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The Law Of Attraction for Manifesting And Self-Confidence:

Q: Hi! I’ve found your blog not long ago and I am really loving it! I was wondering if you could give me your opinion/advice on how to manifest material things, but also I feel like I’m not too confident about myself and this is reflecting my outcome, but Idk how to change it. Thank you very much :) 

A: I am actually SO excited to answer a question on confidence. I have alot of help to give you, as it’s a very personal topic for me too. Attracting material things is covered at my best in the following post. Digest it and re-visit the page often. Each step will easily attract to you material things. Start with a medium sized goal, and you should have a result within 30 days. (Let me know what manifestations happen as a result of that, as they sure will happen!)

And now, for the key to success, the key to how happy your life will be and the key to how many opportunities come your way: Self-Confidence. Your confidence comes from your concept of yourself. Your concept of yourself was programmed from since before your birth and includes your parents, how much they earned, where they lived, and every thought you were exposed to in your childhood. It is hard to find a single person who has had a perfect image of themselves, therefore. Your concept of yourself is basically opinions that people share and over time they become accepted. An example is the girl that believes she is shy, and her family and friends also “agree”, would never ask out her teenage crush. There is no physical barrier to her doing this; she could walk up to him and she can say the words. But her concept of herself is the psychological reason her legs and mouth wouldn’t coordinate with her. 

You’re right that confidence will affect your outcome. It will affect the level of money you earn, where you live, who you befriend, etc. Here are some exercises that will cause your awareness to grow;

1. Headline a sheet of paper “The Truth About Me!” and write under it as close to this: The energy that made worlds, made me also. I am confident, I believe in myself, I enjoy being me. I know I am worthy of all that I desire. I am powerful and have a magnetic personality.” Read this statement every day. 

2. In the mirror, look into each eye separately and say to yourself “I am confident. I love me.” It will feel funny but its the surest fastest way to communicate with your Soul. 

3. If you were more confident, how would you act? Talk? Dress? Set 30 minutes aside each day and visualize in your imagination all these things. See your friends saying “you’re so much more confident now!”, and “Wow I can’t believe you did that! Where is this confidence coming from? You gotta spill!” etc, etc. The more intensely you do this, the more you’ll notice you start to take action towards that now. 

4. Read Psycho-Cybernetics by Dr Maxwell Maltz. I believe there are copies available on Amazon and PDFs on the internet too. Ignore the title, it is basically a plastic surgeon turned psychologist who wrote about self-confidence. The book is written in a simple style and you’ll really, really love reading it. Trust me. It will help you along your way. 

5. Play a confidence or self-love guided affirmation tape daily. Ideally in bed at night. I found one for you that has binaural beats which means it will stimulate your brain to learn confidence faster:

anonymous asked:

sorry to bother you, but how did you install your music player? mine wont show up at all :( also where did you get the skin for it? thanks a bunch!!!

you’re not bothering me!! I’m sorry this is so late, you may have already figured it out, but I’ll answer anyway 😊 I use this music player here! You can either choose one of the skins under ‘Step 2: choose a skin’ or you can get custom skins here like I did! You just copy the link into the custom player skin bar! Once your playlist is completed just click done and it will show you where to copy the HTML to! 😊

anonymous asked:

Hi! I've been meaning to send you an ask for a while, but I couldn't get the wording down and I was a bit nervous... but I just wanted to thank you for everything you do for all of us. Reading your responses to anon asks is like putting headphones in after a long day because you're so nice and comforting and helpful. (Sorry if that's a weird analogy...) Anyway, um, thanks for being here for everyone!

welp, i cried. thank you for sending this ask. it means alot to me. sometimes i even wonder if anyone reads them. i worry that my words wont matter.

i care about you guys more than i can say. i love you so much.

this will always be a safe space for you.
my ask box is always open.

hana-et-al  asked:

*curtsies* hello duke! thank you so much for that reply to the A+ grade anon. i'm struggling with the exact same thing and your words really helped to reset everything into perspective. thank you for being straightforward, and for taking the time to answer that. i hope you have a great day. :)

*Curtsies* Hello! You’re honestly so very welcome. Way to many people wreck their college experience by getting hung up on the wrong things. And here’s another thing that your university isn’t going to tell you: unless you’re thinking about grad school, after college nobody cares what your GPA was. Employers are going to want to know that yes, you got a degree and where you got it, but they’re not going to look at your CV and be like, “Tell me about this B you got second semester sophomore year.” Grades have no real-world value (again, unless you plan to go into higher ed), but your education does. So focus on actually learning stuff instead of what letters are on your transcript, because that’s what actually going to matter when you graduate. 

anonymous asked:

Hi! First of all thank you for being so nice and answering all kinds of question, it helps a lot to get to know the boys better. I was confused by one of your responses though, the one about the roomates. I thought they splited between JH, V and JM; RM and JK; and J and SG. But someone said JK has his own room now? Maybe I missed an interview or something?

In a interview (the last year) they said that RapMonster and V are roommates and Jungkook is alone. So now is Jimin-Jhope, Jin-Suga, RapMonster-V and Jungkook alone

anonymous asked:

Okay so I recently came out to my mother as agender, but she asked questions to better understand me or something, but I'm really unsure on how to answer. One of them was along the lines of "what does it mean to be agender" and "why do you want to change your name?" I don't know how to answer this without repeating "no gender" every five seconds.

Hello anon, thanks for the question.

The fact that your mom is asking questions and wants to understand seems to be a good sign but even when coming out is taken really well it can still be hard to talk to family/friends about the particular details. It might be helpful for you to, by yourself, write out how you came to figuring out you’re agender and your feelings about it, why/if you want to change your name, and what else you want to happen. These are all questions you probably do know the answers to but knowing something isn’t the same as explaining it in an eloquent way on the spot and preparing by getting the words out on paper before you say them out loud can only help. If you’re mom is open you might even want to ask her to write out a list of questions she has so you better know what she may be confused or concerned about and what you’ll want to explain. After that, find a time when you and your mom aren’t busy and can sit down and go over everything together. 

anonymous asked:

dear rae thank you so much for all that you've done for everyone and your messages to your anons make my day please never stop you never fail to make me smile you are such an inspiration I hope I'll be able to help others like you do one day I love ya mom

i love you too sweets. always.

i hope you had a good day/night. thank you for being so kind and sending this ask. it made me smile. 💕

The Ask Box Questions

Good morning from this side, loved ones! Hello to new followers and hello, too, to those who have been sticking around :)

This blog received only two concerns/questions from the Ask Box. Both from anonymous readers. Both interesting ones as well. I’m sorry I double checked the Ask Box just today but yes, I will respond. First I have to pray and seek God’s Word on how I can help the best way I can.

For now, make time to search answers yourself in God’s Word. Pray as needed, it’s our breath since redeemed by the Lord Jesus.

I’ll get back to you on the concerns in God’s time :) Thanks for sending and sharing the concern! God bless your midweek.

anonymous asked:

Hi so I've noticed that my vagina has been smelling bad and there's been some white sticky discharge that just happens randomly. I recently read that you shouldn't trim your bush cause it helps protect the vagina and mine is growing back from the last shave and I won't do it any more. I always pee after sex, but the discharge and the smell is still there, I'm 18 if that helps but I don't know what this could be. Thanks for reading this + any advice you can come up with!

Hey there! Thanks for reaching out, I love that ya’ll trust me to answer your vagina questions!! ❤

While it may not be particularly appealing, both the symptoms you’re describing are very normal. Discharge changes constantly during your cycle, and unless you’re feeling any pain, soreness, or itchiness in your vagina, I wouldn’t worry about it.

The reason for the sudden influx of unfavorable discharge is probably due to a change in your hormones, but not one to be concerned about. I generally have thicker discharge closer to my period.

One of the symptoms of a yeast infection is thick discharge, but it would be accompanied by sore or itchy labia, among other things. You would notice the pain anytime you touched your vagina, trust me- it’s painful.

As for the smell, you may not be cleaning your vagina properly. What you’re smelling is sweat, vaginas sweat too! NEVER wash your vagina with soap of any kind, as this will cause an imbalance in your PH and likely give you a yeast infection. Plain old water is the best cleanser, your vagina is actually one of the cleanest parts of your body because it naturally cleans itself. Use your hands to ensure that water touches every part of your vagina to help this process along. If you’re unsure about touching yourself, run a plain bath and sit in the warm water and allow it to permeate.

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  • per our earlier conversation: i just yelled at you on the phone
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  • thanks!!!: i'm crying at my desk
  • please advise: this might be your fault
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  • mind if i swing by?: i'm already in the elevator
  • can you confirm for me: you told me before and i deleted the email
  • sorry if that was unclear: i think you're an idiot
  • let me know if you need anything else: please never contact me again

anonymous asked:

Hello. I just want to say that this sort of semi-support/help-group-type-thingy that you "oversee" is extraordinarily remarkable. You are very helpful and kind; Be proud of that. Have a great day and the best of luck in all of your future ventures!

this made me really happy.
for some reason, i felt like tyler or josh wrote this? and my chest got all fluttery.

either way, thank you friend.
with the world the way it is right now, i feel like everyone could use a few kind words. it doesn’t take much to be kind.

i hope you have a wonderful day.

Regarding Dean

Characters:  Dean, Reader, Sam

Summary:  Sam calls reader to babysit Dean after he’s cursed by a witch.

Warnings:  Angst-ish

Word Count:  1776

Tags are at the bottom.  As always, feedback is welcomed and appreciated.

Regarding Dean

The screen lights up on your phone, Sam Winchester’s name flashing on the screen.This can’t be good, otherwise Sam would never, ever call you. Not after everything that happened. Should you answer? You don’t really want to dredge all that shit up. But if he’s calling, it’s important. You’re thumb hovers over the green button. It’s on the third ring before you decide to answer.  


“(Y/N)? It’s me, Sam. Please, don’t hang up, just hear me out.”

“I’m listening.”

“Thank…thank you. Listen, I wouldn’t be calling if I didn’t need help, you know that I wouldn’t. But I need you.”


You can’t figure out how Sam knows you’re in the area. You haven’t had contact with Dean or Sam for over year. Is he still keeping tabs on you through the hunter network?  It’s touching in a way, you’ve always had a soft spot for Sammy. Truth is, you miss him.

Why the fuck are you driving to the motel right now? Why would you willingly put yourself in this position? Must be temporary insanity. It’s the only logical explanation. Maybe you should drive straight to the psych ward and check yourself in after this is over.

Keep reading

sebastian stan is appreciated yet underappreciated at the same time. he’s pretty but he’s also this really good, interesting person. 

this panel has so many good moments [x] such as:

  • had to stop speaking because he couldn’t stop staring at this dog.
  • remembers taking a picture with someone 
  • “when you’re given a platform you have to do something about have to expand beyond your own personal goals.”
  • “i never really thought in a million years that this character or these stories or something, you know, to have someone, who, just reached out to me and said you know, ‘thank you for recognizing something or i’m related to this’ is probably the most gratifying experience out of this whole process.”
  • “the task for me would be to be more involved and see where I can help…even if it’s just, I don’t know, putting a smile on someone’s face, or answering some questions or you know, making someone feel better.”
  • “i’m awkward, I get nervous nervous, I get panic attacks, I get crazy, you know, whatever, depression.”
  • “my job is always to remain as honest as I can and to just, i don’t know, help in some way.”
  • goes on this whole thing about trying to focus on what he can control v what he can’t control, how that helps him to be a happier, better person.
  • “one of my goals in life is to really embrace struggle.”
  • “it’s important to kinda take in and be really grateful about sort of what’s happening, which i always remind myself, no matter what, and i really, really am.”

this video is in romanian w/ english subtitles, so all info is from there [x]

  • “i was very lucky, i tend to forget this. when i was 22 or 23 years old i wasn’t thinking about what it meant to her after the revolution came, to decide to go elsewhere for a better life.” on his mother, the sacrifices she made, and better understanding now that he’s older.
  • “after my grandma died, to be honest, it was difficult for me to go back there cause i had to go to the cemetery, to live that moment again, and face what happened with her. it was a very delicate situation for me.”
  • “when i saw that car driving fast with that flag with the hole in the middle, I felt like… i always remember something major, important was happening.” on the revolution when he was a kid.
  • “when i was watching it (a video of Ceausescu) i felt something so…i mean, i remember like the memories were there in my muscles. i felt like a knife went through me when i heard that voice it felt to me like it was yesterday.” 
  • “the thing that i feel changed most was a deeper sense of responsibility.” on being asked if fame changed him.
  • his parents are what keep his interest in romania alive, and are the reasons he can still speak the language.

here’s another panel [x]

  • remembers more fans. 
  • “the rough patches that you may going through are sort of, also, these great gifts that you can kind of rise from.”
  • paraphrasing but: we’re all capable of rising from difficult moments in our lives to get somewhere. 
  • “it’s the company you keep. people you surround yourself are extensions of you, that’s how i always feel..and i was lucky to have good influences.”
  • gives a fan a hug.
  • space nerd who exposes his knowledge and would live on the moon.

Bonus things: 

  • i think it’s important to remind the people we love why we love them or how they’ve touched us. i mean, i guess if it wasn’t for my mom i could probably be, not even in america right now. [x]
  • "embrace your differences and the qualities about you that you think are weird. eventually they’re going to be the only things separating you from everyone else.” [x]

anonymous asked:

Hello and sorry for bothering you. But I need your help and I don't know who else I can ask. Viktor's line in the church " I'll say something you won't even have to think about. " I feel like the original Victor's phrase was different. Thank you for your answer!

And you’d be right!! It was indeed different from the subtitles.
The original Japanese was


(nanimo kangaenakute ii omajinai)

To explain this phrase best, it’s better to split up the sentence in to two parts

「何も考えなくていい」(nanimo kangaenakute ii) - “it’s okay to not think about anything”


「お呪い」(omajinai) - “good luck charm”

These types of relative clauses are everywhere in Japanese, in which the descriptor is placed before the noun. So in this case, we have a good luck charm, and the effect of this good luck charm is to allow Yuuri to not think about anything.

Essentially what Victor says is that he’s presenting to Yuuri a good luck charm that will allow Yuuri to not think about anything while skating tomorrow. Then he presents the ring.

But the ring is just a symbol of a ‘good luck charm’ in a way. It’s what the ring stands for, what it means, that is the true ‘good luck charm’.

Previously, Victor commented that Yuuri tends to fail jumps whenever he’s thinking about something, his failed jumps were pretty much the only thing holding him back from getting points in competitions since his presentation was good enough to get him through to the GFP last year, so Victor gives him a good luck charm that will allow him to not think about anything and attain as high a score as he can with his current program.

So how does a ring do that?

Well, it’s now pretty canonly concrete that Yuuri worries a lot about Victor; how he’s causing him trouble, how he’ll fail Victor’s expectations, how he might leave. And so to present him with a ring, is to present to Yuuri something physical that binds them together spiritually, emotionally, and physically. It’s something that symbolises Victor’s total acceptance of Yuuri. Thus, it’s eliminating a majority of Yuuri’s worries concerning skating, allowing him to not flub his jumps, and finally, giving him his best chance at getting gold.

calling all asexuals

hey everyone!! so i need a little help. i’m doing my math investigative task and my topic is on if there’s a correlation between GDP per capita and the number of asexuals confirming their asexuality. 

basically all i need to know is what country you’re from and what year you found out you were asexual! all data from 2000 to 2015 is extra welcome! please reblog your answer in the reblog and not in the tags so i can easily copy!

it’ll be super super extra helpful if you’re from the US, UK, China/India, or any other Southeast Asian country except for Singapore (sorry fellow Singaporeans!!) but feel free to help add on your data even if you’re not from the above countries!

and if you’re not asexual, please help boost this! i need all the data by february 5th so i have time to write up the report.

thanks so much!! as a way of saying thank you, everyone who reblogs this with data will be automatically entered in an art giveaway so please please do help me out, thanks!

Edit: thank you all so much for the data! I have plenty to work with now and won’t need more. The results of the giveaway will be posted this Saturday when my math has been submitted! Thanks again everyone, you’ve been a massive help!