Hey, so you give good advice and I'm sort of beating myself over this situation I'm in. Basically I'm in love with my professor and she's the reason why I've come to terms with the fact I'm a lesbian. I don't know whether I should tell her this or whether I should keep it to myself? I just don't want to make her uncomfortable... but I also want to tell her about my feelings?
i’m not sure i follow, do you want to tell her that because you want a relationship with her? or do you just want to say “hey thanks for making me feel comfortable as a lesbian”? because i wouldn’t recommend crossing the professor/student boundary…not to mention its against most universities’ policy. but yeah if you just want to tell her that you admire her & she helped you figure out your identity, i’m sure she would appreciate that.