TW for fat shaming


Unless you’re someone who refuses to use social media, I’m sure you’re aware that plus-size model Tess Munster/Holliday has rocked people’s worlds by becoming the first model ‘of her size’ signed to an agency. Her size being: 5'5” and a size 22, which is a far cry from the industry’s standard of having traditionally hourglass-y figures that are a size 10. Plus models never wear above a 16/18, and are usually 5'8" or taller. Guys… Tess is super short and super fat and breaking all the motherfucking rules like the superhero she is.

But changing the status quo is anything but easy. If I ever want to mourn humanity, all I have to do is scroll through Tess’s Instagram comments. Kids, don’t try this at home. No really, just trust me on this and let me tell you what you’ll find so you don’t have to mourn humanity too. Its a rare practice for me nowadays, but when I DO take a second to remind myself that this work is important by looking through her account, I find hundreds upon hundreds (collectively, thousands… we might be up to a millions) of comments that either call her barnyard animal names, spout “facts” about how she’ll die early on because: science, or express their concern about the fact that she’s a negative role model for promoting obesity by loving herself… and these are the kind ones.

For years, this vitriol has left me puzzled and asking: WHY is this happening? WHY is loving yourself so controversial? WHY U SO MAD WORLD?

Well, I learned why and it’s because of a thing I like to call Body Currency.

In a killer interview with Yahoo! Health, Virgie Tovar recaps it ever so eloquently (as she often tends to do):

“Fat” is just the current catchall word for all the things that we as a culture are afraid of: women’s rights, people refusing to acquiesce to cultural pressures of conformity, fear of mortality. [People who hate fat people] see body love as a move toward people taking charge of their lives and choosing what they want to do, no matter what the culture says. This is really scary to a lot of people. 

The anger they express is actually toward themselves. A person who hates seeing a happy, liberated person wishes they had the strength to do that, but they are too entrenched or “bought in” to the way things are right now to see it as a beautiful thing. So they see it and they hate it. … People have invested a lot of time and a lot of resources into this game that says “thin wins.” So when people see exceptions to that rule, they feel personally invalidated, personally stolen from, personally affronted." 

It falls right in line with a conversation I had with friends where we discussed the difference between reactions that apologetic fatties vs. unapologetic fatties receive. Gabi Gregg of Gabifresh nailed it by saying:

"If there is a fat person on television trying super hard to lose weight, crying about how hard life is, and talking about how they eat to cope etc, then everyone is at home crying and cheering them on. Put that same person in a crop top while they smile, and the pitchforks come out.”

Preach, girl.“

Read the full piece here, including the author’s explanation of "Body Currency”

Tell me about something that makes your skin crawl, that makes you shiver and the hairs on the back of your neck stand up. Tell me about something that broke you, that completely changed who you are, that made your walls crumble down. Tell me what you did to fix your heart, to knit your bones back together, to heal your wounds and bruises. Tell me about your favourite colour, book, film, food, anything. Tell me about your last heartbreak, the last time you fell in love, the last time you felt like you couldn’t move on. Tell me something about loss, about grief, about the last time you cried so bad you could hardly breathe. Tell me. Just tell me. I’m all ears. I want you and I want all of you, the good times and the bad times and all the times inbetween.
—  What makes you who you are? I’m dying to know

If u want me to be real, I mostly did seven’s route just to get more info on these two lmao can u tell who’s my fav
They totally talked shit about him when they were together and you cant change my mind on this
I’m well aware i didnt draw his tattoo at the end but i drew it once and that was enough lol

Dialogue Prompts

1) “I want people to tremble when they see me.” “And I want some coffee sweetheart, and let me tell you, only one of these wishes is gonna be coming true.”

2) “I’m not as damaged as I seem, I swear.”

3) “I will move sea and sky to ensure their safety.”

4) “This isn’t me, I’m not this person.”

5) “I’m so sorry.” “Don’t you dare say that word like it changes anything you’ve done.”

6) “Hey, hey, calm down, they can’t hurt you anymore.”

7) “Stop treating me like a little kid!” “You are a little kid.” 

8) “If you keep screwing around like this you’re going to get yourself killed.” “I hope so.” “You shouldn’t joke about things like that.” “Who said I was joking?”

9) “I have no words left for you, I won’t waste my time here.”

10) “Darling don’t try that, you know it’ll never work.”

11) “You make me sick to my stomach, in all honesty, I’d be fine never seeing you again.”

12) “So from the bottom, of my cold, dead heart, screw you.”

13) “Don’t waste your time on me love, I’m a lost cause.”

14) “The skies are crying for you darling, some call it rain.”

15) “You’re wrong.” “I’m always wrong.”

16) “Please don’t do this, you’re only going to hurt the people you love.” “Who said I ever loved them?”

17) “I know this isn’t a smart decision-” “Then I would recommend not doing it.”

18) “I hope you know how much I-” “Awww, love me?” “No, hate you.”

19) “I trust you.”

20) “Well this has gone horribly wrong.”


Lexa has NEVER once forced Clarke to do anything. In the entirety of season 2, Lexa never forced Clarke to not tell the people of TonDC about the missile, forced her to kill Finn, forced her to not save Abby, etc. There was not one instant that Lexa FORCED Clarke to do anything…and here she is…forcing Clarke to come to Polis against her will. Lexa doesn’t want this

“Well what do you want?” Lexa asked Clarke, “Nothing. My people back. I can’t think past today.”  What was Lexa’s want?   “You should come with me to the Capitol.  Polis will change the way you think about us.” Lexa wanted Clarke to decide to come with her to the Capitol; to be by her side has they made their way to the Capitol. Lexa probably wanted to see the wonder on Clarke’s face as she saw the Polis Tower come into view, her blue eyes taking in the wonders around her.  Lexa wanted Clarke to see that they aren’t savages.What was Clarke’s response?  “You already have.” Lexa changed the way she thought about the grounders. Clarke saw the caring person that has so much love to give but has grown up in a harsh world that makes her hide it. She hides it to protect herself and the ones she loves. Clarke trusted Lexa not only with the lives of her friends, but also with her heart.  A trust that was betrayed; a heart plunged into darkness as Lexa plunged a metaphorical knife into Clarke’s heart as she left her. 

Lexa chose to leave Clarke and now Lexa is forcing Clarke to come to Polis; a journey that she wanted Clarke to choose to go on, with her. But here Clarke is, on her knees, her face marred, her hair disheveled, a gag in her mouth, a bag over her head, treated like an animal.  Lexa didn’t want this. But, it needed to be. Clarke’s legend grew and grew and was threatening both Lexa and Clarke. Clarke was being hunted and Lexa’s control over her Coalition was weakened due to the Legend of Wanheda; Lexa’s loss of power meant that she couldn’t protect Clarke from the hands of the Ice Nation. This same clan that captured and killed Costia to destroy Lexa, is now doing the same thing with Clarke –another woman she loves being used against her to destroy her. The Ice Nation doesn’t know the personal attachment Lexa has with Clarke, but the fact remains that if Clarke is killed by Nia that would destroy both Lexa. It would destroy her heart and her reign.  I need you is a plea for Clarke to help her create peace and a plea for Clarke to live. 

Sending Roan after Clarke was a decision she made with her head. Lexa doesn’t want to force the woman she loves to see her against her will, but the Commander needs Wanheda to not fall into the hands of the Ice Nation. 

It was Lexa that asked Clarke to come to the capitol with her, it was the Commander that forced Clarke to come to Polis. (via @hedaswarrior)

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         Crystal clinging to her clothes and her hair, it’s her eyes that open first and the feeling kicking in the next moment. It’s the first time she’s aware of a soreness of her entire body, the aching of her bones and limbs at the front of her mind and her throat hoarse and dry as she looks around. Her sight is blurred, the room darker than she would have liked. She disliked how closed in the area seemed to be, and it takes a lot of effort out of her body to push herself up. 

It’s only then that she realises that she’s in the middle of broken crystal, and ropes that appeared to have been tied though had evidently fallen undone, and she looks at them for a moment, the urgency and hope for escape sinking in within her already. It’d be impossible without keys, however, the bars giving her enough of a hint that her escape was farfetched. Her gaze falls to her hands after her thumb is unable to find the ring that was usually on her finger, though only her sight confirms that it has long since been removed.

Breath catching in her throat, Annie looks to the bars in front of her, and she squints her eyes as she searches for someone, desperate to try and see if anyone is outside. Her sight fails her, however, and everything is too blurred and she breathes in shakily, finding the whole situation of coming out of the crystal more stressful than she had first anticipated it upon deciding she would encase herself within it. Before she can help it, her mind tells her to call out and see if anyone was there.


Just a kind reminder

If you don’t like something that we have planned in a thread - tell me.

If you think an idea I’ve put forward in plotting needs changing or you don’t like it - tell me.

If we have a ship and you no longer enjoy it - tell me.

If there is anything on your mind that is hindering your enjoyment of our roleplaying - for the love of god tell me.

Communication is essential to roleplaying. Even if you’re worried about it hurting my feelings - and sure certain things may sting a little - please don’t be. I never want you, my partners, to feel upset or uncomfortable with what we are writing, since this is about both of us, & I would much rather you say something so we can figure out an alternative than you be stuck doing something you aren’t enjoying.

Tell people you love them. Tell people you love them even if they think you’re weird, even if you don’t think the feelings are mutual. Tell people you love them when they’re sad/happy/lost. Tell people you love them at 2am in the morning when your inhibitions have left you, and there isn’t anything stopping you from pouring your affection over their heart. Tell people you love them with sincerity. Tell them why you love them. Tell them you’ll love them even if they don’t love themselves.

You won’t always have the chance to do so. Moments pass you by, and so do relationships. Things change brutally, and quickly. Love is fluid. There are too many people in the world, living their lives without me, never knowing that I loved them and that, while it lasted, they were so so so dear to me. I don’t want to regret never sharing my love with other human beings. I don’t want to be an old woman and reflect and wonder, ‘did he ever know how precious he was to me?’

Just met a man named Sonny. 7 months sober and homeless yet he’s doing everything not to drink regardless of his living situation.. It made me sad to listen to him talk about people judging him for being homeless and it made me want to tell you guys.. Never judge others.. Especially homeless people. They could be suffering from a mental illness, running away because of the things they’ve experienced at home.. Really anything.. So next time you begin to judge someone at first glance.. Just remember, you have no idea what they are going through and a single smile can change someone’s future. Spread love not hate and #prayforsonny
—  Demi Lovato on Twitter (@ddlovato)
Me? I’m broken , heartbroken . Sad as fuck if I must . Depressed ? Of course, but you know what ? I’m strong , I’m smart and I know better than to sit here feeling horrible everyday . I miss you and all I want is you , but things changed . You changed and there’s nothing left for me to do . I’ve done enough . I have to be strong for myself and focus on other things that will distract me . School, friends, just anything that doesn’t involve you or another relationship . I need a distraction from this pain . I’m always gonna want you back , but till then ima focus on the most important . Me. And when you want me , when you finally realize that you want everything you were looking for, you’ll tell me . Till then , I’m on my own path .
—  Hyannis Diaz

hey everyone! I haven’t updated my faves page in a while plus I think some people changed their urls so it’s time haha

If chosen you will receive:

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rules (gross I know haha):

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higher chance of being chosen:

  • following me of course but like i said before if you aren’t following me I might still choose you
  • talk to me! just shoot me an ask and chat haha I’m really nice I promise
  • tag me in things so I can be more familiar with your url (#heydanni)
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well that’s pretty much it!! I’ll be choosing on November 15th so get reblogging!

*also if this doesn’t get like 100+ notes this totally didn’t happen hahaha*

I hope you all have a really great day c:

Erik looked at Christine, brows raised. “What is it, Christine?” he asked softly, placing his hands on her shoulders. “You know that you can tell me anything and everything… Why are you so hesitant to tell me what you want to?” he asked again, brushing her hair back, away from her face. “Whatever it is, it will never, ever change the way that I feel about you…”



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due to so many blog changes and etc i decided to do an updated faves page!


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