tagging you bc cry with me

what to do when you’re crying & can’t stop

so this happened to me today and i did all the wrong things to try to stop it and it only made it worse. so now i’m here to help you :-)

when you are still crying:
-lay down and relax
-scroll through cute animal pics or anything that usually makes you happy (i just scrolled through my tumblr dashboard)
-i made a “comfort” tag full of comforting things and cute stuff (no gore or anything scary) so u can scroll thru that too
-hug a stuffed animal or pillow
-take slow breaths. this will be hard at first bc you will be hiccuping and hyperventilating a lot (that might be just me) but it’ll get easier
-try not to think about what makes you sad
-listen to happy music
-text a friend and pretend you haven’t been crying (their happiness could rub off on ya!)

when you are done crying & hiccuping:
-rinse off your face with cold water
-drink some water too
-eat if you’re hungry
-if you have puffy eyes, put cucumbers or a cool towel over them to reduce puffiness
-moisturize your face

what not to do while ur trying to stop crying:
-don’t cough unless you can’t help it
-don’t wash ur face or brush ur teeth bc you’ll accidentally swallow toothpaste or soapy water bc ur hiccuping
-don’t try to drink water bc u might choke
-basically don’t put liquids near your face
-don’t talk on the phone or talk at all bc you won’t be able to breath properly and ur words will be broken up and no one will be able to understand what ur saying
-don’t hold ur breath to muffle your crying sounds. it won’t feel good at all and it won’t work, trust me
-you don’t have to explain why you are crying unless you want to

reblog to help a buddy out when they’re sad and crying ! also feel free to add on to the list if you have more advice :–)

soo you are trying to tell me that everyone was freaking out bc of babygate and called for the bears and they tweeted, gave us shit ton of material to focus on, there was rainbow spelled on the keyboard, they showed us which tag they check on tumblr and the song they were listening to has lyrics saying ‘soon she’ll be crying on account of all her lying’

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genderfluid!dean, as commissioned by aspidoceleon :’)
word count: 1,619
contents: feminization, consensual sexual situations, dean in panties, dean in makeup, dean identifying as both male and female, dean x rhonda hurly, dean x oc male

Dean’s three years old the first time Mary catches him playing with her things; making a mess of her powder and struggling to twist open her lipstick. He’s petrified that she’ll be angry, that despite trying his best to be tidy, he’s ruined all her pretty things. Instead, she takes a deep breath and smiles at him, gentle, if not a little strained.

“Sweetheart, please don’t play with mommy’s makeup,” she says, easing the lipstick from his hands. “They’re not toys.”

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Hey! Maybe you haven’t been keeping up with current events, but we just got our asses kicked, pal!

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‘What the hell do you think you’re doing? You’re depriving me of a dashing rescue.’
'Sorry, the only one who saves me is me.’

cuz I remember the snaste (snail taste) of your skin tonight and the way that you looked you had those sneyes (snail eyes) I remember the way I snelt (snail felt) inside and the name of the snongs (snail songs) that made you cry you would snream (snail scream) we would snight (snail fight) you would call me crazy I would snaugh (snail laugh) you were snad (snail mad) but you’d always sniss (snail kiss) me and the snirt (snail shirt) that I had you would always borrow when I woke it was gone there was no snomorrow (snail tomorrow)

movie night aus

“i invited you over to watch horror movies bc you told me you liked them but didn’t want to watch alone and you’re currently holding my hand and hiding behind a blanket bc you’re so scared and it’s adorable” AU

“we’re watching these terrible rom-coms and laughing bc they’re so unrealistic and dramatic and oh my god are you crying???” AU

“it’s disney movie night and we’re watching aladdin and suddenly we’re singing the duet together how did this happen” AU

“we decided to watch a movie together and there’s this loud noise at the beginning from THX and it scared the shit out of me pls stop laughing” AU

“i heard some weird noises downstairs and i thought you were being murdered so i ran downstairs with the first object i saw and turns out you were just watching an action movie and now you won’t stop teasing me with the fact that i wanted to save you with a trashcan for the loVE OF GOD STOP LAUGHING” AU

“you were feeling down so i tried to cheer you up with a disney movie and we were watching big hero 6 but that thing happened and now you won’t stop crying im so sorry someone pls help me im not good at this” AU

“we’re watching a horror movie together and im super scared cause it’s a really tension filled scene and there will be a jump scare any second and OH MY GOD COULD YOU STOP THROWING POP CORN AT ME I ALMOST PISSED MYSELF STOP LAUGHING” AU


“It’s been a rough road this far. You know how they say… ‘The fastest way to bring a team together is to win.’ If we’d made a wrong turn somewhere, it could’ve destroyed our team. Even so, we want revenge for summer. We all came together easily under one objective. We’ll win.

  • me:*takes a deep breath*
  • me:i love-
  • anyone who has spent five seconds around me ever:yes, you love gabriel, we know, you love gabriel so much, he's the light of your life, you love him so much, you just love gabriel, we KNOW, you love gabriel, you fucking love gabriel ok we know, we get it, YOU LOVE GABRIEL. WE GET IT.

Imagine Iwaizumi falling in love with Oikawa at a young age, around 11 lets say, and slowly the pressure builds up, it takes him ten years to get the courage, ten years to finally say something to Oikawa.

“I love you Oikawa.”

There’s no responce, the room stays quiet. Iwaizumi stares blankly, the colour white barely registering.

“Didn’t you hear me shittykawa?! I said I love you!”

He starts crying, one hand clutching his chest, the other holding onto Oikawa’s lifeless hand on the hospital bed. He wanted Oikawa to wake up, to finally come out of his coma, but it would never happen. Three years he’d been in a coma, after pushing Iwaizumi out of the way of a speeding car. Iwaizumi blamed himself.

Three weeks later, a phone call from the hospital made Iwaizumi drop his phone…

“Cherry Wine”

If you know me well, you know that my #1 ship for Cora is with Lydia (also that Cora is my fave and I cry every night for her absence) so when megs tweeted about Cordia as Marceline and Bubblegum, I just couldn’t resist! :>

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