Hide part of the money so he doesn't know it exists. Or hide it completely. My parents took everything we made and we are still paying for our college bc we had to take out loans. We had to depend on them bc they took away our independence by taking our money. So lie and hide it. You'll never regret it.
it’s not that he knows exactly how much i make, but he always guilt trips me that i don’t “help him enough” with money and like okay then! i’m already super stressed and tired, just let me overwork myself right into the grave, thanks