tbh i need to be more careful with her.

Sorry, but at this point I don’t want Noora to be the person Sana opens up to. I love Noora so much and I’m proud of her for dropping the bus to show Sana she’s on her side, she’s with her no matter what. But we have so many possibilities now that can make Sana’s storyline better: Chris, Elias, her mom, Jamilla, Yousef, Isak and Even.

I believe opening up to her mom or Jamilla could add so much representation, because even if they aren’t exactly like Sana it would be amazing to see strong female muslim characters on screen together.

Elias is also a very good option, I think. We’ve seen how supportive he always is and how he tries to protect her and make her feel good (“if you’re sad, I’m sad”). Also, the conversation they had in the swings left me with so many feelings, and I want them back like that.

The amazing Chris. She’s the one who introduced everybody to Sana, and it would be so interesting to see her softest and caring side, since we don’t know much about her. She’d be an amazing listener to her, I know that. (I’d take Eva too, tbh).

Yousef. Yeah, this is probably my romantic side trying to sabotage me. But he’s such a good guy, and we already know how much he cares (about Sana and in general). He pays attention, he listens, and that’s exactly what Sana needs right now.

I’d take Isak and Even, too. I know there’s been drama about the fandom caring more about Evak than about Sana, but putting that away they are friends and they care, so I’d be so happy too.

anonymous asked:

WHo do you think says I love you first kaz or inej

ooohhhh omg tbh i have a feeling that it might be kaz who says it first. Because although inej is the more emotional of the two, she keeps her heart well guarded. I get the feeling that her deepest emotions are almost private.
Besides, i think that she is very careful of not imposing on people or making them feel like they are forced to say or do anything. Her past experiences have taught her to value her own agency and so she respects the need for that in others.
As far as the situation goes, i think it is probably in a moment of vulnerability. Kaz is maybe half-asleep or has just had to stomach misfortune in his business ventures, etc. and he sees inej leave. He’s seen it often enough and understood it, too, but just then it was too much. He needed her there with him and so he would quietly say something along the lines of “i need you to stay with me. please. i love you.” And inej would freeze, but she’d be glad he’d said it. I feel like that would be a turning point in their relationship.
Inej wouldn’t say it back right away, i think. She would wait for a time when it feels right for her.

anonymous asked:

How about Zelda? Or any girl from the series.

Time for a speed round! Every Zelda from the series

The Legend of Zelda

Simple design, nice poofy hair, cute but not very memorable. Prototype design at best. Next to no character. 6/10

A Link to the Past

Much more thought out design, more iconic. Nice use of hair to frame face, simple yet consistent color pallet, the pink is a little garish. Not much screen time. 6.5/10

Ocarina of Time

Nice young maiden, good design, sad we don’t see much of her hair, but the do-rag is neat. The choice of pinkish-purpleish here is a little garish still. No tomboy show on screen 5.5/10

Grown fair princess captured well here. The pink from her younger self fits better with a deeper purple to contrast. Has a very royal air to her. Representin’ Hyrule for sure. Sheik is also pretty darn cool. No wonder she became the template for future designs! 7/10

Oracle Saga

Litttle cutey patootie. Simplified design from OoT, but still pleasing. Soft pastel color pallet gives a very warm, kind feel. Not much character tho. 6.5-soft 7/10

Four Swords

Apha-Wind Waker Zelda. Cute but didn’t make the cut. Further simplified design that’s still good. Unfortunately, there is a obvious ‘not-Zelda’ about her. It comes from the hair most, orange and tied back just wasn’t working for her. No real character. 6.5/10

Wind Waker

Tetra is best girl. Skin tone change is a bit disappointing, but I don’t dislike or anything, still a cute kid. Love the hair she has, blonde works much better than orange. The makeup is an interesting touch, guess to help her contrast with Tetra’s more tomboy personality. Wish we saw more with her. Nice color pallet. 8.5-9/10. Minish Cap gets the same score, happy to see her get more of a speaking role as the games progress since OoT.

Twilight Princess

Nice reimagining of her old outfit from OoT. Feels the most regal of them all. Really stands out at the brunette of the Zeldas. Total royal badass. 9/10

Spirit Tracks

Same as her grandmother, but with her own personality and attitude, very take charge. 8.5/10

Need I say anything? 10/10

Skyward Sword

Nice, cute, airheaded Zelda. Good friend, cutie-pie girlfriend. Comfirmed Canon Waifu. Good, simple design, not really a princess, so being regal doesn’t matter too much. Like her bang tape. 8/10 

Link Between Worlds

Nice, kind Zelda. Tries her best. Very caring, princess like. Somewhat regal, but mostly down to earth. Light, airy color pallet. 8/10

Goth Zelda. 10/10

Breath of the Wild

Without spoiling to much for myself, this Zelda needs a hug tbh. More of an advernturer than princess, which is A-ok! Her design fits her as a traveler with a regal background. Nice hair, like the thicker eyebrows on her. Speaking of thick

Mmm-mmm-mmhp. 10/10. Best Zelda. Yoga pants? Best Zelda. 10/10

Feel Free to request more anime/-ish girls, or even some that aren’t, for me to critique!

anonymous asked:

Hey I was just reminded of talalay's tweet and I know she might not know of a special or the writers' intentions but her words annoyed me... it makes me feel like they dislike us, but if she thinks so i don't understand some of her directing in tst (like sherlock being revealed in the chair and mary=thatcher smashed). How do you interpret this whole thing, if you don't mind me asking? P.s. I loved your the ring meta!

Hi!

Thanks so much for the compliment about my meta! <3 Glad you enjoyed it. 

I only just learned about Rachel Talalay’s comment. I’m guessing you’re referring to this

I would say it’s worth disregarding, as is anything any creator has to say about work they’ve released into the world. 

Before I explain further, I just want to say that this in no way reflects any feelings or thoughts I have about Talalay’s skill as a director. I’m rewatching tst right now, and I think it’s very beautiful in many ways, despite the reservations I have about its reality status / the script / that wife / how we’re supposed to understand the episode. There’s nothing, I think, in the way it’s directed that gets in the way of the story that’s being told, and it has its own gorgeous qualities (that shark transition at the beginning is just…wow, really lovely.)

As for her comment, ugh. It was offered, it seems, spontaneously, in the context of answering a much more straightforward question about how a particular scene was filmed in Doctor Who, so it was unnecessary, to say the least. Now, I don’t know, I have no idea what has been said to her. I don’t know how much she’s had to deal with people coming at her for things over which she has no control, like the overall direction of the show. I don’t much care, tbh. Because I think that if you’re going to engage in social media interactions with people, you need to be cool about it. You should try to be gracious. Understand that people are excited about what you’ve made, which is, like, the point of making it? Isn’t it? 

The main thing for me is, I’ve been on both sides of the creator / critic spectrum, professionally as a writer (on a really small scale), and academically as a literary scholar (at the highest level one can go). So I’ve thought about literary interpretation a lot, and thought a lot about its role, relative to literature itself. Here’s what I know: 

When people make a thing, a creative thing, they pull on all kinds of stuff of which they may or may not be aware. It’s an art. There’s planning, and there’s purpose, and there’s the story they know they want to tell, and then there’s serendipity, and the intuitive ways in which symbolism builds, and there’s the mass of art and literature that came before yours, there’s the direct source material (acd canon) and there’s indirect source material (the tons and tons of Holmesian pastiche); there’s tradition (like the Gothic); there are brands (Hammer horror, Bond, and, weirdly, the Muppets). It all goes into the mix, and out comes a thing that works, or doesn’t. 

This is why authorial intention is garbage as a concept: because literary texts are made from a combination of conscious and unconscious content.

And this is why all creator commentary about what they meant to do, or didn’t, is rubbishy bullshit at best. Ideally, I think, a creator should ask, “What did you think of it?” Rather than, proclaiming, “Oh, that’s not what I meant.” 

(I know, I know. We want there to be a plan. We want johnlock to be part of the consciously crafted content of the show. I obviously do. I want mofftiss to be good. I want them to be clever. I want the clearly inferior quality of s4 to be part of a meta-level Reichenbach arg. I hope it is. But even if it isn’t, even if they meant tfp to be a totally straightforward end to s4 and possibly the series as a whole, there is still much we can do in terms of reading it, interpreting it, enjoying it. This is not reaching. The subtext is practically hanging off the text like ripe fruit, begging to be picked.)

It is up to the critic, the literary analyst, the audience, to decide what the thing they’re consuming means to them. The symbols, tropes, character arcs, plots, etc., etc., which the creator has put together–all of this interacts with you, your personal experience, the other texts you’ve enjoyed, the symbols, tropes, plots, etc., that are part of your cultural experience, and there, in you, is where they make meaning. 

You can emerge from the experience of a text and say, this is what it means, and interpret it in light of what you know, and what you’ve felt, and back it up using the textual evidence that made you think what you did, and no one–that is to say NO ONE–can tell you you’re wrong. They can tell you they think there’s a better reading. They can tell you they think yours has holes in it. You can, if you wish, engage in discussion about it. But you don’t have to. Above all, you should do what makes you happy. This is supposed to be fun–which, it seems, is something that Talalay, with her snarky comment about “rationality,” seems to have forgotten. 

Nonetheless, for those of us who do choose to craft arguments out of our favourite readings of this, or any literary text:

There are good interpretations–ones that really hold water when you interrogate them and subject them to argumentation. There are less valid interpretations–ones that fall apart if you so much as breathe on them. 

Johnlock is a valid interpretation. It is as solid as granite. It has a metric fuckton of evidence backing it up. The only thing it doesn’t have, right now, is an explicit confirmation from the text that satisfies much of the audience who supports that interpretation. (Right now, there’s sort of a johnlock light reading we can glean from the most superficial level of the text. In my opinion, there’s a much more intense johnlock reading possible via the subtext.) 

There are, of course, other readings. Of course there are! But let me tell you, having had a run-in or two with the dude who made that anti-tjlc blog, WELL, he is far from rational. He transforms into a squalling infant if you so much as push on one of his ideas. And then tells you you’re bullying him. Methinks he enjoys being fighty. 

THE BOTTOM LINE IS: Once a creator has released something into the world, their role is done. It’s then up to the audience to take the thing and run with it. I am so glad–SO GLAD–to be part of a fandom that voraciously consumes, analyzes, critiques, and otherwise shakes the thing we love until all the best bits and pieces fall out. That’s the fun of it! For a creator to turn around and say, NO! You’re loving the thing I made in the wrong way–well, that is really small.

So: thanks for this ask, sorry to go on for so long but I have LOTS of feelings about this, clearly. 

kaykaykaboom  asked:

The RFA Members (V included) on their first time alone with the babies???

Author’s note: OMG SORRY THIS TOOK SO LONG I FELL ASLEEP AGAIN I really shouldn’t write in bed

Yoosung

  • As soon as you left the house he started FREAKING out
  • And he wasn’t the only one
  • When you left him with your soon to go to work
  • You were convince that one of them would be dead when you got home
  • But when you opened the door and saw your two boys asleep together on the  couch
  • Your heart did summersaults

Zen

  • When you got home, the first thing noticed was how quiet it
  • “Zen? You here?”
  • When you didn’t hear your husbands’ chipper voice your mom senses kicked in 
  • Whatiftheygotkidnappedormurderedorcaughtonfire o h n o
  • You called his phone
  • “Please pickup, please pickup, please-“
  • “MC?”
  • “Oh thank god! Where are you two???”
  • “Well, our daughter wanted ice cream.”
  • “Okay… but the nearest store that sells ice cream is an hour way?”
  • “…yeah.”
  • “Oh.”
  • You smiled
  • Your daughter is so spoiled

V

  • “Don’t worry, MC!! I’ll be fine!!”
  • he was not
  • ten minutes after you left he reached for the phone
  • “Hey, MC, I need you to run by the store on your way home and buy another baby bottle, no questions asked.”
  • “Why?”
  • “whAT DID I JUST SAY?”
  • “I’m not going out of my way unless you-”
  • “Fine, I tried to warm up the baby’s bottle in the microwave and it melted. NOW PLEASE SHE’S BEEN CRYING EVER SINCE YOU LEFT AND I CAN’T TURN HER OFF!”

Jaehee

  • Not a lot to say about her bc she’s an A-1 mom
  • I MEAN SHE ALREADY TAKES CARE OF HER FOUR RFA CHILDREN WITH ONLY THE HELP OF THEIR BLIND UNCLE (V)
  • Tbh she’s more worried of you being left alone with the kid LOL

Jumin

  • You walked in on him pointing a camera at your daughter
  • “Come on! Say it again for your mommy!!”
  • “Say what again?”
  • “…Her first words.”
  • “WHAT?? BUT’S SHE’S ONLY THREE MONTHS OLD??”
  • “She’s a quick learner. I guess she takes after her father.”
  • “Ignoring that… what did she say? Mom or Dad?”
  • “…”
  • “Jumin?”
  • “Elizabeth… she said Elizabeth.”
  • “She really does take after her father.”
  • She might be spending too much time with her dad

707

  • When you went to the grocery store and left Seven alone with your daughter you had no idea what to expect
  • But when you came back home
  • And opened your front door
  • And saw WHAT YOUR HOUSE IS A WRECK
  • AND SHIT IS THAT A BIRD FLYING AROUND THE ROOM
  • WHERE THE HELL IS SEVEN
  • WHERE THE HELL IS YOUR CHILD
  • You ran into the kitchen to drop off the groceries
  • And there was your daughter
  • Playing with her doll on the floor
  • And seven
  • COVERED in glitter and glue
  • Frantically making a PB&J
  • “What-“
  • “Don’t ask. Just… don’t.”
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so no one cares about what I’ve been up to this week but I’m gonna tell you because I have yet to stop crying about it

(all yelling kept respectfully below the cut bc I need to learn how to shut up)

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rorysummersblog-deactivated2017  asked:

Okay, I have this weird headcanon that in an alternate universe where Sunnydale isn't destroyed Willow becomes the new principal of Sunnydale High; Xander a teacher, and Buffy the guidance counselor. Willow because I think she's actually a really good leader, Xander because he's really good with kids (thinking back to Halloween), and Buffy, despite what the fandom thinks, can actually be very caring, sympathetic, observant, and a good listener/advisor (when she's not so overwhelmed!)

OH, MY. GOD. i’m so into this alkajsdfbn;dsgk

willow protecting the school with her powers. all the kids respect and look up to her (not to mention all the precious bby wlw who have crushes on her) but they’re also appropriately scared of her because…even they don’t know exactly what she’s capable of, they know it’s best not to piss her off.

xander teaching history because, hey, it turns out he’s a pretty good storyteller, and if he thinks of history as a story he can actually remember all the dates and stuff. plus, when he’s got buffy cluing him into all the supernatural parts of history that historians have explained away and rationalized, he finds everything so much more interesting. and so do his students.
imagine him paying special attention and giving extra care to the kids he sees himself in, too. the poor and the abused and the bullied. they all feel like they have an adult to talk to because of xander.

and buffy! buffy being able to help the students with their ‘normal’ high school problems and the supernatural crises. the kids like that she’s such a good listener, but they also try to get her talking about herself a lot because they know she’s a badass and they want to hear about some of her deadlier conquests.
buffy inspiring little boys and girls to stand up for themselves and to be better, more caring people in general. buffy leading by compassionate example. buffy leading a fashion revolution at sunnydale high as all the little ones who look up to her try to emulate her style of dress.

this is perfect tbh.

sleepover weekend

anonymous asked:

Lorde, let me be cursed like Taylor.. lol. Cursed is if you down to last dollar, have children to feed, no employment. It's not a 27 year old having a $250 mil + net worth and never having to work another day in your life and live off your royalties.

  • Anonymous said:You forgot to say that she is also rich and tall. It sucks to be her!!!
  • Anonymous said:In terms of love department she is cursed she needs to give up her career for a while to make the relationship work it’s obvious she cares more about her career than love.

it’s not all about money, tbh, there is more to life than that, money cant buy happiness or love. You can be very poor and be SO in love.  You can be rich and be miserable. What matters is finding that person who you click with on an intimate level. You can’t buy that. 

The orig anon i had yesterday was probably implying she was cursed in love and i think thats just a faulty way to look at it, one because i think it shows a lack of understanding of what normal dating looks like for most people (ofc its different for everyone) … it’s really not typical to date 4 people and find your soulmate right out of the gate.  And to say she cares more about her career than love is ludicrous, sorry.  Primarily because, are you in her head? How could anyone possibly know what taylor truly cares about? Thats a presumption based on what people are observing looking in from the outside and if we have learned Nothing else this year it should be that (a) we are only seeing what we are allowed to see and (b) that what we do see is such the teeny tiny tip of the iceberg & that we truly know nothing. 

Have people who think this way been absent the two years when she’s been focusing on her personal life much more so than her work? That aside, thats a sexist and antiquated approach, sorry. No one would say Leo or any other Hollywood man should stop acting or working til they find ‘a nice lady’ to settle down with. That presumption would never be made. Should all women in high powered demanding careers stop working or give up that part of their identity til they can date enough men til they fine The One? That isn’t how life works. 

And maybe that might be how some people would approach it, (great for them, it’s their choice) but she nor others should not be criticized bc they do not follow people’s approaches to dating, nor should they be expected to change who they are or give up a part of themselves, based on what other people think is better for them.  What is best for her is only something she and she alone can know. And maybe she doesnt know what is best (who does?!) but is working and growing and maturing and figuring it out along the way (again like any other person).  So much sideways blame in stating that she should give up her career.  It’s disparaging to assume that her ‘caring more about her career’ is the reason she is not married or has not ‘settled down.’  That said, If she decides to ‘take a break from her career’ for a length of time to focus on other things, i’ll of course support her in that decision.  

And the jennifer aniston quote (2008) i posted yesterday really imo sums up a great way to look at it, so much so that im going to post it again. Also, not that age matters, but, Taylor’s only 27!  Jennifer said this at about 40!

“You basically watch my life … It happens in front of you. And I can protect it and try to control things only to a certain extent. I think what I’m doing now is letting go of the reins a little bit and saying, ‘It is what it is.’ But there is more to me than just a tabloid girl. This whole 'Poor lonely Jen’ thing, this idea that I’m so unlucky in love? I actually feel I’ve been unbelievably lucky in love. Just because at this stage my life doesn’t have the traditional framework to it—the husband and the two kids and the house in Connecticut—it’s mine. It’s my experience. And if you don’t like the way it looks, then stop looking at it! Because I feel good. I don’t feel like I’m supposed to be any further along or somewhere that I’m not. I’m right where I’m supposed to be.”

Long ranty post about someone I used to really like

I’m honestly so iffy about Taylor Nicole Dean now bc of her association with Brian and ever since I got so much shit for saying I had concerns about that and her recent pet purchases on social media like I mean I apologized profusely but 1st of all she told me I shouldn’t have made that public bc she got a lot of hate and I should’ve privately messaged her….she got maybe TWO other people that simply agreed with me and weren’t rude to her at all? Also she does not check her private messages so like it was a shock she even saw the public one tbh and 2nd it’s very clear she has no intentions of looking into why bhb reptiles is just bad like really really bad and as an animal educator she shouldn’t be supporting people like that just for fame but I don’t know that’s just me😕 like I don’t know I’ve still been watching her videos just bc I was a REALLY big fan of hers but I just don’t know if I like her anymore? I know I said she handled the Instagram feud really well but like tbh that’s bc I had so much anxiety over the whole thing when I look back at it it was really an overreaction on her part and she made me feel super guilty and never confirmed that there were no ill feelings she just kinda let the hate go on against me but was so upset about the “hate” she got that her mom got involved? Like it wasn’t that big of a deal?? Plus she said to private message her my concerns and I did as well as an apology and the messages were never opened just like I knew they never would be! And her fans were so ill informed and quick to aggression saying her and Brian were perfect and that their pets were none of my business and then someone that CLEARLY follows (or I suppose followed) this blog fucking said that I have no place to judge other people’s pet choices since I’m a full time college student with a “large” (it’s really not imo) pet collection of my own bc apparently me being a college student means I can’t own pets?? Like I’m gonna make a post about this of course but pets are not something people need to mind their own business about people NEED to be critical of others care in order for the community as a whole to grow and if you can’t handle that kind of criticism (especially when it’s done in a very respectful manner as I feel I did) then you’re not ready to do right by your pets. I don’t know her videos used to brighten my day and now I feel kinda weird and sick whenever I see a new one is posted and debate whether or not I should watch it. Tbh if she would AT LEAST address the whole Brian thing I’d probably not be thinking about unsubbing rn she SAW and REPLIED to my comment saying that he was a really bad dude and that she needs to look into that if she wants to protect her reputation and she completely ignored the subject. And I feel like it’s solely bc she cares more about avoiding the hate and getting some subs from his fans I don’t know she just doesn’t seem as genuine to me anymore with all this going on and I don’t hate her at all but…I’m just kinda iffy and honestly a little sad about it bc she was such an inspiration for me and I don’t want to not like her anymore but I just don’t feel as good about supporting her now

im gonna work on that damara painting, i dont even care if it’s appropriate for fan/f/orge tbh damara affects me very personally and id die for her so im gonna paint her pain for my comfort i guess.

i have to resketch the whole thing bc when i scaled the sketch up the lines are too indistinct (i need them to be very fine to paint more accurately) but thats okay i can tweek some of the movement while im at it.

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some mina redesign notes, redesigning characters and stuff is so fun :D

I liked mass effect 2 but come on. My only gay options are either my assistant (my… Assistant. Come on) or a tepid “I’m glad ur still alive” ~relationship~ with Liara (if u romanced her in the previous game) like.. It’s barely anything more than hey I care about you but I’m not really gonna say it it do anything more than imply it while I hold ur hands for two seconds

new fun and hip au:

Mahiru is able to stop Sato from murdering Natsumi by walking into the music room beforehand. Mahiru literally drags her out of the room before anything bad can happen. She’s so emotional that she’s able to confess to Sato. They both have a good cry and Sato is also able to confess all of her feelings towards Mahiru. Natsumi realizes in this moment that ‘’hey i’ve really hurt them and i need to deal with some internalized issues’’ and has her own good cry with Fuyuhiko (tbh he started tearing up a lil too and broke his record) and Peko. 

This prompts Fuyuhiko to try even harder to properly express his feelings and care towards Peko, and through more tears and a lot of effort, his relationship with her and Peko’s own well-being improves. Fuyuhiko also attempts to become a better big brother, mellows as a person, makes friends with some of his classmates and decides to give up his heirship to Natsumi, because he never really wanted to become the next clan leader anyway and she had the yakuza qualities much stronger than he ever did. Peko is set free from the responsibility of being a hitwoman and is able to slowly become her own person and find value within herself with lots of love and support behind her (she also starts hanging out with Mahiru, Sato and a bunch of other female classmates and they spoil her and it’s precious).  

Sato and Mahiru are loving girlfriends (the cutest ever) and double date with Peko and Fuyuhiko somewhere down the line. Natsumi become a badass clan leader (possibly with an equally badass girlfriend?), yet has learned from her mistakes and has become a somewhat nicer person. There’s no despair and the tragedy never happened. 

Fuyuhiko can reach for his own dreams and learn how to show positive emotion without feeling the burden of family honor and being forced to become an instigator of violence. He never has to depend on his family, or anyone else ever again and is allowed to be sensitive and caring. Peko will never have to kill anyone again and is no longer doomed to exist as a tool. She’s allowed to be as soft and gentle as she wants. Fuyuhiko gives her space, although he’s always there when she needs support and also buys her a puppy.

When they’ve both properly healed and found themselves, they grow a precious relationship of mutual adoration, trust and support. They always make sure the other is 100% comfy in their relationship and date for many years. Their love matures like a fine wine and their bond as individuals and as romantic companions is unbreakable. They’re each other’s best friend, not one totally dependent on the other for worth and protection, but both perfectly bonded together in mutual, healthy affection. They basically become that couple who can show intimacy just by knowing what kind of socks the other prefers and slow dance in the kitchen or some shit. 

Basically, everyone is happy, and it’s all sunshine and rainbows (mostly).

Also, did I mention Sato lives and is forever in love with Mahiru? They hold hands, share pajamas, go on cute dates and Mahiru helps out with Sato’s mental health and everything becomes A-ok. Mahiru travels the world for her photography and Sato is there alongside her. Sato is so, so proud of her. They have albums full of photos of them in different countries being cute. Sato proposes in the world’s romantic way. Their wedding is the most beautiful event known to grace the face of the mortal earth. They live happily ever after. Sato brews coffee for Mahiru every morning and Mahiru makes them breakfast and they cuddle while they have cute bedheads and it’s 👌

anonymous asked:

For Dazai, Atsushi, and Chuuya I was wondering if you could do headcanons for an s/o who is extremely self-reliant in all aspects of her life?

Of course nonnie!

Atsushi

  • Really admires this about his s/o tbh because he strives to have that for himself. 

  • Though he does wish she would let him do more for her he respects her needs and will often find himself being the one that gets taken care of and this boy adores it.

  • If he lives with this s/o he tries to spoil her a bit by buying her sweets or cooking meals for her before she gets home.

  • He learns a lot from her and the way she carries herself with a sense of pride and stability. Sometimes it does make him feel belittled as a man though he knows she isn’t doing it intentionally. But, he often uses this as a way to motivate himself to be better like his s/o.

  • The stability his s/o brings to his life helps him a lot with his self-esteem and self-worth because he’s never exactly experienced positive stability.
  • Secretly loves her weak moments because it means he can jump to the rescue, but he still hates if she is ever upset or hurt.

  • He’s the sweetest cinnamon roll in the world when his s/o is sick and does everything for her. If his s/o is defiant he gets a bit stern and channels some hidden brashness to make sure his s/o doesn’t get worse by trying to do everything herself.

  • Gets flustered if she ever gets him gifts because he’s never received anything like that in his life like he cannot even speak real words it’s gibberish.

Chuuya 

[I’ve always thought Chuu would be so attracted to an independent person like mmmm boi]

  • Oh man this boy gets hot watching his s/o project her dominance in any situation. Whether she’s a boss at her job, in the bedroom, or even cleaning the house he basically salivates.

  • He does wish she would let him spoil them a bit more because that’s how Chuu was taught to treat a woman and damn it he just wants to shower her diamonds she didn’t buy herself. Sometimes he buys her super custom made luxury lingerie just to get her a bit riled up at the fact that he bought her something she usually likes to buy herself.

  • While Chuu is super attracted to his s/o’s independence he will fight her for control 99% of the time when it comes to matters that have to do with both of them. Paying for dates, topping during sex, getting chores done a specific way—all those hot button issues lead to some close-faced heated arguments but unless it’s something Chuu is actually angry about he just gets off on the struggle tbqh.

  • Loves showing his s/o off because his woman made a name for herself and he’s damn proud of her. He talks about her and her accomplishments a lot, especially to Kouyou.

  • He loves being showered in gifts too because his s/o knows his tastes and he’s left speechless when he comes home to an expensive bottle of wine wrapped in a bow because his s/o had to stay late at work and miss dinner.

Dazai

  • Dazai is pretty flexible when it comes to women so his s/o being fiercely independent doesn’t faze him. If anything it presents a different challenge because he’s used to women fawning all over him or slapping him.

  • This boy also gets hot watching his s/o take charge but he doesn’t her take charge all the time. In fact this tall mofo does shit to purposely get her pissed because he loves being punished for it and watching her try and dominate him. He’ll secretly pay some of her bills or dote on her a little too much and he knows what buttons to push to get the reactions he wants.

  • He does whine when though his s/o is working too much because that means less attention for him and he is not about that life.

  • Because his s/o takes her job more seriously than he takes his sometimes he does extra things for her like cooking, cleaning, giving her foot rubs ext. so she isn’t over-stressed.

  • Will loudly proclaim in public that his girl is the best woman in the world and babble about how she’s “so strong” or “a beautiful genius” in a sing-song voice. 

  • Often talks to Kunikida about her accomplishments and points out she doesn’t need to match his silly ideals in his book to be the most amazing woman ever.

  • His favorite thing is to make her completely submissive in the bedroom though because he secretly loves holding power over her during sex.

anonymous asked:

I just had to read a post about Mantis' powers being used to garner pity for Tony and like can ya not???? Use an abuse survivors?????? Powers????? To pity?????Tonka man????? Like no Mantis needs her own care and pity before she can even begin to earn pity for others (that scene where she touches Drax and cries made me feel bad for her more than Drax tbh) just.....leave Mantis alone ya grubby stans

this is truly incredible and by incredibly i mean awful. how many of those gotg2 posts are just monologues about how the guardians would supposedly love tony?? for some reason they’re convinced the guardians would be protective of him and they would hate team cap lol. tony stans are transparent as fuck. like i’m pretty sure peter & co wouldn’t give a single fuck about what happened between steve and tony on earth because they were too busy saving the entire galaxy. and they’re only in i//nfinity war because they’re going to have to save the galaxy yet again. they don’t have time for anything else. do tony stans think they would just sit down and listen to tony’s feelings while thanos is murdering people in the background lmao??

is it impossible for tony stans not to make everything about tony all the damn time? like, would it physically hurt them to genuinely give a shit about other characters instead of using them as props?? maybe if tony wasn’t such an insufferable asshole, he’d have friends.

mantis is my favourite space lesbian, she’s so kind and pure and she honestly deserved better. almost every character treated her like shit (especially drax) :/

@soohae !

Before fully letting herself exit the room, Soo skidded to a stop. Looking back at the younger with a puzzled stare, her hand gripped the doorframe to keep herself from falling, a laugh slipping passed her lips,”What the hell am I suppose to be careful of?! I’m just going to the fridge to get more snacks. Don’t tell me that the movie is actually scaring you? Aish, keep my seat warm and I’ll hurry up so I don’t get killed. Okay?”

Staring at the older girl with a blank expression, she slid under her covers before averting her eyes back to the tv screen. “I just trying to be a good sister and care for your well-being,” pausing her sentence for a few seconds before continuing, “buuuut, have fun getting dragged into the unknown darkness by a ghost which ends up stealing your soul.” with a shrug of her shoulders, reaching over towards the table to eat the remaining chips still left in the bag.

tbh im glad my dad fights my mom because he notices my mom abusing us. no matter who tells her she’s excessively abusing her kids, whether it be her own kids or husband, she fights back by saying she doesn’t care what we think and she will do as she wants. this happens too often. we want her to stop her toxic behavior but we don’t know what to do. i told her to get help from a therapist or psychiatrist but she refuses. at some point she took my antidepressants away from me because she said she needed them more than i did which obviously prompted me to feel very sick.

anonymous asked:

no one talks about Allison and Andrew enough tbh I need more hc with them being bffs because i'm rereading the Kings men and Allison nudges Renee to go comfort Andrew before Neil goes to comfort him like 👏🏽explain👏🏽this👏🏽

major thanks to @aristptle who helped create this monstrosity

  • okay, these two are like secret friends bc they have to stay on Brand™
  • but they do care about each other bc foxes are family
  • they’re mostly there for each other in little ways, like getting other people to comfort the other and tiny gestures
  • like Allison will give all her sugar to Andrew when the foxes get coffee bc she drinks it black and Andrew likes a tooth rotting amount of sugar
  • and Andrew will send her pictures of stuff he sees around that reminds him of Seth, bc none of the foxes ever really talk about the fact that he isn’t here anymore, so he acknowledges him bc he knows it’s what she needs to get over him
  • also, he’s the first one to bet that she and Renee are going to date, he places said bet before even they know they want to date, the only one who doesn’t bet gainst him is Neil bc he knows that Andrew doesn;t bet unless he’s sure 
  • also in other bets they help each other out in bets, they’re both the best and guessing what others will do, and together they are pretty much unstoppable, they text each other to confirm and then split the winnings
  • also, they bond over mutual hatred for humans and despair over fucking awful everyone is
  • like they can complain about people until the end of the world
  • they both do the *looks into the camera like on the office* thing when someone is being stupid except the camera is each other’s faces
  • eventually, everyone falls asleep on movie nights and it just turns into Andrew vs. Alison ‘who can make the snarkiest comments
  • they’re working their way through shitty horror movies and the sharknado franchise one quip at a time
  • the first time Allison gets the slightest smirk in response to her jab she feels like she just won all the awards, also she discovers the secret that when Andrew smiles normally, not the drug induced manic one, he has dimples and then she understands Neil’s choice a little more
  • also, they’re the founding members of team ‘Stop Neil Dressing like a Loser’
  • End the Jorts 2k16
  • Allison would just walk up to Andrew and be like, hey you little freak, your boy needs some good clothes and if he doesn’t get them soon I’m going to burn all the clothes he has and Andrew would just give her the side-eye, and be like, fine, Neil we’re going shopping 
  • thus begin shopping trips where Neil is basically dragged around like a kid with his parents 
  • he buys light up trainers
  • Allison tried to stop him but he looked so happy with his glowing shoes and he’s already won Andrew round by looking so pleased with them
  • and Allison gets him a haircut that’s more advanced than his usual ‘just keep it out of my eyes’ style
  • he looks Hot
  • also, Andrew has punched people who try to hit on her and won’t take her ‘No’ seriously
  • like they’re all in Eden’s and some dick decides that Allison is an easy target and won’t leave her the fuck alone
  • all of a sudden the dick is sprawled on the ground with Andrew holding a knife against his throat whispering “No means no you fucking dick”
  • Allison could have dealt with it herself but she get’s that this is Andrew’s way of showing that he actually cares about her, he only extends his protection to those who mean something to him