that is my favorite quote pertaining to him

anonymous asked:

what is your stance on the idea that brian and justins relationship was toxic and emotionally abusive? bc i just finished watching and now that im reading peoples opinions saying that it was toxic i can see where theyre coming from. however i still feel like they were like actually in love you know? what do you think?

Okay. Okay, alright. So I have thought about this a lot before. I’ve thought about it long, and hard, and deep into the night, m’kay. I’ve pondered it so much that I have actually gone to great lengths in order to research the topic and educate myself a bit on abusive relationships. Of course, doing some reading on this subject does not make me an expert, so feel free to disagree with me if you see things differently. But my stance is simply this: NO. No, the relationship between Brian and Justin was NOT toxic or emotionally abusive. Now allow me to elaborate and fully explain the reasoning behind my stance because I refuse to put ill informed opinions out into the world. 

(This is one really long response. Be warned that this turned into a ramble-y mess of a novel! More under the cut)

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anonymous asked:

He is my whole world and I'm scared she will take him away.

I used to fear people leaving, I still do because I always think that there’s always going to be someone prettier, smarter, better, and etc. but that was me in high school and the beginning of college. Now I know better. I know there is nothing wrong with me that will push you away. If someone wants to leave, they will leave regardless of the reason and well then - here is the door and lock it before you leave.

My favorite quote pertaining to this is from Taylor Swift, talking about her song Better Than Revenge: 

“I was 17 when I wrote that, that’s the age you are when you think someone can actually take your boyfriend. Then you grow up and realize no one takes someone from you if they don’t want to leave.”

So there’s that.