you know what gets my goat? mon el has a chance to make daxam better. if what he says to his parents is true, he knows that slavery is bad now, he knows his old life on daxam was wrong. his parents do not. they still think they saved those aliens when they worked as slaves for them. and mon el had a chance to go back to daxam and make it better than it was before. but he didnt. now his parents are going to go back and probably build the same exact planet, with every awful thing that was there before. how can a man who cant see what he could have done, be a hero? he could have been a hero to daxam. earth doesnt need another superman, and even if it did, mon el certainly doesnt fit the bill
about the tongue argument, they're so intensely MALE it's insane, it is known that men get turned on way more easily than women, i mean they can get turned on by looking at just about any woman that fits their type, or even doesnt... women aren't like that. they can never be women as much as they try and like.. men's lips are very different from a woman's, you can tell the difference in the tongue.