so this happened to me today and i did all the wrong things to try to stop it and it only made it worse. so now i’m here to help you :-)
when you are still crying: -lay down and relax -scroll through cute animal pics or anything that usually makes you happy (i just scrolled through my tumblr dashboard) -i made a “comfort” tag full of comforting things and cute stuff (no gore or anything scary) so u can scroll thru that too -hug a stuffed animal or pillow -take slow breaths. this will be hard at first bc you will be hiccuping and hyperventilating a lot (that might be just me) but it’ll get easier -try not to think about what makes you sad -listen to happy music -text a friend and pretend you haven’t been crying (their happiness could rub off on ya!)
when you are done crying & hiccuping: -rinse off your face with cold water -drink some water too -eat if you’re hungry -if you have puffy eyes, put cucumbers or a cool towel over them to reduce puffiness -moisturize your face
what not to do while ur trying to stop crying: -don’t cough unless you can’t help it -don’t wash ur face or brush ur teeth bc you’ll accidentally swallow toothpaste or soapy water bc ur hiccuping -don’t try to drink water bc u might choke -basically don’t put liquids near your face -don’t talk on the phone or talk at all bc you won’t be able to breath properly and ur words will be broken up and no one will be able to understand what ur saying -don’t hold ur breath to muffle your crying sounds. it won’t feel good at all and it won’t work, trust me -you don’t have to explain why you are crying unless you want to
reblog to help a buddy out when they’re sad and crying ! also feel free to add on to the list if you have more advice :–)
everyone laughs about the fact that keith hardly remembered who lance was despite their apparent “neck and neck” rivalry but lemme tell you about how this time in sophomore year this girl who i didnt even know started crying bc i got a higher math grade than her on the psats and when i talked to her friends later they told me apparently we were rivals and that we had been competing with grades and in gym class all year
Something good happened today so I thought I’d share this with all of you soooo…. STORY TIME on how I calmed down a crying 4-year old girl by showing her Viktuuri pictures ahem
So today I was at church and I helped my friend with her Sunday School. Her students are all children, so we all know that they aren’t the easiest to handle. They were so noisy; They kept running around the classroom and even getting into fights.
So this one 4-year old girl was suddenly crying, she had a fight with another girl. She was screaming and all, so I tried to calm her down by carrying her and I kept telling her,
“KZ, please stop crying. Do you wanna play?”
But she didn’t answer me. She kept crying for a while but thankfully she has toned down her screaming a little, until I remembered that I have my tablet with me. So I told her, while still carrying her,
“Do you wanna play something here? Oh, but wait.. I don’t have games on my tablet. Do you wanna look at the photos instead?”
She still ignored me. I opened my gallery anyways. She slowly looked at my tablet, so I said,
“KZ, do you wanna see cartoon characters? But I don’t have photos of cartoon characters, only anime, hehe.”
I have a lot of separate folders for different anime and of course my favorite ships (lol) but what caught my attention is that she tapped on my Yuri!!! on Ice folder first. She stopped crying, I was surprised.
I showed her a “family photo” fanart that I found here.
“This is Viktor, this is Makkachin and this is Yuuri.” I said.
I tried to quiz her for fun and for her to not cry again. So I was like,
“Okay, I’m going to ask you KZ, who is this?” (me pointing at Viktor)
“Viktor!” we both smiled.
“Very good! Now who is this?” (me pointing at Makkachin)
“Dog!” I laughed.
“Yes, I know it’s a dog, but it has a name! Ma..kka..chin. Say it again, please?”
“Mikkachin.” she confidently said while I was smiling so big.
“No no, KZ. It’s Makkachin. What’s the dog’s name again?”
“Makkachin.” I was like, yes, finally!
“Okay so who is this? (me pointing at Yuuri)
“Boy!” she laughed again. I was enjoying this moment.
“No, his name is Yuuri. Again, who is he?” (I pointed at Yuuri again)
“Haha no, it’s Yuuri, not Yuure.”
“Yuuri!” then she pointed at him.
I was happy that I cheered for her. Then she went to look for another picture. This time, another fanart with the one where Viktor and Yuuri were kissing.
I was quite nervous. All I could think about was,
Crap. What if she says something like, “Ew.”? What if she cries again after seeing this? What will her reactions be?
To my surprise, she never reacted like that. In fact, she was smiling again. So then she looked at me and asked,
“Are they married?” I smiled, but internal me was fangirling of course.
“Well, no they aren’t, but why do you think that?”
“Because they kiss and hug. (Points at Viktor) Look, Viktor (points at Yuuri) and Yuuri, kiss.”
“Right? They love each other so much.” I smiled again.
“I want them to get married.”
I never expected that kind of response. I was just smiling all the time. I thought to myself, “This kid sure is something, huh.”
Now that she has completely calmed down, I put her down so she can walk around and play with her friends again.
I laughed because she kept screaming “Viktor! Yuuri! Mikkachin! Kiss!” while running around the classroom.
Side note: I was standing the whole time because KZ didn’t want to be put down because if I did, she would cry again so basically I was standing while carrying a child for about 15 minutes ouch
This moment was just too glorious for me to not share it IM CRYING U GUYS I AM SO HAPPY
soo you are trying to tell me that everyone was freaking out bc of babygate and called for the bears and they tweeted, gave us shit ton of material to focus on, there was rainbow spelled on the keyboard, they showed us which tag they check on tumblr and the song they were listening to has lyrics saying ‘soon she’ll be crying on account of all her lying’
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genderfluid!dean, as commissioned by aspidoceleon :’) word count: 1,619 contents: feminization, consensual sexual situations, dean in panties, dean in makeup, dean identifying as both male and female, dean x rhonda hurly, dean x oc male
Dean’s three years old the first time Mary catches him playing with her things; making a mess of her powder and struggling to twist open her lipstick. He’s petrified that she’ll be angry, that despite trying his best to be tidy, he’s ruined all her pretty things. Instead, she takes a deep breath and smiles at him, gentle, if not a little strained.
“Sweetheart, please don’t play with mommy’s makeup,” she says, easing the lipstick from his hands. “They’re not toys.”
Far To Young To Die | (listen) A Jily fanmix that will make you cry but will most certainly make you smile
I Wanna Be Yours- Arctic Monkeys// Kiss Me- Ed Sheeran// Secret Door- Arctic Monkeys // Flawless- The Neighbourhood // Falling In Love At A Coffee Shop- Landon Pigg // Black Flies- Ben Howard// Something I Need- One Republic // Somewhere Only We Know- Keane // Never Stop (Wedding Version)- Safety Suit// Oblivion- Bastille // Ribs- Lorde // Born To Die- Lana Del Rey // Buzzcut Season- Lorde // I Will Follow You Into The Dark- Death Cab For Cutie // Far Too Young To Die- Panic! At The Disco // A Little Death- The Neighbourhood
cuz I remember the snaste (snail taste) of your skin tonight and the way that you looked you had those sneyes (snail eyes) I remember the way I snelt (snail felt) inside and the name of the snongs (snail songs) that made you cry you would snream (snail scream) we would snight (snail fight) you would call me crazy I would snaugh (snail laugh) you were snad (snail mad) but you’d always sniss (snail kiss) me and the snirt (snail shirt) that I had you would always borrow when I woke it was gone there was no snomorrow (snail tomorrow)
“i invited you over to watch horror movies bc you told me you liked them but didn’t want to watch alone and you’re currently holding my hand and hiding behind a blanket bc you’re so scared and it’s adorable” AU
“we’re watching these terrible rom-coms and laughing bc they’re so unrealistic and dramatic and oh my god are you crying???” AU
“it’s disney movie night and we’re watching aladdin and suddenly we’re singing the duet together how did this happen” AU
“we decided to watch a movie together and there’s this loud noise at the beginning from THX and it scared the shit out of me pls stop laughing” AU
“i heard some weird noises downstairs and i thought you were being murdered so i ran downstairs with the first object i saw and turns out you were just watching an action movie and now you won’t stop teasing me with the fact that i wanted to save you with a trashcan for the loVE OF GOD STOP LAUGHING” AU
“you were feeling down so i tried to cheer you up with a disney movie and we were watching big hero 6 but that thing happened and now you won’t stop crying im so sorry someone pls help me im not good at this” AU
“we’re watching a horror movie together and im super scared cause it’s a really tension filled scene and there will be a jump scare any second and OH MY GOD COULD YOU STOP THROWING POP CORN AT ME I ALMOST PISSED MYSELF STOP LAUGHING” AU