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i am not even sorry just take this

I don't understand asexuals.

I’m hypersexual due to trauma reasons, and I can’t understand not feeling sexual attraction/being sex repulsed. I can’t understand it at all.

Does that mean that asexuals are invalid in any way?

No. No it absolutely does not.

I don’t understand what’s difficult to get about it - I don’t understand physics either and you don’t see me flying off into space.

Acceptance does not require complete understanding; rejecting asexual people because you don’t understand their experience makes absolutely no sense.

Y'all asexual people out there are lovely and I care about you! (This also applies to aromantics!)

Dear parents of autistic children,

No, your child doesn’t do weird things “for no reason”. They do it for a reason, you just don’t know it yet. You have different brains, different perspectives, so sometimes things that are obvious to them are a mystery to you. But you don’t have to ignore it and blame it on them. You can make an effort, reach out to them and figure out the reason.

Do they scream in public when it looks like everything is okay? Well, there’s probably a reason for that. Maybe the situation is overwhelming to their senses, it’s too loud, to bright, to crowded, and they need some space and time to recover. Maybe they can’t stim because other people keep telling them it looks weird, so they end up exhausted much faster. Maybe you are breaking their routine by being outside at this time. Or maybe you are going through the supermarket “the wrong way”, not how you usually do it. Maybe they forgot their comfort object at home, and just realized that. Maybe they are in pain and can’t communicate that. Maybe they are very hungry and don’t realize that yet because it’s hard for them to recognize their needs and emotions. Maybe it’s a combination of those, or something different altogether.

Either way, they probably don’t do it “for no reason”. You just don’t see the reason. Make an effort to communicate. If they are verbal, ask them. If they can’t speak with their mouth at the moment or ever, use alternative methods of communication. If they can’t explain it, consult other autistic people, including autistic adults who probably have a bunch of ideas as to why your child does that weird thing. Don’t dismiss it, don’t complain about it, don’t blame your child for doing it. Try to see the world from their perspective. Respect their needs and feelings. Learn more about autism from other autistic people.

And life will be much better and easier for both you and your child.

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@natvanlis: Sometimes I wish I could go back in time and tell the twelve-year-old girl that got shoved into lockers what her life is like now.

Candy Cane Stockings

I need to go take a shower. In holy water. It’s Christmas Eve; how could I write something like this?

I am so going to hell, lmao.

Summary: I’m too tired to even come up with a proper summary, so you know what? Sin. That’s all this is. Pure (snort) Christmas sin. Enjoy your filth. Merry Christmas.

Warning(s): Smut. Duh. Curse words. Duh. A one-way ticket to hell. Duh.

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anyone: calls out army for being rude

army: wow stop being such an attention whore 

army: lol look how pathetic they are. Go get a life bitch 

army: look at this hoe tryna use bts to help make their irrelevant faves noticed 

army: look at them giving attention to our boys. #stankings#stanbts 

army: WHY ARE YOU TAINTING THE BTS RELATED TAG WITH THIS BULLSHIT?

army: exo l’s are way worse than this. Stop tryna act all innocent 

army: no one cares about your stupid ass opinion. Just shut the fuck up already 

army: STOP GENERALIZING THE WHOLE FANDOM WHEN ONLY 5% OF THE FANDOM IS BAD 

army: MOVE THE FUCK ON AND GET A LIFE. NO ONE CARES ABOUT YOUR OPINION!! 

army: how to deactivate? 

army: fake bitch trying to start drama 

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👏STOP👏HATING👏ON👏BURNET👏JUST👏BECAUSE👏SHE👏IS👏MARRIED👏TO👏KUKUI👏

anonymous asked:

I love that post you did a while ago about Pidge actually enjoying Lance's company and how Lance can be himself around her like how sweet! Do you have any headcannons about their relationship? (Either ship wise or just as best bros?)

Listen, I have so many thoughts about Pidge and Lance. Enough that I had to drag myself out of bed and onto my laptop to answer this, because my phone just won’t do. I’m gonna start with brOtp Pidge and Lance, because that’s my jam. 

  • After their initial meetup kerfuffle at the Garrison, Pidge and Lance actually become very close.
  • They’re actually known around the Garrison for their joint effort shenanigans: “Gunderson and McClain are running a poker tournament in their room again tonight.” “I hate playing against them, they always wipe me out of my allowance.” 
  • Total Weebs™. Pidge used to make fun of Lance for watching entry level anime and completely imparted her fathomless depths of anime recommendations on him. 
  • Lance taught Pidge how to swim.  
  • Pidge= makeshift stuffed animal.  Lance has a bad day and just needs to hold onto something or someone, he’s carrying Pidge right onto the couch and squishing his face into her tummy, because she’s soft and warm and plays with his hair and tells him that it’s going to be okay.  
  • Not afraid of crying around each other. 
  • Pidge makes an active effort to learn Spanish (like her attempts at Altean, only more successful).  She doesn’t really ever speak it to him, but it’s important that she learns her best friends first language. 
  • Lance has Protective Mom Mode: “Pidge, sunscreen, this planet has no shade!” “I got you a headband so you can keep all of that hair out of your eyes, it’s dangerous on missions.” 
  • Radio Lance, sings to Pidge when no one’s around and she’s lonely.  Does a rad cover of ‘Steal my Sunshine’ by Len.

I hope my presentation has convinced you all to get on the winning team of Best Friends 5eva Pidge and Lance

Ten days ago I missed you.
I cried and cried and prayed you’d call me.
I told myself I’d never be happy without you.


Five days ago you called.
You got mad for no reason and reminded me of all of the reasons we didn’t work.
You stomped my broken heart into the dust and then told me we’re friends again.


Today I can’t stand you.
You’re on my mind so much for all the bad reasons.
I can’t stand anything you do, the things I use to think were cute and quirky are just plain annoying now.
Everytime I run into you I resist the urge to lash out at you and tell you how annoying you are and how i’m so much better without you.


But if I hate you so much,
Why are you still on my mind?

—  sunshxnequote-s
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Can we take a moment to realize that Zhan Zheng Xi is such a great friend? I didn’t realize how many times he worries about Jian Yi, takes care of him or shows affection until I made this compilation. Now I’m fucked up, lmao.

He really really loves Jian Yi.