text posts and personal shit

Hello hi!

I’ve made a sideblog for my photography called @drxgonflysphotos (super creative I know) I’ll still be posting my photos on this blog under this tag because this is where all my traffic comes from. If you’re a photographer or someone who follows me just for my photos and don’t want to be spammed with all of my reblogs, I won’t be offended if you unfollow me here and refollow me over there. I don’t take enough photos to keep it super active but in the future, it’ll be updated at least once or twice a month. At the moment I have a queue going of 3 photos a day.

I also have a sideblog called @drxgonflyups where I just reblog my uploads and photography. All uploads are posted on this blog under this tag, again, because this is where all my traffic comes from. 


@drxgonflysphotos - my original photography will be reblogged here

@drxgonflyups - my uploads & original photography will be reblogged here

@drxgonfly - everything is posted and reblogged here

Thanks! <3

it never ceases to amaze me when gbtq dudes who understand the concept of saying “i hate straight people/i hate cis people” as a way to vent frustration with a homo/transphobic culture and not a direct statement about individually hating every straight/cis person in the world still shit themselves when women (esp lbtq women) say “i hate men”

and when i say it amazes me i mean it doesn’t surprise me at fucking all

anyway victuuri because it’s 4 am

  • Makkachin steals the blankets.
  • Victor loves being little spoon and when he wakes up with Yuuri’s arms around him he just nuzzles them or traces over the skin until their alarm goes off. 
  • Yuuri wakes up FAST but he still hates it. Victor is more of a morning person but he still needs a coffee before he can actually think beyond “Hold fiance. Take shower. Call fiance cute.” 
  • Yuuri drinks his coffee black because college hurts us all. Victor is shocked and disgusted and dumps 60 cookie and cream creamers into his coffee before he deems it semi-responsible to drink. 
  •  When they grab the wrong coffee cup on accident it’s turmoil. 
  • Y: “You need to shave.” V: “I don’t wanna shave.” Y: “And I don’t want beard burn. Go shave.” then 5 mins later he’s kissing Victor’s cheek.
  • Wearing each other’s clothes is just routine to them. They’re about the same size. (Most of Yuuri’s clothes tend to be looser anyway due to his weight changes through the year) so their closet is just a mix of clothes about a month after Yuuri moves in. Especially their work out stuff.
  • Wearing each other’s jackets though will always be their favorite and when Yuuri has bad days he’ll just wear Victor’s hoodies and sleep on the couch with Makkachin. 
  • Victor does the same thing only in Yuuri’s sweats. 
  • They both love touching each other. Like, Yuuri will be talking and Victor would touch his lower back. They’ll hook pinkies or hands without thinking while walking. Their hands will overlap on the boards as they talk to other skaters. Leaning on each for balance while stretching, messing with their skates, or exhausted by practice. 
  • They just love touching each other. 
  • Yuuri loves the all natural stuff the Inn uses and used to get some in his care packages from home in college, and when he moves to Saint Petersburg Victor stocks their bathroom up with it. Most of it are oils to put in the bath or home made soaps. Victor’s skin is just #Thankful.
  • Yuuri rambling pet names while kissing Victor because it destroys Victor. He can dish it out but he can’t handle it. 
  • The same when Yuuri cuddles him and wraps his arms around him.
  • Seriously. They love each other. 
  • Me: I think I'm gonna work on being a better person by letting go of my anger
  • Some asshole: *does unnecessary stupid shit for no goddamn reason*
  • Me: It's time 2 murder

i love bangtan and there are a lot of ways to interpret love; often it’s just eternally screaming at my laptop at midnight, and sometimes it’s me ogling over a new interview of them. but now, it is respect.

idols often sing songs of love and romance, or talk about establishing their image, boasting of their capabilities and strengths and what makes them stand out from the rest. but bangtan’s been straying from that route ever since they started the hyyh concept; instead, they chose to explore the concept of youth, the complexity, the meaning, the ugliness and beauty of it all. and in the process, they were willing to be transparent about how they worked on all of this, revealing their innermost thoughts and fears and insecurities to us that not a lot of idols would dare to do with their music.

i think that’s why i have such profound respect for bangtan; because they are so raw, unfiltered, passionate, and they are willing to show us the many dimensions of their personalities through their songs. they are so respectable, so considerate-to venture into a theme that everyone can so strongly relate to-and lastly, they are so human. sharing these experiences is not the easiest thing to do, yet they continuously open up to us. this is one of the most intimate ways an idol could ever interact with their fans.

i love bangtan. i really fucking do.

a daily reminder that dominic sherwood deserves so much better than the shit he gets from the sh fandom