Personal ; A’ight my blog is done® than before. I also added like one or two more rules to my rules page for those that want to check it out. If the text on my blog is too smol, pls let me know and I’ll make it bigger (the font size is already 14 but I’ll bump it up for sure). The new rules aren’t a big deal- a make or break on this blog-, I just took some time to emphasize that my blog is a safe place.
Briefly the new rules are: Please don’t ask me why I unfollowed you, and this blog is a negative-free environment.
Please don’t tell me I’m beautiful… at least not in the same sentence as “I love you”. I know it’s supposed to instill me with confidence, but the truth is – nothing terrifies me more than the thought of somebody who’s only attracted to looks. Because looks fade; people age; and there will always be somebody who’s better looking and younger than me out there and as soon as I know that’s what your love hinges on – I know it won’t last.
So don’t tell me I’m attractive or beautiful… tell me I’m a beautiful person and that you’re attracted to my sense of humor. Don’t text me about how hot you think I am, look into my eyes and tell me of my warmth. Tell me I have a sexy mind that arouses your intellect. Tell me one thing about who I really am that you actually love… something that will last… Because I need to know that you can see the depth of my soul and are not just fascinated by the shallow reflection on the surface. Tell me something real… something that shows me not only that you see me – but that you love me for who I am…