I don’t Discourse, but I get so angry when people dismiss asexual’s people’s problems as something like “Boohoo, you don’t want to fuck, no one gives a shit”.
But it’s so much more than that. Obviously it’s not homophobia, never was and never will be. It doesn’t even compare, it’s not the same thing at all.
But there are issues asexual people face like - there is pressure, part of it from society, and a lot of it come for ourselves. And that kind of self-hate and self-loathing and thinking you’re broken and unloveable, developping unhealthy sexual behaviour and self-harm - it’s a thing, it’s definitely a thing, not something 14-year-old kids on tumblr made up for attention. It can really mess you up, mess your relationships up, and people are so afraid to talk about it - I read words of older people - and I don’t mean people my age, I mean people in their 50s, their 60s - probably they don’t even know asexuality is even a thing, they got married and had kids and always felt wrong, because they hate sex and they never wanted it and never felt comfortable around it but they did it, quietly, never said a fucking word, and hated themselves a bit more every single time because they never understood why they felt they were missing what they were always told was supposed to be a fundamental part of themselves. They spent their entire life thinking they were broken.
and. it’s not homophobia, it’s not bigotry from an entire society keeping you from jobs and housing, etc. there’s no stats or anything. And maybe a lot of non-asexual people relate to this self-loathing, too. Things are never completely clear cut - there is always some overlapping. It doesn’t make it any less important. It’s still a thing that most asexual people go through, at least for part of their life, and it can really, really mess someone up. And there’s no need to get into discourse or into any (useless and frankly asinine) comparisons - it just needs to be taken seriously for what it is, because people’s health and happiness are what’s at play and it matters, too.
hi!! could you recommend me some good baekhyun gif makers? exo-centric are fine too :)
hii yes of course!! these blogs are just the ones I remember at the top of my head rn, starting with the ones that gif baekhyunnnnn (some of them are pretty exo-centric but their bias is baekhyun does that count??? LMFAO):
i can’t be bothered finding the screenshots i took of this and i’ve never said this before but since the new ep is coming out soon i wonder if aizawa regrets his hero name
he’s shown in the omake that he doesn’t care about the name mic gave him because “i don’t plan on appearing in the media. whatever it’s fine.” but he explicitly tells 1-a to “pick their hero name carefully or they’ll end up regretting it later on”
also he’s the only teacher that isn’t referred to by his hero name but by his surname eg: midnight-sensei and not kayama-sensei
you know what’s awful?? dating people you’re not attracted to in any way because Heteronormativity made you think maybe you were attracted to them. absolutely awful. not remotely like having a mutually-negotiated relationship with someone you actually like and want to be with and honestly I am constantly shocked by the contrast.
Hi guys! Yesterday I reached 5k followers! That’s something I never thought I’d even come close to getting, thanks so much guys for helping me reach this milestone, you’re the best! Huge thank you to every one who supports my blog and says nice things. You have no idea how much it means to me. Reblogging my gifs and edits you make me happier. I didn’t tag everyone because i follow too many blogs (exactly 404 blogs, what can i say, i watch too many tv shows), i’m so sorry if i didn’t include someone. Ok, lets do this:
Oh, my sweet Iv and El. Family don’t end with the blood and you
two are like my sisters from another mother. I tagged you together
because the the three of us are unsaperate. I love you both so much and
now i can’t image a life without you two ( i can’t image a day without
our talks:) You two know me here the best. I’am so thankful that i have the pleasure to know you. You’re my real life friends. Thank you for the opportunity of sharing my life with you <3
@mel-loves-all My sweet Mel, you are here with me since the beginning. Without you I would not be here. You’re one of the first person that i started to talk here.I was so shy, but this was my best decision to start interact with you. I love you so much my friend. Thank you for all the love, support, all the random messages. Thank you for being you, one of the kindest, lovable people that i ever met. Thank you for everything honey<3
Oh dear Abby, a day without a message from you is a lost day.
Thank you for being a part of my life, a part of my spn family. I love
you my adorable friend. Thank you for liking and reblogging my stuff,
for all the support. Meeting you was a gift
which I couldn’t be more grateful.
@smoakqueenz@oliversmoaked My dear Nelly and Brune, you two give me the power for doing what
i do. Thank you for all the kind words about my work. Thank you for all
the support. You two made me believe in myself, you made me believe
that what i do is not meaningless. I’m a very big fan of not just your
I am a fan of what you are
as a person. I love you to very much<3
My favorite people since forever, you made me who i’m here now. Thank you sweethearts for everything. There is no me here without you. You all are very special to me and I love you all very much<3
imagine huddling up in a corner of your room because of the terrible emotions hitting hard. jimin would squat down in front of you, gently cup your cheeks with his hands and lift your head so that you’re looking directly into his eyes. “hey, listen. focus on me. it’s okay, it’s alright and you’re okay,” he’d say softly and press his lips on your forehead, giving you a long-lasting, comforting, gentle kiss.
Is there alternative dog training tag in DOGBLR (or could we maybe just choose new one lmao) cause I absolutely hate going through ‘dog training’ tag because there’s so much NSFW content?
I would love to follow people who either write/film about obedience, tracking, IPO, mondioring, joring and I NEED TAGS TO FOLLOW because I can not follow everyone here in tumblr (most of you don’t tag anything and I don’t want my dash fulfilled with content I don’t really care about, jeez! Sorry, but it’s just sad that I would love to follow a bunch of people but you just won’t tag. Ever.) and my dash would be so full of content I couldn’t follow up with everything going on in here.
Anyway, I’d love to try out tagging dog training content with a new tag that would be completely new so no one would fulfill the tag with NSFW or other weird content no one wants to see. Anyone with me?
Happy New™ bellarke fam selfie night!!! I’m so excited & anxious at the same time lol these 3 selfies represent my mixed feelings about a new season lol it’s gonna be awesome & painful but we will survive because that’s what bellarke fam does! Love all your faces, can’t wait to scream with you all
The story goes like this, Poppy had been born into a vampiric cult, his parents were of high prestige in this cult so he was expected to follow in their footsteps. He did for a while, but then he made a mistake and they forced him to become a soldier and fight against other cults, he was a vicious assassin until his 18th birthday. His parents were killed and the cult leader stripped him of his vampiric powers for…mysterious..reasons. So he moved to San Myshuno to start over…but his dark past still haunts him.