tell me again how they're just friends

anonymous asked:

To your 'biphobia isn't a thing' response: there are people who believe that bisexuality doesn't exist, that they're just greedy, slutty pieces of shit. If that's not biphobia I don't know what is, but there is an example for you. And some of said people support/are gay/lesbian [people]. Tell me again that biphobia doesn't exist?

How is biphobia not a thing though? In high school my best friend at the time literally told me she’d be fine if I say either gay or straight, but liking both genders is wrong and disgusting.

These are two different anons but I’m answering both of you in the same ask. I won’t be taking any more questions on this topic unless they are redirected to @lesbian-ed-discourse.

Tell me one single law that is against bisexual people specifically. Tell me one slur used for bisexual people specifically. I doubt you can come up with any. All the laws and all the prejudice against bisexual people comes from their same sex-attraction.

“Slut” is a slur used for women specifically, not for bisexual people or even homosexual people. Therefore, prejudice expressed by using that word is just misogyny. I doubt male bisexual people get that word thrown in their faces even close to as often as female bisexual people. I would guess that male bisexuals mostly get homophobic slurs thrown at them.

Just because there are a few people who cannot understand the fact that some people like both dick and pussy, it doesn’t make that discrimination systemic., i.e. there’s no systems in place that discriminate against bisexual people specifically. The laws that discriminate bisexual people on the basis of their sexual orientation, homosexual people suffer from too and even more so since they will never be able to happily have the advantage of dating someone of the other sex.

Additionally, just because a few individuals are “against” bisexuality, it doesn’t make it into systemic oppression. Like I mentioned, there are no systems in place that discriminate and oppress bisexuals on the basis of bisexuality. Bisexual people have the same rights as homosexual people when it comes to same sex partnership (i.e. in some parts of the world none at all, and in others almost equal to other sex-relationships), except that bisexual people also have their other sex-attraction being the norm of society.

/ Mod W

25 sentence starters
  • "I was wondering if after all these years you'd like to meet."
  • "They say that time's supposed to heal ya, but I ain't done much healing."
  • "I'm in California dreaming about who we used to be."
  • "I've forgotten how it felt before the world fell at our feet."
  • "There's such a difference between us."
  • "I must have called a thousand times to tell you I'm sorry for everything that I've done."
  • "When I call you never seem to be home."
  • "At least I can say that I've tried to tell you I'm sorry for breaking your heart."
  • "It don't matter, it clearly doesn't tear you apart anymore."
  • "It's so typical of me to talk about myself, I'm sorry."
  • "I hope that you're well."
  • "Did you ever make it out of that town where nothing ever happened?"
  • "It's no secret that the both of us are running out of time."
  • "This was all you, none of it me."
  • "Send my love to your new lover."
  • "Treat her better."
  • "We've gotta let go of all of our ghosts."
  • "We both know we ain't kids no more."
  • "I'm giving you up."
  • "I've forgiven it all."
  • "I want every single piece of you."
  • "I want to teach you things you never knew, baby."
  • "I love the way your body moves."
  • "No one has me like you do, baby."
  • "Be delicate with my ego."
  • "Everybody loves the things you do."
  • "Everybody here is watching you."
  • "You're like a dream come true."
  • "If by chance you're here alone, can I have a moment before I go?"
  • "My God, this reminds me of when we were young."
  • "Let me photograph you in this light in case it is the last time."
  • "It was just like a movie."
  • "It was just like a song."
  • "Nobody told me that you'd be here."
  • "You still look like a movie."
  • "It's hard to admit that everything just takes me back to when you were there."
  • "A part of me keeps holding on, just in case it hasn't gone."
  • "I guess I still care... do you still care?"
  • "I remember all of the things that I thought I wanted to be."
  • "Every story has it's scars."
  • "No river is too wide or too deep for me to swim to you."
  • "If you're not the one for me, why do I hate the idea of being free?"
  • "If I'm not the one for you, you've gotta stop holding me the way you do."
  • "If I'm not the one for you, why have we been through what we have been through?"
  • "I want you to be my keeper, but not if you are so reckless."
  • "If you're gonna let me down, let me down gently."
  • "Don't pretend that you don't want me."
  • "What are you waiting for?"
  • "It ain't no life to live like you're on the run."
  • "Have I ever asked for much?"
  • "The only thing that I want is your love."
  • "Everybody tells me it's 'bout time that I moved on."
  • "I need to learn to lighten up and learn how to be young."
  • "My heart is a valley, it's so shallow."
  • "I'm scared to death if I let you in that you'll see I'm just a fake."
  • "Sometimes I feel lonely in the arms of your touch, but I know that's just me 'cause nothing ever is enough."
  • "I stain every heart that I use to heal the pain."
  • "I should probably tell you now before it's way too late, that I never meant to hurt you or lie straight to your face."
  • "Consider this my apology."
  • "Take your eyes off of me so I can leave, I'm far too ashamed to do it with you watching me."
  • "This is never ending, we have been here before."
  • "I can't stay this time cause I don't love you anymore."
  • "Don't come any closer."
  • "Don't try to change my mind."
  • "I'm being cruel to be kind."
  • "It feels like we're oceans apart."
  • "Maybe we're already defeated."
  • "You have given me something that I can't live without."
  • "I don't want to carry on like everything is fine."
  • "Please don't fall apart, I can't face your breaking heart."
  • "I'm trying to be brave."
  • "Stop asking me to stay."
  • "Everything changed me."
  • "I don't regret a thing."
  • "I want to live and not just survive."
  • "I don't think you can save me."
  • "I only wanted to have fun."
  • "Deep down I must have always known that this would be inevitable."
  • "I know I'm not the only one who regrets the things they've done."
  • "Sometimes I just feel it's only me who can't stand the reflection that they see."
  • "They can't look me in the eye, it's like they're scared of me."
  • "Sometimes I just feel it's only me who never became who they thought they'd be."
  • "That was a million years ago."
  • "Why don't we just play pretend, like we're not scared of what is coming next."
  • "If this is my last night with you, hold me like I'm more than just a friend."
  • "It matters how this ends, 'cause what if I never love again?"
  • "No one knows me like you do."
  • "Since you're the only one that matters, tell me who do I run to?"
  • "Let this be the way we remember us."
  • "I don't wanna be cruel or vicious, and I ain't asking for forgiveness."
  • "I find it funny that you're the only one I never looked for."
  • "I wasn't ready then, I'm ready now."
  • "You will only be eternally the one that I belong to."
  • "I've been looking for you, baby, in every face that I've ever known."
  • "There is something about the way you love me that finally feels like home."
  • "I have loved you all my life."
  • "I gave you everything you never gave me."
  • "There's too much that I haven't said."
  • "Did you find the note that I wrote?"
  • "Do you even know that I can't let go?"
  • "Why were you so cold? Let the truth be told."
  • "Tell me, was it all for the thrill?"
  • "The words don't come out right when you're right in front of me."
  • "Why do you love me?"
  • "I'm in deeper than I knew."
  • "How do you keep me coming back for more after all we've been through?"
  • "I can't decide if I should run and hide."
  • "I want you to love me."
  • "Where does the time go?"
  • "I spend every single moment daydreaming of you."
  • "I can't describe how I feel, it feels right."
  • "You have a place in my heart that will always be yours."

anonymous asked:

Imagine Steve coming out as bisexual to Bucky and being really nervous afterward (because of how common prejudice was in their time) until Bucky just pats him on the shoulder and tells him it's fine and that it doesn't matter because they're still friends no matter what

“Can’t say I blame you, anyway,” Bucky adds, with an easy shrug. “Guys are hot.”

“Wait.” Steve’s stomach is still lurching with the aftershocks of his nerve-wracking confession, and his mind is working overtime to keep up. “You mean you…so, you’re…”

“Come on, Steve.” Bucky holds his gaze steadily, eyes twinkling with amusement. “You really gotta ask me that?” He shrugs again, and casts Steve a mischievous grin. “I mean, I’ve seen Wilson. There’s only so much a guy can do.”

It is, Steve’s forced to admit, a very fair call.

Spot the Difference #843
  • Rilucas: *kisses*
  • Rilucas: *they don't speak for months afterward, have to be physically forced to go on a date they don't enjoy (during which Lucas moons over Maya), both are reluctant to hold hands and walk home, they break up instantly and have an absolutely adorable just-friends hang afterward*
  • Lucaya: *almost kisses*
  • Lucaya: *they go on two dates (in one day) four days later, Lucas is still trying to get Maya alone/semi-alone by New Year, and when they're finally semi-alone again on the roof, she pretty much tells him how she feels and then he's so happy he instantly forgives over a year of teasing while grinning like an idiot*
  • Me: But, I mean...OBVIOUSLY the writers are setting up romantic Rilucas 4-eva. Okay. 😂