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anonymous asked:

The only thing i know is drawing but my family keeps telling me that i can't do that.i live in romania but i wanna go to nyc.i'm scared to be by my own.What if my art is not good and my family is right and i should stay here and have a stable job?

Do it even if it scares you. scary things are the ones that chances you the most. once there you will realize you did the right thing. Your art is valid. I believed in my dreams and now I live the life I want to live and I am realizing my dreams one by one. Believe in your dreams. Sound cheesy but cannot be more true. I am rooting for you

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Hi i made these move Ratchet icons n it took me three days and the final two were suffering cause I just want to go to bed but i needed to finish them

i had to scale them all down to 150x150 cause i didnt want to make one bigger and have it be fuzzy

if you wanna use one of my trash babies pls like or reblog this post thank. credit isnt neccessary but is appreciated

all credits for backgrounds go to freepik which is a cool website i recommend

Today in Irony and Ignorance

Over on Facebook, I posted a link to my io9 essay about harassment in SF/F. Dude shows up and starts griping about people being oversensitive and unable to deal with their “precious feelings” being bruised.

I ask him to tone it down.

Dude promptly loses his shit. It’s almost like my comment bruised his precious feelings…

So after cursing me out and blocking me, a friend tells me this gentleman has gone back to his own FB page to complain about how he’s been censored.

“Censored.” You keep using that word. I do not think it means what you think it means.

This has provided me with far more amusement than it probably should…

anonymous asked:

Hi eri! So a long time ago my mom found out that I am a lesbian and she is really religious, she was very mad and made it clear she was disappointed. But anyway recently it seemed as though she had something on her chest and finally she confronted me about it. She kept on saying what I was choosing for myself was wrong and that God doesn't make mistakes and I kept on telling her I didn't choose to be like this yet she was being very rude about it! I couldn't walk away cuz we were in the car 1/2

On the free way. So she then asks me to tell her if something is ever bothering me and I can’t do that and it make me feel terrible because she is my mom! And she keeps pressuring me about it and it just adds on to my worsening depression and I sick of it all and wanna take my life what do I do? 2/2

CA: she should knoww howw much shes hurtin you and i hope you havve some friends or other family wwho you can rely on for support cause she doesnt seem like the person youd wwanna talk about your problems wwith

What do I do with my life now????
  • <p><b>App:</b> 500: internal server error<p/><b>Me:</b> *Draws fanart while server is down*<p/><b>Me:</b> I should post this somewhere! :D<p/><b>Drawing:</b> *is ugly*<p/><b>Me:</b> Nevermind T.T<p/><b>Me:</b> *Checks Mystic Messenger*<p/><b>App:</b> 500: internal server error!<p/><b>Me:</b> And so the cycle continues..<p/></p>

anonymous asked:

I'm in a long distance relationship with a guy who sometimes just doesn't text me back and is very bad at communicating. What should I say to him? because the lack of communication makes me scared to trust him because it's literally all we have right now and he barely even calls me too and idk what to do

it sounds like you have your own issues with communication and that it’s not just him. because it sounds like you do not know how to tell him what is ultimately a very basic thing to ask of a partner, which is to have better communication

i am not a fan of just telling the person i’m dating that they are doing something wrong. if i notice an issue, i’d want to talk about it and see where the issue is coming from. in this case, i would call him, mention that you’ve noticed that the communication between you two is changing, and ask him to talk about how he feels about the change. a lot of times, when there is an issue with communication, the longer you go without talking about it the worse it gets. 

you also need to think about your reasoning for wanting to increase communication. it does not seem like you want to increase communication because you miss him or because you just want to get to know him more. it sounds like it’s based in insecurity and lack of trust. which has to be addressed. that’s an issue that even if he is calling you and texting an appropriate amount, it will never be enough to calm your insecurities

you want him to communicate with you. but you also have to hold yourself accountable and communicate your needs. it’s not just that he’s bad at communicating. it’s that you have some things to work out, and you have to put the effort to working them out alone (the lack of trust thing), and with him (the communication thing)

storm-eye-the-umbreon  asked:

Blayz, what do you remember before becoming an orange Lopunny

The Lopunny looked down at this weird creature he had never seen before. It looked like some kind of Jackal? Maybe a Rabbit Dog? Well, since it was talking to him he thought about what to say.

“Hmmmm.. I don’t think I should tell this creature everything, I might freak them out…” He thought to himself.

“Well.. I remember getting ready to go on a trip, but then I took a pretty bad fall and now… I’m this orange bunny creature. What did you call me? a Low-Pun-Knee?” Blayz asked.

What is it about me that just screams to men “Hey! We just met but you should tell me about all your gross relationship histories! Tell me all the disgusting details! Tell me all your weird stories! Tell me the gross details of your personality!”


I do not want to be friends with this guy anymore how the hell do I end this phone call

anonymous asked:

Hi! I was hoping you could write a scenario where Keith's s/o finds out she's pregnant and then tells Keith but then she gets injured cause of Zarkon and Keith absolutely looses it or whatever you think his reaction would be to that! Thanks!

I’m not sure how this got to be so long! But it happened. Let me know what you all think! And remember, imagines/scenarios and headcanons are still open!


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anonymous asked:

I started wearing hijab these days my family are trying to let me take it off by telling me that the hijab is not fard in Islam what should I do? Please help

Salaam Alaikum sister! I am sorry that your family is trying to discourage you from wearing the hijab. Wearing the hijab is between you and Allah SWT. No one can tell you whether you should or should not wear it. Try talking to your family and explaining to them how the hijab is mandatory and how it is your choice to wear it. Also try asking them why they are against you wearing the hijab. In Sha Allah sister you and your family will reach an understanding.

“And tell the believing women to reduce [some] of their vision and guard their private parts and not expose their adornment except that which [necessarily] appears thereof and to wrap [a portion of] their headcovers over their chests and not expose their adornment except to their husbands, their fathers, their husbands’ fathers, their sons, their husbands’ sons, their brothers, their brothers’ sons, their sisters’ sons, their women, that which their right hands possess, or those male attendants having no physical desire, or children who are not yet aware of the private aspects of women. And let them not stamp their feet to make known what they conceal of their adornment. And turn to Allah in repentance, all of you, O believers, that you might succeed” Surah An-Nur (24:31)

pyramidheaddezby  asked:

Scooter... Mama heard you made a new 'friend'... Want to tell me what's going on? May I remind you I have a weak heart?... Well I do now. ^_^ -she smiles, but you feel like you should choose your words carefully-

Scooter is oblivious.~

anonymous asked:

Things went down. Shit hit the fan. I was vulnerable for the first time in my life. My best friend found out that I was gay before I could talk to her myself. She revealed her love to me with confusion and anger. I was drowning in my own depression and anxiety with my family outing me after I came out to them. I could not take one more of my closest friends hating me for who I am. It's been five months since I have spoken to her. I lover her dearly but don't want to hurt her. What should I do?

If they can’t accept you for being gay, you must still accept them for not accepting you. You may opt to move out, but as long as you tell them no matter what happens between your relationship with the bunch, you’ll always love them. Because during my lowest point, family may be sketchy, but family won’t leave you. I can only pray that your family is the same way.

so ive gained a lot of new followers since the last one of these i did so its time for another post where i tell yous about myself.

-my name is katie but u can call me septic or whatever u want rlly idgaf

-im from england

-im a meme loving fuck

-i do togethertube stuff often and u should come when its open

-i mainly listen to rap/hip hop tho i am known to enjoy some ‘00s cheese

-i would die for any of my faves literally

-ive got a dog and i love him. hes a cocker spaniel

-nobody knows what i look like or how old i am and please dont ask me either of those things. just assume im a lenny face

-i have a twitter and a snap theyre in my bio

-im down for pretty much anything

also the advice my friends gave me was like the exact opposite. one was like BAD IDEA DON’T TEXT DON’T MAKE THINGS COMPLICATED. the other was like GO FOR IT IF YOU WANT, JUST BE CLEAR ABOUT WHERE YOU BOTH STAND. meanwhile i’m like ughhhhhh i’m supposed to be worrying about classes starting next week not whether i should text some guy or not.

anonymous asked:

so, I've liked this guy for 4 years and we were really close friends but our friend groups separated so we stopped talking, but I still had feelings for him. I tried to suppress it but I couldn't take it any more so last Thursday I decided to tell him how I feel and he said "Oh okay I see :) atm I'm not really sure what I want right now, but if I feel like i'm ready for a relationship i'll be sure to hit you up" What should I do? Is this false hope or for real? pls give me advice! thanks! xox

Oh sweetness :( I know it’s not what you want to hear but I think you need to move on and forget about him. Now he thinks that whenever he wants you, you’ll come running and that’s not healthy grounds to begin a relationship on. Plus it sounds like you have much stronger feelings than he does and in a relationship, that would not feel good for you. In the long run, you’ll be much happier by moving on and not thinking of him romantically.

I really hope things work out for you darling 💕

I’ve finished all them Witcher short stories. Well, finished to my satisfaction, anyway. The second collection i read, and the first I half-listened to as an audiobook. I’m a bit rubbish at attending to audiobooks (but fine with radio drama, documentaries, podcasts and stuff. Why’s that, eh?)

Here’s a thing that struck me. The basic format for any given Witcher short story is that you have characters who, from their generic roles, ought normally to be doing fantastical supernatural violence but, instead of having them do it then the meat of the story is having them discuss if it should be done, who it should be done to, and how it should be done. Discussions that rope in half-formed philosophical ideas in such a way that a see-saw starts to tilt between the characters being allegories for the concepts and the concepts being psychological consequences of the characterisation. A see-saw that never fully tips one way or the other nor finds equilibrium. 

I tell you what that reminds me of. It’s that Monogatari thing, isn’t it? Another series I think is really gross but can’t bring myself to just leave on the floor and step around. I obviously really like the format of fantasy adventure people debating whether or not to do fantasy adventures while establishing an irresolvable tension between the philosophical and the psychological. That’s a structure that really suits what I want from short fiction, even if it’s used to contain material I’m not keen on. Come to think of it, that’s a lot of Hickman too.     

i was talking to my girlfriend a little bit about bpd and what a fp is and i explained that there’s a possibility that i just may wake up one day and she’ll be my fp (or worse someone else will be my fp) and she keeps telling me that she’d be fine if she was me fp or that she’d be honored or that she’d love it but

like you say that now but when she realizes how fucking shitty it is she’ll want to leave me just like everyone else

Today I’m almost ready to fight over the fact that I don’t come home on time when I’m visiting my girlfriend… It’s been a few months actually I should say it’s been a few years that I’ve been feeling this way but I really don’t like my home I feel a mix of being afraid pensive anxious I have a huge pool of negative emotions and I don’t know what to do when I feel like I’m all by myself because everytime I try to vent to my family my sister always tells me it’s not that bad but to me it is. I’m sorry it’s such a clusterfuck of a paragraph but I’m just really stressed out right now, it’s 2 a.m. all I can think of is the things I need to pack up to leave and feel safe because I hate it here so badly that if I stay any longer I’m going to end up hurting myself or someone else… I’m so scared and I feel really alone right now and I don’t want to but too many people and I’m very sorry I probably sound very childish but I I can’t stay here anymore… I just can’t do it… I want to leave… I’m very very scared and alone right now and I’m sorry I sound like a baby

I’m stealing this from @tiwaworks | This highly resonated with me, especially today. There are so many people who 1. Try to sell me dreams 2. Tell me I can/should be doing X, Y, & Z. But with all honesty when you know your purpose and your VALUE, you know EXACTLY what you need to be doing and where you should be. Many people will have this vision for you (it usually includes them) but usually don’t take into account what’s best for you. Only You know where you’re at in life mentally/physically. So if you KNOW it’s not aligned with where you’re at in life at the moment or your purpose, just graciously decline. When it’s your time it will be there still! Or maybe something better … don’t worry. I can not stress enough how important it is to just take time & gauge energies. Know what’s for you & what’s not. DO NOT SETTLE. #FoodForThought #TakeYourTime #KnowYourself #KnowYourWorth ❤️

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