kissability” - Sonic Youth [noise rock/post-punk] (x)
You’ve got kissability
You could be a star, it ain’t hard
You’re driving me crazy, you smell so sick
You’re driving me crazy, give us a kiss

“Dig” - Nothing [shoegaze] (x)
You could throw a sheet
gently over me
I can make believe I’m a ghost
Scratch your name into me so I cannot forget
Dug a whole inside of me, stayed there till the end

“Don’t Change” - INXS [pop/post-punk] (x)
Resolution of happiness
Things have been dark for too long
Don’t change for you
Don’t change a thing for me

“Waiting Game” - BANKS [dark pop/r&b] (x)
Baby I’m thinkin it over
What if the way we started made
it something cursed from the start
What if it only gets colder?
Would you still wrap me up and tell me
that you think this was smart

“Cocoon” - Bjork [electronic/indie] (x)
Who would have known
that a boy like him
possessed a magical sensitivity
Who would approach a girl like me
who caresses, cradles his head
in her bosom

“Digital Bath” - Deftones [nu metal/alternative] (x)
You move like I want to
To see like your eyes do
We are downstairs where no one can see
New life, break away
Tonight, I feel like more

“Passenger” - Deftones [nu metal/alternative] (x)
Roll the windows down this
cool night air is curious
Let the whole world look in
Who cares who sees anything
I’m your passenger

“Forever” - Esbe [trip hop/electronic/pop] (x)
[instrumental/samples]

“Obstacle 1” - Interpol [indie rock/alternative] (x)
It’s in the way that she walks
Her heaven is never enough
She puts the weights in my heart

“Obstacle 2” - Interpol [indie rock/alternative] (x)
I’m gonna pull you in close
I’m gonna wrap you up tight
I’m gonna play with the braids that
you came here in tonight
I’m gonna hold your face, and toast the
snow that fell

If you can fix me up we’ll go a long way
(take my love in small doses)

“When We Escape” - Minus The Bear [indie/alternative] (x)
You must be an illusion
Can I see through you?
When we escape
it’s with a white line
We’ll both align
And now we lay this close
catching measures of the pulse

“Consequence” - The Notwist [indie pop] (x)
You’re the color
You’re the movement and the spin
Could it stay with me the whole day long
Leave me paralyzed, love
Leave me hypnotized, love

“Fineshrine” - Purity Ring [electronic/dream pop] (x)
Cut open my sternum and pull
my little ribs around you

“Drumming Song” - Florence & The Machine [indie pop/alternative] (x)
As I move my feet
towards your body I can hear this beat
it fills my head up and gets louder

“Postpartum” - Taylor McFerrin [electronic/downtempo] (x)
I want to love you
but something’s in the way

“Place In My Heart” - Taylor McFerrin [electronic/downtempo] (x)
Your heart just keeps on pumping
Our heart must keep  on popping
I say heart keep on–stop
I say love keep on trying

“Clavicle” - Alkaline Trio [pop-punk/alternative] (x)
Been on top of the world
since about 6 months ago
Marking the first time I laid eyes on you
I lost all train of thought as I entered the room
Saw what looked like really good food then I saw you
And so did you

“He She” - Oneohtrix Point Never [experimental/electronic] (x)
[instrumental/samples]

thanks to @knights-of-ben-solo for requesting Reylo tunes, I’m glad I’m not the only one with Reylo playlists hahaha

The chocobros and seeing their favorite musician(s) in concert

Noctis: acts pretty chill but is screaming on the inside because he just absolutely adores whoever it is their seeing. When they come on stage he shows a little more excitement and sings along with every song, and when it’s finally over he’s sad but can’t stop smiling. Probably went to see someone along the lines of Oh Wonder or Muse.

Prompto: doesn’t keep his excitement to himself what so ever. He needs everyone to know this is HIS favorite singer/ band. He screams very loud when they come onstage and will sing very badly happily to every song making sure everyone knows he knows every lyric. Cries when it’s over. Most likely went to see someone along the lines of Paramore or Fall Out Boy.

Ignis: acts more excited than you think he would but keeps it to himself. Most of the music he listens to is pretty chill and relaxing so the crowds don’t get too rowdy. Will remain calm when they act gets on stage and bop his head to his favorite songs. No one knows how he feels what it’s over. Went to see someone literally no one has ever heard of.

Gladiolus: no one even knows what music he listens to, does he even listen to music? The rest of the chocobros bring him along to their shows, and he doesn’t mind at all, he’ll even get into the music a bit if it’s a particularly good band but no one can quite figure out if he listens to music elsewhere. Goes to see whoever the others want to see.