I’m new to tumblr, but have just found your blog and was looking through your tags and I just wanted to say that your ‘emily tag’ is so cute and your friendship with highladyfxyre is amazing! But I’d love to make friends in the fandom but have no idea how to since I’m new and it seems like everyone’s in their own friendship group, and I’m only 14😔 Any advice?
Aw, thank you, anon!💘
I met Emily because I messaged her asking when she was updating one of her fics, and after that we got closer and now we have tags! Haha, don’t worry about being too forward or awkward by messaging someone just to say hello, because I am the most awkward person ever yet I somehow managed to make some amazing friends😂 Honestly, everyone in the fandom is so accepting, and I mean every single person!
When I first joined Tumblr I thought the exact same thing about friend groups, and I didn’t want to “intrude” on anyone’s little circle, but honestly, yes people might be closer with a small group of people over everyone else, but that doesn’t mean they aren’t friends with other people too! If you see someone you can relate to, or just a blog that you like, message them and say hi!
In my opinion, I think the whole fandom is one big “friend group” because everyone gets along and we all fangirl together! It’s super fun :))
And of course, you can message me anytime, cuz I love making new friends! :))
Since you’re new, here’s some blogs that are incredible, and everyone who runs them are so nice!
@highladyfxyre @throne-of-ashes-and-beauty @tacmc @fiery-feyre @fck-tamlin@cassianandfenrysaremyboyos @darlingfireheart @feysandsmut @foxboy-lucien @illyrianrhys @modernbookfae @marabarrow @my-life-is-a-drama-book @paperbacktrash @propshophannah @rhysand-vs-rowan @readinglikewildfire @fiery-feyre @rowaelinsmut @aelin-and-feyre @runesandfaes
There’s so many more, but these are some great ones to start with!
I hope this helped because I suck with advice, but remember to be yourself and also don’t rush it! If you don’t make 10 friends in a day don’t give up! It takes time, but I promise that in this fandom it’s worth it❤️