tell them why you are the best in the world

i truly don’t understand why jesy is most people’s least favorite member. her voice is so beautiful and unique and she can slay the lowest and highest notes, she’s an incredible dancer and her stage presence is out of this world, she is so sassy and funny and most of the best moments in interviews are because of her (aka she saying things she shouldn’t and the girls freaking out), she’s so sweet to fans and she’s always telling them they’re beautiful and gorgeous the way they are and she’s SO damn inspiring like if you look at her now and you know all the things she’s been through (and still goes through) it’s impossible not to feel an overwhelming feeling of pride and love towards her precious self because she’s so strong and amazing and stunning!!!!! jesy nelson deserves so much more appreciation and i will protect and love her at all costs.

I’ve seen them come and go.
I’ve seen them make her feel on top of the world and then they pull the rug up from under her feet.
I hope you’re different. I hope you’re stronger. I hope you understand her and don’t turn another way at the first, ‘Road Work Ahead’ sign you see.
She’s complex and very hesitant, if you stay you’ll understand why.
She deserves the best.
Seeing her broken down by so many people just looking for a challenge has made me despise the human race.
Be better than her past.
Tell her she looks like a goddess in her yellow dress.
Prove to her not everyone is a coward.
Show her what it’s like to be with someone genuine.
Take her to see puppies and take a million pictures of her playing with them, even when she tears herself down with lies saying she looks like garbage.
And god dammit, remind her that another persons arms aren’t a jail cell.
—  a PSA from a very apprehensive best friend.

Teeny tiny bopper Stiles who announces to his mom and dad and all the Hales he’s going to marry Derek.

Teen!Derek who sits there, mortified, because Stiles is six and he’s cool, he just got accepted to the basket ball team at school. He can’t be making engagement plans right now. Especially not with Stiles, who still has trouble eating ice cream without getting himself covered in it from head to toe.

Claudia smiling and asking Stiles how he knows he want to marry Derek and Stiles telling her he asked his teacher today why people get married and she said people get married because they think the person they are marrying is the best person in the whole wide world and Stiles thinks Derek is better than the best person in the whole wide world - the best person in the whole wide world constantly changing between his momma and papa because they are both the best and he loves them very very much and you cant ask him to choose.

Derek trying and failing not to find the whole thing adorable - “shut up, Laura, don’t encourage him” - and finally, making a show of rolling his eyes - because you know, street cred -  going upstairs and bringing Stiles back his wolf plushie, the one Stiles always goes to get when he’s staying with the Hale’s when he’s sleepy, and tells Stiles it’s an engagement present because Stiles looked like he was about to cry when Derek tried to explain he couldn’t marry him because he was too little and Derek can’t bear it when Stiles cries.

Stiles beaming an holding the plushie close, going around everyone and telling them Derek agreed to marry him and he’s the luckiest person ever and when he grows up he’s going to take care of Derek really good and buy him the moon

Stiles proposes by buying a collar for the wolf plushie fifteen years later, looping it through a ring and holding it out to Derek as he gets down on one knee in front of the whole family at the annual Hale 4th of July barbecue, trying to keep his nerves in check as he says, “You’re my favourite person in the whole world, Derek Hale”. Trying not to cry when Derek says back, “You’re mine too, you loser” and tackling Stiles to the ground because he is so fucking happy and giving Stiles that plushie was the best decision he ever made

“What’s the most interesting part about being a gym leader?”

“That’s easy, lad—all the trainers I get to help! It’s amazing how a Dynamo Badge can affect people—who knew I could make trainers cry with this small trinket? Wahahaha!

“But in all seriousness, seeing trainers work their hardest to defeat me is the best feeling in the world. Why, I could go on for days telling you about all these trainers who’ve had to go through a lot to beat me. That’ll fill up your lil’ project for sure!”

“That’s awesome! Can you tell me more about one of them?”

“Well, a short while ago I had a former student of mine finally win against me after six tries. I was used to challengers trying two or three times before they earn their Dynamo Badges, but this lad, well, he needed to learn a whole lot more before beating me.

“But that made his win all the more meaningful for both of us. The day before he beat me, he lost against one of my other former students in a really close battle, but I think that gave him a huge confidence boost since that classmate of his was the star of his class. Even if he lost, he put in so much heart in the battle that he made his opponent earn her win. Right then and there I knew that he was more than ready to get his Dynamo Badge.

“So in our last gym battle, I raised the stakes by making it a one-on-one battle, my Manectric against his Aron, just like that battle between him and his classmate. I wanted to bring out that fire in him that was missing in all his previous battles, and you know what happened? I gave him what was probably the most well-earned Dynamo Badge I’ve ever given in years.

“Those kinds of battles are what I live for, and they’re the reason why I have the best job in the world. I get to battle all these hotshots for a living, and that sure keeps me young at heart! Wahahaha!”

Everybody preaches you should try to always better yourself, but nobody tells you how exhausting this can get. How tiring it is to be the better person, to do the right thing. To take everything and everyone into account. How it often feels worthless, a senseless effort. A waste of time and energy.

One day you discover yourself not caring. Why would you give everything your best, you think, if no one will value the effort, and it won’t make a change? Something, a small voice inside you, will tell you this is not the path. Not for you. You don’t listen. You convince yourself every process has some pauses, some going back to what it was before.

One day, a different day, you fall back in love with the world.

It might be a sunny day, where you feel the warmth on your face, and offer the person who asked for directions to take them there, because you have the time and feel it’s easier than to just point it. The warm feeling of having helped someone that extra bit lasts in you long after the sun has gone down.

Or it could be a rainy day, cold and pouring buckets. You get soaked to your bones, and find yourself in the receiving end of a paid forward coffee. You pay one for the next person, because it is Monday and it is a really nice pick-me-up considering the weather. You try to commit this to memory rather than posting a picture of it, for those days when you are feeling unlucky.

You make a mental note to try to be nicer, no matter what. Because there is enough people who think the world is a crappy place, and act and treat others accordingly. Deep down, you feel that is the way you change the world, one small action at a time.

—  and if you get someone to feel a bit better about the world they live in, know you are already making a change

I think that as teenagers we tend to forget that love is just as much a choice as it is a feeling. We’re so eager to find “the one” that we forget not every soulmate is a given. To make the conscientious choice to fight instead of flee is incredibly unique especially when everyone else is “casually dating”.

Yes we’re young and forgetful and have many mistakes waiting to be made, but that doesn’t mean we can’t mend and grow together with every one. All I’ve learned is that to love and to choose to love create two invariably different circumstances regardless of age.

So why hold back because others think you won’t make it? Prove everyone wrong. Tell them you love them. Show them through actions. Make them feel like they’re the only one in the world.

Ultimately, to love or not to love that is the choice. So choose wisely because times slipping.

—  you’re the best choice I’ve ever made.

anonymous asked:

Im so fucked, my bestfriend who i lowkey highkey in love with is currently on a date with another friend of mine and is goibg to prom with yet another friend of mine And im just standing lonely at the side. Everything hurts. why do I have so many gay friends... any advice?

Sorry I’m just seeing this right now, and I’m really, really sorry you are having to deal with this 💕 being in love with your best friend is one of the worst feelings in the world. My advice is to tell your friend how you feel about them. In my experience it is best to be honest about your feelings so you don’t have the burden of keeping this secret anymore. Besides if they know, even if they don’t reciprocate your feelings, they still know not to make their relationship with your other friend so obvious since they would know that it would hurt you. I’m sorry if this wasn’t really any help, but feel free to message me if you have any specific questions. I just recently went through a similar issue, so I could probably help some. 💖

The Last Avenger: a Chris Evans x Reader (1/2)

Based on: That interview where Chris said that the other Avengers had families to go home to. Turns out that Chris wasn’t exactly telling the truth. Actually, he wasn’t telling the truth at all.

“Why didn’t you just tell them the truth that time, Chris?” Mark asks after they’ve left their final interview. “You were really close that time.”

Chris shrugs, smiling a bit as he slips wedding ring back into place. “The wife and I didn’t talk about how we’d announce it yet. I don’t want to tell the world without her knowing.”

Mark nods his approval, “That’s probably the best way to do it. Are you going to talk to (Y/N) about it tonight?”

“I think so.” He rolls the ring around his finger, stopping short of entering the car.

“It’d be a nice time to do it. Everybody keeps wanting to see her; you should bring her out tonight.” Mark suggests, a slight smile on his face. “That’d be a nice way to announce it to the world.”

Chris chuckles, climbing into the car. “Yeah, go from being one of Hollywood’s most avaliable bachelor’s by day, to being a happily married man by night. The world would love that.”

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Cute Things The Sings Would DEFINITELY Do:
  • Aries: Tells you all of their secrets in a burst of sadness/anger, but never regrets it because they actually trust you
  • Taurus: Cleans their house, cooks an incredible meal, and plans an extravagant night at their house for you; then asks if you just want to eat ice-cream and watch Netflix on their couch instead
  • Gemini: Analyzes you for weeks on end and then tells you every detail about you that makes them relentlessly happy in a long letter that will make you cry
  • Cancer: Yells at someone who definitely deserves it and then grins because that's the first time they've told someone off like that
  • Leo: After months of acting perfect and flawless, laments to you about something of theirs that makes them self-conscious while everyone else is distracted
  • Virgo: Tells you why you are the best person they have ever met and why you deserve everything in the world after you ever get into even the smallest of fights with them
  • Libra: Uses all their money to buy an expensive engagement ring for themselves after a hard breakup, hiding it from everyone but smiling at it from under their sleeve whenever they feel sad.
  • Scorpio: Buys you a really expensive, thought-out gift with money they do not have and then write it off as nothing.
  • Sagittarius: Invites you to spend hours doing something they really love that turns out to be incredibly fun.
  • Capricorn: Explains why you're going to go far in life for thirty minutes straight, they might be tipsy.
  • Aquarius: Tells you that you're pretty cool, and that they can actually stand you while using the words "aesthetic," "agony," and, "like" a lot
  • Pisces: Somehow compliments you on every single thing that you were self-conscious about before, no matter how small or insignificant.
40 fun icebreakers

1. What was the best job you’ve ever had? And the worst?

2. What’s the best vacation you’ve EVER taken?

3. What’s the most recent movie/book that you’ve seen/read?

4. Tell us about your first kiss.

5. What’s your favorite town/city in the world? Why?

6. Share with us a fun experience you’ve had recently.

7. Sing a few lines of a song you love. (Don’t tell them the name; let them guess)

8. Tell us your earliest childhood memory.

9. What’s your favorite sport or physical activity?

10. What’s your favorite dish to cook for friends? For just you?

11. Describe the best museum/gig/play/game you’ve ever been to.

12. What’s the worst haircut you’ve ever had?

13. What’s your morning ritual like?

14. How do you like to spend a rainy day?

15. Describe your own outlook on life in six words.

16. Can you share one quote or saying you love, that keeps you going in life?

17. If you could invite four famous people to dinner, who would you choose and why?

18. If you could replay a fun (or deep or big) moment in your life, what would you choose?

19. What would be a perfect afternoon for you?

20. Describe one past action (big or small) you took to improve the quality of your life.

21. Which person in your life do you most admire? Why?

22. If you were mayor for the day, what three things would you change about your city?

23. Describe the most terrifying situation you’ve ever been in.

24. If you could go back in time and change history, what would you change? Why?

25. What’s the most anti-establishment thing you’ve ever done?

26. What would you do in life if you knew you couldn’t fail?

27. If you saw someone getting mugged in the street, what would you do?

28. Describe one experience you’ve had where you took a huge leap of faith.

29. What was one new experience you tried that, at the time, was completely unknown or uncomfortable to you?

30. Describe a real-life situation where you stood up for someone/something.

31. Who were two role models you looked up to as a kid?

32. The last outlandish/wild thing you did – tell us about it.

33. What’s the naughtiest present you’ve ever received?

34. What three things do you love about your friends? And three you could do without?

35. What is your favorite smell? What memory does it remind you of?

36. What’s one favorite thing you do by yourself?

37. Share one bizarre encounter you’ve had in life (could be at work, personal, from travel, with friends).

38. Share one thing you didn’t understand about the world when you were a kid.

39. Describe an embarrassing moment you’ve had.

40. Share a personal fact no one would ever guess about you.


Lucas befriending a new girl in high school and Maya getting really jealous

Maya decides to tell her to back off (because Lucaya is an unofficial thing by then)

As Maya walks up to the girl, the girl says, “Maya! I wanted to talk to you.”

“Same here.”

“I’m kind of crushing on someone you’re close to.”

“I’m very aware.”

“Oh, then you’ll help me ask them out?”

“Why in the world would I do that?”

“…Because Riley’s your best friend?”

Then the girl and Riley date (#BisexualRileyMatthews2k16) and Maya gets even more jealous so…


Real *Liam Dunbar

Originally posted by liveformyaddictions

You and Liam were best friends, you, him and Mason were like the three Musketeers. Only they were not apart of the supernatural world. But that didn’t separate you three. 

 Now Liam was attractive. It was a known fact. You understood why girls almost always asked him out. But he would always tell politely tell them no, that I don’t have time for a relationship right now. So it shocked you when he showed up at your locker, blurting out “Will yo be my girlfriend?”

You cocked an eyebrow up at him. “What?”

“You see (Bitch’s name),” He asked, nodding is head in the cheerleaders direction, “She won’t stop bugging me about being in a relationship and I need you to help me get her off my back.”

“So you want me to be your fake girlfriend just so you don’t have to be bothered about being single?” You asked, he just nodded. 

“So are you in?” 

For the first week, being Liam Dunbar’s fake girlfriend was easy. Hand holding, winking at each other, casually kissing one another when (Bitch’s name) was near just so she knew that Liam Dunbar had a girlfriend. 

Then it got complicated.

Because when you start to have feelings for the person your FAKE dating, you have to keep in mind that you are not really dating. 

Liam couldn’t ignore the fact that he liked you. Like liked you. He found it cute when you blushed because he commented on how pretty you looked, he was in love with the way you kept your head up high an tried to be happy in the worst moments.

And you couldn’t ignore the fact that Liam Dunbar was the man you fell for. You loved the way he made you feel protected and safe.  You found it cute how his face lit up when he was excited. 

“What if we weren’t fake dating?” Liam asked you, holding your tired body close to his as you cuddled on his bed. 

“What do you mean?”

“What if we were really dating. Like we were really boyfriend and girlfriend.”

You could feel your heart began to race. “I would like that.” You smiled, placing a small kiss on the corner of his lips. “I would like that a lot.” 

Dear parents of non cisgender children

Dear parents of non cisgender children,

If you have a child who is questioning their gender or is choosing to identify as something other than their gender assigned at birth, just remember that when they were in the womb and you were ready to welcome a little boy or girl into the world, you were willing to give it your life despite what it came out as, as a parent you were ready to give that child the best life you could have and make them as happy and comfortable as possible, don’t let that slip away by folding to society telling you that being trans of any variation is not okay, if your child chooses to identify as something else, remember that if their gender didn’t matter then, why would it matter now? Love your children, support your children, do your best to respect their decisions, put effort into supporting them, show them that they don’t have to suffer by themselves because they are most likely struggling so much more than you think and letting them know that they can be themselves around their family might save their life. Just be a parent to your child, not to your son or your daughter, to your CHILD.


Can I ask why we’re all roasting Riley and Farkle?

Like they think they’re doing what’s best for their friends.

Lucaya shippers without Riley telling Lucas about Maya’s feelings they wouldn’t be in a relationship.

And Farkle telling them about Riley may lead to an end in the love triangle,

Isn’t that what we all want?


demi lovato ‘confident’ → sentence starters


“I’m the boss right now.”
“You better come to play.”
“I used to hold my freak back.”
“You say I’m complicated.”
“You had me underrated.”
“Whats wrong with being confident?”
“I’m dangerous.”


“Tell me what you want.”
“I’m a little curious.”
“I can keep a secret too.”
“Got my mind on your body.”
“Don’t tell your mother.”
“Take me down.”
“I just wanna have some fun with you.”


“No more watching the world from my doorstep.”
“I’ll just keep changing.”
“I’m not in the same place that I was.”
“I’m hearing them all say I’ll go back to my old ways.”
“The best part about it is I’m the only who can do somethin’ about it.”
“I’m not afraid to fall.”
“I’m not afraid anymore.”


“Reasons why you ran don’t make you a good man.”
“You can act cold on a dime.”
“I’d do anything for you.”
“I get nothing at all.”
“Why did we turn a good time to a dark one?”
“I gave you a chance.”
“The better man never called.”


“Maybe if I don’t cry I won’t feel anymore.”
“God knows I’ve tried to feel happy for you.”
“Give me the truth.”
“If happy is her, I’m happy for you.”
“Now she’s your shade of gold.”
“I wish I could mean this.”
“Here’s my goodbye.”
“I’m happy for you.”


“Can we love until there’s nothing left?”
“A love so deep, there’s nothing like it.”
“Scars go deep.”
“Cross my heart that I’ll die for you.”
“You’re my kingdom come.”
“Sit me on your throne.”
“You and I found love in a broken place.”


“You said that you’d never hurt me.”
“You never stuck to me.”
“I’ll only die fighting.”
“I know just what you’ve done.”
“Save those words for one on one.”
“You should know that I won’t back down.”
“You made shit personal.”
“Fuck my bad habits.”


“We were going way too fast.”
“We could set the world ablaze.”
“Baby you’re all I need.”
“I can feel your heat.”
“This love is so completely crazy.”
“You can take me there.”
“You can burn this city with me.”


“Your light is inside of me.”
“You’re in my veins.”
“Our love is gonna conquer it all.”
“I am safe.”
“My love will be your armor tonight.”
“We stand together facing a war.”


“Save me.”
“Don’t try and change me.”
“I won’t try and change you.”
“Here’s my life for better or worse.”
“I can’t promise that it’s gonna be fine.”
“I’ll try to give you everything you deserve.”
“I’ll never hurt you.”
“I’ll do what I have to.”


“I’m gonna say thank you even if I still hurt.”
“I wanna mean those words.”
“You started this whole war in me.”
“You did your best, or did you?”
“Sometimes I think I hate you.”
“I know you were a troubled man.”
“I guess that made me who I am.”


“Knock them all out.”
“We’re causing a frenzy.”
“We live for now.”
“We don’t need the light cause we’re stars tonight.”
“We’re the only ones who can fight the sun.”
“But we ain’t thirsty.”
“Working all week has me all crazy.”


“You walked out the door.”
“No pill or drink could get me off the floor.”
“Nothing seemed to ease the pain.”
“I forgive but can’t forget your mistakes.”
“This is for the times you broke my heart.”
“You’re way too late.”
“How could you think I’m so stupid?”
“I’ve got a new man/woman.”
“He’s/She’s ten times the man/woman you could ever be.”
“You missed your chance to be with a star.”

In Front of This Sign - Brooklyn Bridge Park

Brooklyn, NY 11201

Sometimes the best cries are wherever we are, we just have to look around!!!!!!! For example, this tiny sign is a GREAT opportunity for a small to medium cry (big cry- you’re pushing it - but hey you’re the boss of you!!!!).  if anyone dares to ask you why you’re crying (they won’t, we live in NYC!!!!!!!!), tell them you’re just sad for all the dogs who will never get to see this view.  They will at the least stay very far away from you and let you enjoy your cry!!! What a delight!!!!! Be sure to keep your eyes open and full of tears - this city is full of small crying justifications like this all over the place!!!!!!!! It really is the best city in the world!!! Happy tears!!!!!!!

terezacrazygirl  asked:

Can i have a gif exo reaction of lay being my big brother and finding out that someone from the rest of the boys have a crush on me

Xiumin: Trust your hyung, I`ll make the best boyfriend for your sibling out of them all

Luhan: Please, stop crying. I`ll be nice to your sibling

Kris: [Awkward to face Lay] How am I supposed to tell him?

Suho: Listen, Yixing… don`t you think I`m a great choice for you sister?

Baekhyun: Well shit… Shall I tell him?

Kyungsoo: Out of all people in the world, why are you his sibling?

Lay: Do I have a sibling?

Chen: Gotta be nicer and sweeter to him from now on. Who knows, maybe one day we`ll be a family

Chanyeol: [clings on to Lay day and night] You know I love you, right?

Kai: Did you just mention Y/N being Lay`s sibling?..

Tao: He will ask me not to even walk near her/him if he finds out…

Sehun: This hyung should be honored I have a crush on his relative

- Vivian

(As always, gifs aren`t mine. Credits to gif owners)