Newlaef is not female, so whoever keeps referring to him as such needs to stop. Secondly, as newlaef's boyfriend, I can tell you with absolute authority that he is gentle and sincere---he also has /feelings/. Regarding the donation button---he sent a lot of his own money to his grandfather. He also has living expenses to pay for of his own, and was thinking of a way to help his family as much as he could. Ironic that there are some bigots in the Animal Crossing community whining about charity.