And another thing….for those of you who sent me nastiness or reblogged nastiness regarding my positive post yesterday (applause for Tom/this love is real), I considered responding to you individually on my blog but decided against it.  I refuse to disrespect Tom and Taylor by even reblogging your ignorant comments.  I find it particularly appalling that you can say you are a true fan and not respect Tom’s judgment.  He has done absolutely nothing to bring on your ire other than choosing to date someone you have decided isn’t right for him….which again, is not your right. 


Taylor Swift Things: Meet And Greets
   ››The T Party
“The T Party room is my version of what fun looks like. Because there are all these couches, it’s dim lighting, there’s candles- don’t tell the fire marshals at the venues- um, curtains! We have these tapestry curtains hung up, it’s like a tent. And during the day we all hang out there and it’s just like a living room for us, and after the show it becomes the place where we’ll take some of the most spirited fans. My mum or people from my organisation will be scouting for them all throughout the show. So when they see someone who’s absolutely going out of their mind or maybe the shy girls over there that have got my t-shirt on and they just look like they might wanna say hi after the show. There are all different ways of them picking people, but it’s all very sweet and we end up with a really cool group of people after the show. And so I go back there, the band goes back there after the show and we just take pictures and hang out and I like to keep that close relationship, it’s one of the most important relationships that I have.”

Kanye West and Taylor only spoke once on the phone while she was on vacation with her family in January of 2016 and they have never spoken since. Taylor has never denied that conversation took place. It was on that phone call that Kanye West also asked her to release the song on her Twitter account, which she declined to do. Kanye West never told Taylor he was going to use the term, ‘that b—h’ in referencing her. A song cannot be approved if it was never heard. Kanye West never played the song for Taylor Swift. Taylor heard it for the first time when everyone else did and was humiliated. Kim Kardashian‘s claim that Taylor and her team were aware of being recorded is not true, and Taylor cannot understand why Kanye West, and now Kim Kardashian, will not just leave her alone.
—  Taylor’s rep to GQ Magazine (x)

Things Calvin Harris has done since his split with Taylor Swift:
-Shaded her on both Twitter and Snapchat
-Let his friends make comments and perpetuate rumours about their break up
-Replied to fans on Instagram saying he was “free” and other petty comments
-Called her out publicly on Twitter because he was ‘hurt’ that she was trying to ‘bury’ him
-Has continuously played the victim card and tried to make Taylor look bad

Things Taylor Swift has done since her split with Calvin Harris:
-Moved on
-Took credit for writing TIWYCF which she wrote

Yet somehow Taylor is being portrayed as the one in the wrong here. 


Taylor Swift Things: Number Thirteen
   ››Lucky Number Thirteen
“I was born on the 13th. I turned 13 on Friday the 13th. My first album went gold in 13 weeks. My first number 1 song had a 13-second intro. Every time I’ve won an award I’ve been seated in either the 13th seat, the 13th row, the 13th section or row M, which is the 13th letter. Basically whenever a 13 comes up in my life, it’s a good thing.”

the only thing I’m mad about in this whole situation is when chloe moretz (naively yes) tried to be the voice of reason in this and khloe k being the ego-fueled idiot that she is posted a (fake) nsfw photo of chloe. like okay everything is heated right now i get it but posting a nsfw photo (even a fake one) to humiliate another woman went WAY beyond the taylor and kimye feud and was just outright bullying and uncalled for. khloe kardashian is gross af


Taylor Swift Things: Guitar
“I got my first guitar when I was 8 or 9 years old, but I couldn’t motivate myself to learn because my fingers were too small. I always had the guitar around, and I had it in the corner. And when I was about 12, this magical twist of fate, the guy who my parents had hired to come fix my computer looks over and sees the guitar in the corner and he was like, ‘do you play guitar?’ and I was like, 'oh… no. I tried but I.. no.’ And he said, 'do you want me to teach you a few chords?’ and I was like, 'Yeah!’ That was that. I was just relentless, wanting to play all the time. I was songwriting for all my free time after that.”

She never lied. She never denied there was a call. She agreed to one line, never heard the rest of the song so how could she have possibly approved of it without ever having heard it??

But yeah, don’t let facts distract you, make Taylor out to be some attention seeking evil witch like she doesn’t spend her time cheering up kids in hospitals, sending gifts to fans, surprising fans at weddings, meeting 200 fans a day FOR FREE during her world wide tour, being the most charitable celebrity four years in a row, donating to help people privately without seeking recognition, being a positive role model for girls, for girls to support each other, always building up everyone around her.

Just because her being a liar and an attention seeker fits in YOUR narrative of this woman you know nothing about just because you like to bash someone, doesn’t make it true. So how about this: stop hating on people just because the media told you to, focus on your own life and happiness, because obviously you need it if you spend your time spreading false information and hate in the world.