take that journey

anonymous asked:

Sometimes I don’t know if I’m ace/demi or just really driven and don’t care about romance/relationships right now. My brother called me driven and alluded to me not caring about relationships at all, but I don’t know if that’s true. I am driven and focused, but I do want to be in a relationship sometime, I just don’t know anyone I’m interested in now. I rarely feel attracted to people, but maybe if I weren’t so focused on things, I’d be more open to attraction?Am I shutting myself off from love?

I can’t fully answer that for you, but I’ll say you’re probably not shutting yourself off from love. Relationships can sometimes just happen randomly and fast, and its normal to have a ton, or any, crushes at a certain time. Sometimes moving somewhere new, or just getting older, might make you more interested in people. 

I personally didn’t have really any romantic feelings for anyone for a long time, and when I did get them, it was a very small amount of people, one or two, and I have just started my first relationship in my senior year of high school- and many people don’t get in a relationship until after graduating high school. 

One girl I know who thought she might just be very driven and ace turned out to figure out she was a lesbian later. 

However, you could be ace or demi too, which is perfectly ok as well! 

Sometimes love takes time to kick in, or you might just not have a great pool to pick from yet ;) Or, you could be someone who doesn’t have those sort of feelings. But in all honesty, don’t worry too much about it or attaching a label to yourself. It’s a good step to start questioning, and know that we are here to help you if you need it. Sexuality is complicated, and your labels can change, especially as teens things are hard to get perfectly ironed out.

If you really want a relationship, you can go try to find one. But if you aren’t entirely interested, don’t worry about it- there’s time for it later if you want to do it in the future, or, you don’t have to do it at all if you don’t want. So stay driven and focused for now if thats what you want and what makes you happy.

-Mod Rowan

bxtchy-bxtch  asked:

The scenes and details you forgot to write, will you still write them but maybe as oneshots in a seperate book? Basically, I don't want Fated to end. Every Friday, I am pleasently surprised (because I always forget that its Friday) to see a new Fated update as soon as I wake up. I'll really miss those email notifs once Fated is over :(

I didn’t so much forget them as I deliberately left some things out. Yuuri’s somewhat of an unreliable narrator. As such, a lot of Victor’s backstory and his personal journey takes a backseat compared to Yuuri’s experience in this fic! Side stories might (and i say “might” because i’m not positive i’ll write any) include some of Victor’s misadventures with Yuri, Yuri’s side story with Otabek, Phichit and Seung-Gil’s experience, more of Mari and Minako…. but that’ll really depend on how I feel! 

I love Fated but working on it is exhausting, and I know I’m probably gonna want to take a break after I’m done, not to mention being thoroughly grabbed by the Hannibal fandom. It’s very likely most of my next projects will focus around Hannibal instead! We’ll have to see where life takes me. :P

I helped myself.
wiped my own tears.
put balm over fresh wounds.
plastered parts of my heart that still were hurting.
gave myself time.
read books that soothed my soul.
heard music that calmed my nerves.
watched movies that made me smile.
bit by bit, piece by piece, I put
myself back together again.
and I gave myself a second chance
because I know that if I didn’t,

then no one else would.

—  Ruby Dhal
4

In that dark storm, I encountered a small ship. While pushing me forward, the ship said, “Can’t you see that light?” This wondrous ship, which never lost its way even in the darkness, danced its way across the huge waves. The ship didn’t resist the tides, instead it sailed ahead despite the strong headwinds. Then, the ship pointed out and said, “Look! There’s the light!”

and the great adventure begins~ 

8

Don’t look back. Just look at me”

When Isayama Drops a Bombshell: an Approximate Timeline

Pre-chapter Hype:

Finally receiving the chapter: 

Reading the chapter:

Recovering from the chapter:

Dealing with the post-chapter discourse:

Can you tell that she’s 100% done with the bs?

All the new theories and analysis:

Bracing yourselves for the next chapter:


Bonus

2000 years later, sitting back and watching the anime-onlies react to it all:

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Video Replay: The Moon - Incredible Lunar Views From The Japanese SELENE Orbiter - Earthrise

Take a journey across the surface of the moon. See the earth rise and set from the lunar surface.  💖

okay but lets be real super innocent ‘yona is the only for me’ hak is completely canon okokok if yona kissed him his puny thunder beast legs would turn to a newborn deer the poor boy would probably explode

*drops mic*