Work party coming up. I will be meeting a bunch of my coworker’s families. Do I wear flats and be less of a towering giant, and potentially make the guys more comfortable around me. Or do I wear heels, and tower over them all? (I’m already taller than all of them except my coworker, who I then would be taller than in heels) Would this make the women see me as more or less of a threat? Also my giant husband will be with me, and many of them will be meeting him for the first time too. 

I’m leaning towards towering giant. Go big or go home right?