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Things about uni I learned the hard way

1. Rewriting notes is useless (for me)
2. I should read my textbooks in advance
3. Syllabus of each subject is essential and it’s pretty much a study guide that tells me when I should study what.
3. When teacher says “search it up” or “please read this” or “please watch this video” you better do it …Cause it’s going to be on the test.
4. When teacher tells you to print / download some material you do it asap just in case he’ll delete it later without warning you… (one of my teachers is like that)
5. Never relay on others.
P. S.: Procrastination leads to eternal misery.

anonymous asked:

Imagine Lena trying to give Kara a hickey (whether out of revenge for Kara giving her one, or just a general desire), and just getting increasingly frustrated that she can't.

If she didn’t know that Kara was Supergirl she’d get hella suspious as well.. she’d be like “what the hell is up with your skin?? why aren’t you getting any hickeys?” “You’re trying to give me a hickey?” “Yes, and it’s not working!! Why is that? Do you want to tell me something?” “Uhh, nooo?” “Kara!?” “Well, I might not be able to get any hickeys, because.. you see, it’s not really that I can’t get any hickeys in general I just can’t get any here.. on earth..” nervous laughter..

Someone should write a fic about this!!!!! Please <3

I cannot even imagine where I would be today were it not for that handful of friends who have given me a heart full of joy. Let’s face it, friends make life a lot more fun.” Charles R. Swindoll

When you see this drawing, what do you see?

To me, I see a group of people who are happy amongst each other. They each have hearts of gold within them. They bring warmth to anyone, inspire people, or bring smiles upon our faces.

That’s why I love them. For the smiles they bring.

A few days ago, I had gotten some anonymous messages in my Inbox telling me to “give up” or to just “disappear” because these people would never notice me.

That I should “quit with trying to act like you aren’t some girl who’s depressed when really you are.”

Or that “no one likes my shit.”

Or artwork and writing is “a pile of shit.”

Or “Your ideas suck” and that “they’re something you just thought would get you famous.”

Or “You’re not important to any fandoms whatsoever.”

Or, my personal favorite, “Why look up to people who don’t even give you attention?”

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I actually never told my opinion about all those kpop wars becuase I didn’t want to cause next one BUT after MMA and MAMA things went even worse and I couldn’t let it in anymore. This may be too long but those who care about their idols please read it all and tell me how you feel about my opinion BECAUSE my opinions aren’t perfect nor yours nor anyones. We all think differetly about this situation but EVERYONE has a point somewhere.

First of all, I know that the “BTS doesn’t deserve MMA award let’s call to Melon to tell them they should give the award to EXO” war was caused mainly because of korean fans. Well, at least from what I read, everywhere were korean exo-ls complaining about it. I didn’t care about this that much because Melon CAN’T do something like this. 

Then there are, how I call it, “childish wars” between ARMYs and EXOLs. Honestly… Do you really have to? Are you that childish to complain or hate or stick out EVERY fucking thing the idols do? Do you really have to compare your idols to someone else? Are you really that low that you have to do that? The “oh look, BTS are so rude to not bow politely while recieving the award. beucase oh look Suho bowed 90° he is the existence of perfection and decency” OR “oh look, Lay’s speech was so rude, instead of thanking his fans and staff and family and members for that award that he doesn’t deserve he insulted BTS and said that they’re kings and no one can replace them.” 

*sighs* *sighs* *siiiiiiiiiiighs* *shows you my finger that is between ring finger and index finger* don’t want to be that rude so yeah, but i know you got it. 

I didn’t hear a word about BTS in Lay’s speech. I didn’t saw BTS not bowing while recieving the award. 

I fucking heard Lay being grateful and showing exo-ls their love and gratitude. I fucking saw all BTS members bowing while recieving the award and bowing 90° to fans at the end. 

SO SHUT YOUR FUCKING MOUTH. YOU JUST SEE WHAT YOU WANT TO SEE. ehm… sorry for my burst. So… Yeah, those fans who bash other idols all the time, the shame is on you, the fault is yours. Can’t you see your beloved idols are trying so hard to accomplish your dreams and wishes? They’re trying so hard to show you that they’re someone who you can be proud of. So why would you do something that can hurt them or their career or their lives or lives of their family? Why are you so selfish? Stop wearing those pink glasses and try to look at the world from someone else’s point of view. Try to understand someone else’s opinion, situation. I’m not saying you can’t have your opinion EVERYBODY CAN but try to understand sometimes.

If I could compare kpop to something, it would be food. Kpop industry in general.

Kpop is the food and fans are the eaters. 

When you’re listening to a music you either start stanning a group immediately or after some time. But that’s not important. The important is that when you eat something and you really like it you’ll eat it as much as you can. Maybe every day or every week. But there is some food that when you tasteit you don’t like it. And what do you do with food you don’t like? Do you tweet about them saying how awful they are? How much you hate them? Do you tweet about every signle piece of the food every day saying how they don’t deserve to be on plate? Or do you just throw it away and don’t eat it anymore? You’ll stop eating it right? You’ll say your mom or idk whoever to not to cook that again because you don’t like it. You’ll come to restaurant and order something you like and not something you don’t like. You won’t order something and then stare at it the whole time, then bringing your phone and tweeting about how you hate it. It’s waste of your time and money, right? 

So tell me WHY the fuck do you do this to idols? 

Why don’t you just live happy life listening to your favorite group, tweeting them about how much you love them and how much are you proud of them. Why would you spend your time bashing other’s succes, effort and dreams?

Also I’m not saying you can’t say something against someone who is bashing your idol BUT try to be more mature than them and talk to them. If they don’t listen, they are not worth it. They’re not worth your effort. So just leave them. You said what you wanted and that’s enough.

Man, I don’t know if I told everything but I hope so. I also hope that someone will read it till the end and think about it. I’m not saying that you should listen to me but try to think and understand. This is just my opinion and I needed to write my thoughts out because my mind would just *BAM* if I didn’t.

As one wise human said: “Don’t judge the fandom because of a fan. But don’t judge a fan because of the fandom either.” There is nothing more accurate than this.

Also this is not related to ARMYs and EXOLs only! I just write them as an example because I’m ARMY and I also love listening to EXO and well let’s be honest… those two fandoms are getting worse and worse. But still, I’m not ashamed of calling myself an ARMY because I’m so so so proud to call myself a fan of BTS. AND YOU should be proud too! Be proud of what and who you like!

As I said this is related to kpop industry in general.

it’s a mess i know but i hope you get my point

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Remy recalls what his brother had told him the day before…that Allison was desperate for a baby even though she wasn’t healthy enough to get pregnant, and that she was behaving sneakily and trying to conceive. He suspects that any problems in Allison and Nico’s bedroom  had little to do with Allison’s weight.

Remy: Not sure you should be telling me about your love life, Allie. But whatever is going on, I doubt it has to do with your figure. You look amazing.

Allison: Thank you. I’m not trying to make you feel awkward, Remy. It’s just that Nico is doing things he’s never done before. We even had a fight about it just before you showed up. Then last night after the party, I tried to be intimate with him and he went right to sleep! 

Remy: Maybe he was tired.

Allison: Or maybe he doesn’t find me sexy. 

Remy lifts Allison’s face up to his own.

Remy: I think what Nico finds sexy is honesty, Allie. It’s hard to be intimate with someone if you don’t trust them.

Allison angry: What is that supposed to mean? What did Nico tell you? 

Remy shrugs: Nothing. I’m just saying. 

Allison scowls and storms away. 

Remy sighs: Damn. And I didn’t get a chance to ask her for some money!

Shhh, don’t tell people at work I used their wi-fi to post those two things -I was considering posting all the other things too like I said before, but that wouldn’t be a good a idea. I’ll just have to wait for my connection to work again, so only those two for now -sigh- -

And please remember, don’t send me suggestions about what ndr-v3 character I should draw next, I’m doing this by putting their names in a bag and choosing one randomly–
Ahh~ Only 4 more and I’ll be done practicing their designs~ 

anonymous asked:

I think I might have a huge crush on my best friend. She's really gay to but idk if she likes me and I don't want to mess up our friendship. What should I do? Should I tell her or ignore it till I forget that I like her or something???

If you know she’s gay thats a HUGE advantage! (Trust me I speak for everyone who fell for their straight friend) you should go for it. Be very flirty and see how she reacts, throw hints that you’re into her and if you see a good response then you can talk to her.

anonymous asked:

Based on TG!hcs you just made, can I request a scenario?Phichit talked it out with s/o who told everything, apologized and tried to assure him that they don't see him as prey, and they let himdecide whether tp break up or not? (His answer is up to u)

((Here are the headcanons))

“What do you mean you couldn’t tell me? I’m your boyfriend, I though you  trusted me a bit more than that!”

(y/n) looked down, guilt visible in her eyes.

“Phichit, try to put yourself in my shoes. I love you, I really do, but this isn’t something to take lightly.”

Sighing, Phichit pinched the bridge of his nose.

“Look, I’m not saying you should’ve told me when we first started dating, but we’ve been together for four years! When did you intend on telling me?”

“I don’t know! This isn’t as easy as you make it seem!”

Phichit was someone who could stay angry for a long time. But seeing (y/n) starting to cry, he felt something inside him break. 

He quickly stepped forward, hugging her.

“Don’t cry! I swear, we can try to make this work. Just don’t cry, please. I love you and I wouldn’t leave you for anything.”

anonymous asked:

whenever I get sad or mad or have a panic attack and I feel like hurting myself I watch ot5 videos but sometimes I get my phone taken away and I can't watch them on anything so I do hurt myself. they make me happy and I lose myself in them whether it's something I'm watching reading or looking at it just has to be about them. I have cut myself before and I do have scars. I've never told anyone cause I'm scared of what people will think of me.

well… i understand you, you shouldn’t be ashamed of that nor should you care, it’s your life and people tend to show their pain and frustration in different ways and it’s no ones place to judge you or tell you what to do.

anonymous asked:

I've been friends with this boy for 3 years. Our friendship started because he had a crush on me but it never went anywhere. Then, I started to like him and I never told him because I knew there was no chance. Recently, I've started trying to stay away from him/ignore him to get over the crush and when he noticed I panicked and told him I didn't want to be his friend. We haven't talked in a week (when we used to talk everyday) and I don't know what to do? I thought this would help but it hasn't

i think you should tell him the truth because it sounds like it would be hurtful for someone to just say they don’t wanna be friends out of the blue. just explain what happened and that you panicked

missedbecominghistoric  asked:

[text] hel i need help. it's incredibly serious and if you don't respond i really don't know what i'll do.

@missedbecominghistoric

[Text: Charlie] Okay okay, tell me what’s going on
[Text: Charlie] What kind of help do you need? Do I need to come get you? 
[Text: Charlie] Should I be bringing a knife or a first aid kit?

anonymous asked:

I'm really in love with my boyfriend and I'm so happy with him , but I feel really guilty because in summer I was really drunk and another guy forcefully kissed me and I pushed him away but he didn't stop. I'm sure that if I tell my boyfriend about it he will break up with me. what should I do? i feel like it's my fault for drinking and not being able to stop that guy

It’s not your fault. You didn’t wanted it. If you don’t tell your boyfriend it will always haunt you. 

anonymous asked:

I do know the meaning of the LGBT community but Are you one of those """"ace discourse everywhere""""? Girl. Sit down. Go read about intersec feminism. Do not enter the "intersex/ace people should not be in the community" hell. That's some bad shit.

That’s funny because not once have I mentioned ace discourse anywhere and yet you are here telling me to read on something I have read about EXTENSIVELY and telling me to sit down? You sit the fuck down. You don’t even know me, what the heck makes you think you can talk condescendingly like this to people you literally do not know on the internet? Annoying, uncalled for, pretentious, “I think I know more than I actually do” people like you are the reason why I stay away from internet discussions nowadays. You are not up for talk, you are up for using “girl” and “y'all” and “sit down” so you can feel more intelligent while you burn the patience of other people. As you can see, mine has been completely fucking obliterated. You learn to talk to me or you don’t at all. Good day.

Looking Jealous or Crazy

This is it. The last straw, I can’t take it anymore. 3 years , 3 whole years down the drain because of some blonde wannabe. It’s okay because I wil get my vengeance , I will show him that I am and will always be better than her and better without him.
*Flashback*
Entering the arena, I go find my boyfriend Zo to tell him some awesome news that we both have been wanting to hear . Going to his dressing room, I hear giggles and kissing, not wanting to interrupt Cass and Mella , I walk to catering. But when I do I see them both sitting down eating some pie. Hell no, I know his ass isn’t cheating on me! So what should I do now ? Should I go confront them or should I do something crazy ?
*End of Flashback*
What’s worse looking jealous or crazy? After I told Stephanie my plan, I waited for the show to begin. As their segment with New Day is going on, a video starts. There’s me looking sexy as hell in black leather with ruby lips a cigeratte dangling out of my mouth while a bat hangs out my hand. As I’m dragging the baseball bat , Hold Up by Beyoncé starts to play. And let me tell you I went to town on his car, Stone Cold would be hella proud . Enzo is in the middle of the ring, frozen at what he just saw. The video then pans to me going up to Liv Morgan “Hey girl, how you doin” I ask “Oh you know I’m doing okay , I’m seeing someone and that’s going well” she says. This little bitch had some nerve by saying that , sigh I didn’t want it to end this way. Oh well Fuck it all , fuck her and him and they can also keep fucking each other. “ Yeah ! I heard you guys in my boyfriends dressing room” hearing the sarcasm dripping off my voice she starts to stutter an apology but no way am I gonna let her go scotch free . “What ? You didn’t think I would find out ? You been fucking my man behind my back all while smiling in my face! Girl you so lucky I’m pregnant and can’t whoop your ass myself but I do have a older sister and a best friend who would gladly do it for me ” At this moment my sister Naomi and my best friend Nia Jaxx appears behind her and throws her into the crates. I’m laughing my ass off. I guess I’d rather be crazy . ********************************************* How was it? I typed it on my phone while I’m at work ! Also taking any and all requests so blow my inbox up

Also like if I accept the “be thankful they’re not more abusive” premise, like where does it stop.  If I live under their roof but they beat me, do I have to stop whining about the bruises because at least I have shelter?  Because that logic sure as fuck applied a couple of generations back, when you were considered a bad parent if you DIDN’T beat the shit out of your kid every now and then.  If they do kick me out should I be thankful at least they didn’t beat me?

Anyway, some rando gaslighting me and telling me what is and isn’t abusive or that I should simply be thankful for not having the shit beaten out of me isn’t appreciated.  But i do have to thank you because it really kinda snapped in place that my parents think the exact same thing.  As long as its not physical, they don’t consider anything they do to be wrong, so thank you for feeding into that mindset.

So I Have an idea!!!

i have decided that i wanted to start a sort of rescue center in sims and i was thinking well it would be cool if it was a sort of adoption agency for pets, my sim will be bringing in strays and breeding pets starting with dogs ad then slowly expanded i will be putting the pets up for download, i don’t know if it should be exclusive or multi-downloadable. tell me what you guys think :) also i might be doing a mixture of berry and vanilla pets i don’t know yet

anonymous asked:

I seem to be getting the same spirit every time I use my board. I used to be able to speak to different spirits but now I only receive a spirit that calls themselves Nick and only wants to say rude things about me every time myself and others play. What should I do?

You have a troll spirit. Tell Nick that he’s not allowed to contact you anymore, and that if he tries to talk to you then you’re just going to end the session. Be aware that he’ll probably try to give you a different name after that, just watch for his style of moving the planchette and speaking

anonymous asked:

Dont hurt her like I did. She deserves the world.

First off STOP, do me a favor, NO, do yourself and my girl a favor. PLEASE STOP HARASSING HER. I hate seeing her so mad and hurt, it hurts me to see her like that. She doesn’t need you two to remind her that she was betrayed and lied to. She is way better off without it all and you. The fact she even had to go through that, to be cheated on isn’t something anyone should ever go through! She deserves so much better. You’re right, you did fuck up, but no, you won’t be getting her back. The fact you even have the audacity to tell me “Don’t her her like I did” like wtf are you!? I wasn’t planning on it. You don’t deserve her, at some point maybe but you’ve lost it. So I’m going to give her what she deserves, I’ll do the best I can! This girl is wonderful, smart and the most genuine person I’ve ever met. Her beauty is her own. Her smile, laugh and voice are the most heartwarming things in this world. You let that go, you ripped that smile and laugh from her when you cheated. You hurt her, and wouldn’t let her heal, putting her through hell! When she did nothing but love you. You fucked that up by putting her through all of that. In a sense I want to thank you, you let her see that you aren’t the one for her. What you did isn’t something she wants or anyone would want to come back to. Why? Why would you that, huh? You chose this and now you’re going to pay for it. Now PLEASE, let ME love her. STOP talking to her, STOP talking to me. You fucked up, now this is what you need to do. MOVE THE FUCK ON. Goodbye.

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Bernardo: YOU WON’T BELIEVE THIS! The stupid ass teacher partener me up with Regina. She said it we would help each other out and improve our capacities

Bruno: I know you hate group projects but this could be good for you. Rena is a nice girl and I know you felt bad for being a jerk to her the other day.

Bernardo: I never said that..

Bruno: Come on.. I know you. Make an effort and you might actually enjoy someone else’s company

Bernardo: What should I do..

Bruno: Call her, tell her to come over