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Good morning.


ITS SUMMER. I liked the lighting here, but it does force me to realise that the sun does completely bleach and obliterate my eyebrows

SHINee when you try to flirt with them

Originally posted by sibelhomme-tumb

ONEW: Your shy and awkward attempt to flirt with Onew would make him fall for you instantly. He’d see the same quirkiness and weirdness that he too possesses.  

“I can’t flirt either but I hope my weirdness is attractive in some way. Is that why you like me?” 

Originally posted by shinee-l

KEY: Key would chuckle and run his hand through his hair with a smirk on his face. 

“Oh babe, we really need to get you some flirting lessons don’t we? It’s just lucky that you’re gorgeous so it doesn’t matter. Let me take your number.” 

He confidently gets out his phone and adds you under ‘gorgeous lady.’

Originally posted by sataeminism

TAEMIN: “Ahhh sorry, I’m not really good with this whole interracting with girls thing. I think you’re really pretty too… Damn, sorry. Was that too forward? Should I stop?” 

*Minho shouts at him* “Just ask her out already!” 

Originally posted by dearmyfairyboy

MINHO: Minho would think you were adorable and love your innocence. 

“You’re so cute! Though let’s have a drink. I’m not the best at flirting when I’m sober either.” 

He’d bravely take your hand and guide you to the bar. 

Originally posted by celes-tae

JONGHYUN: Jonghyun would completely ignore the fact that you were shy and introverted when you were trying to flirt and just notice how perfect you were. 

“Oh, don’t apologise for being nervous! I barely even noticed! Umm, would you notice if I held your hand for the rest of the night though?” 


I don’t know how long ago the rest post about muscular trans women was posted or when these amazing people posted their selfies but when I saw them, something washed over me.
All of you looked so happy and feeling gorgeous and confident that i got inspired to draw you all! I’m sorry in advance if those selfies were posted on earlier stages of your transition, I can always take down the drawing, I have no problem on doing so! In order that are @rocketmermaid @lady-feral @snarlahazard and @sogay4rey

I hope you all are having a great day, you have lighten up my day just by being yourselves. ((NOTE: from the text post I reblogged the only one ibdid not post was @/that-dyke because she left tumblr and it feels disrepectful to post it here. If anyone knows if she would like to see the drawing please contact me.))


fig-newtons  asked:

any tricks to help with self confidence?

i still struggle with self confidence but some things that i remind myself for reassurance are that 1) focus on where you are in the current moment, never on the past 2) list your strengths, successes, personal compliments, etc.; you are your best encouragement. you control your mood so focus on how to control how you feel. keep in mind criticism, but don’t turn that into negativity and become an enemy to yourself 3) speak up for yourself and your opinions. choose for yourself and do not worry about pleasing others. focusing on yourself is so important when building confidence. put yourself first. always. learn to not be afraid of putting the focus on yourself. it’s not called being selfish. treat yourself, too. it can be little things but know that you deserve to feel special. 4) be your own person. never try to be anyone else bc you are so special. you can be original. trying to be like/look like someone else is exhausting. don’t listen to the unrealistic standards that people and you place on yourself 5) surround yourself with people that provide an upbringing to an equal flowing relationship: you both affirm and support each other. being with toxic people (or being a toxic person) does nothing to build your self esteem, and nothing to help who you are as a person. recognizing toxic behavior is so important. like i mentioned earlier, you have to provide support to other people, too. always try to help others, but don’t exhaust yourself. know your limits 6) see mistakes as a part of learning, not a part of failing. be honest with yourself and know that you are constantly growing 7) don’t focus entirely on whether or not you have the ability — think instead about the value you bring to the table 8) know that building up confidence takes time, so be patient. know that the person trying to give you tips on self confidence is not fully confident in herself. but practice these things and know that you were placed on this world for a reason and that it is your job to prove to yourself that you are worth so much. you are so so so beautiful and strong. you deserve so much and you deserve to love yourself. everyone does.

i didn’t realize how long this would end up being, sorry! if any of you need more advice (insecurities, body confidence, etc) send me an ask or a message! ahhhh i feel like there’s so much more to talk about!! 


I was tagged by the most beautiful girl in the world @dsfunctional to do the six selfie tag 2017!! 

I tag @virgoth0t @thebrownlightworker @pan-devi @paradoxic-reality @kiratkarna @o-xyst @thelifeof-pablo @inthenight-time @astralshowers @takeachillquill @frolicfun @thoovanathumbikal @thechibsyo @milliondollargf @cosplay-my-otp @queenoftheparty @thesaddestboyinqueens @basquiat-martin @shelovestolay @b4dgalfifi @cram-it-with-walnuts @nimbupanii @desi-kalakaar @jyotaayy @midnight-at-twelve @perversekitten @the-brown-man @brownbadnboujee @teafor0ne @renegadedmoth @ave-boy @160963 @dahknessdondre @neilpatel64 @hopeforinsanity @fuxk–it @themoonenviesyou  @shxffi and like definitely anyone else who wants to do it just tag me!! 


I feel really good about myself today, so here yall go, it’s my face, happy munday!!

[he/him or she/her only please]