tagging because i use these tags on my blog so dont complain

@memekeymouse the NSFW stuff appearing even on safe-search, that’s Tumblr’s problem.
It’s not the artists. Because they’ve tagged it as NSFW (yes I went back and tagged most of them as such since you dont wish to see it..). And Tumblr for some reason still shows them. You should be directing this towards Tumblr, not artists who draw yaoi and Mpreg. Also Im not drawing these because of a fetish. Mpreg is not a fetish. Its a thing thats literally IN japan. Same goes for yoai.. A uke cuter and submissive one and a seme is the more dominate one in the relationship. I can name a few shippings that have all of what you’re trying to go against me in it.


Meta Knight X Kirby
Shadow X Sonic
Mario X Luigi (yes people ship that..dunno why…)

Villager X Toon Link
Edgeworth X Phoenix
Zero X Megaman
Descole X Layton
Layton X Luke
Ness X Lucas
Claus X Ninten
Red X Blue (Pokemon)
Gary X Ash
Yurii and his seme (forgot his name but its from Yurii on ice)
Ganon X Link
Dark Link X Link
Chara X Frisk (can be identified as any gender but it still counts)
Vegeta X Goku
Trunks X Goten Broly X Trunks

Need I go on? Because there is a ton more.

“Yaoi” in of itself is NOT pornographic (in some cases there is but mostly there isnt). It’s simply just what gay relationships in manga/anime are called. If you’re going to be bashing people for having ships and calling it what its SUPPOSED to be called in anime, you shouldn’t be allowed to have ships yourself. You need to realise that YAOI, UKES, SEMES, AND MPREG ARE NOT FETISHES! And its NOT illegal! However, you act like Im committing murder. So why does that make such a big issue with you?? And SIN can literally be ANYTHING. Look i get where you’re coming from. But you had no damn right to post any of that stuff! You didn’t even try to come to me nicely! My drawings aren’t the problem. It’s certain people in fandoms. Like you.
And as for anything related to sin, it happens in every fandom. EVERY. FANDOM. Nobody said that gay ships were “sinful”. It refers to NSFW or suggestive content. Yaoi LITERALLY MEANS GAY. AND YURI MEANS LESBIAN. REGARDLESS OF WHETHER IT’S SEXUAL OR NOT! If anybody is in the wrong, it’s you. I’m not physically harming anybody. I’m not insulting anyone. I know you didnt mean to hurt me but you did. Once again. You could’ve just told me privately.. And nicely that i had offended you. But no. You decided to make me look like the bad guy here! You judged me by my art first and not me as a person! Im literally one of the nicest people that you will ever meet…!! I have no hatred towards you, because I’m not like that. I just can’t bring myself to hate anybody. But that doesn’t mean that I will tolerate hurtful comments.
And the last time I had checked, this was my blog. Not yours. I don’t just go around telling people what to post on their blog or anything. And on the subject of MPreg, how does that automatically mean that I hate women and trans? happen to be female.
I love all genders equally, and non-binary people. Saying that I hate women and trans people just because I draw something related to Mpreg makes absolutely no sense. So apparently everyone who is okay with mpreg hates them right? We don’t.
Anyways, everyone. Regardless of what others think of what you like or don’t like, don’t listen to them. Especially if they’re hurtful. So please, don’t complain about something that isn’t that big of a problem. Especially here. And most people here ARE in fact okay with yoai, ukes, semes, and mpreg. Like @livewiregoth @asksecurityofficermitchellandco @bluehatchingrooster @thecurseddoll and many more. As a side note, that Skype screenshot that you were talking about was a crack roleplay. That means it’s used for HUMOUR. There’s something called tag blacklisting, so you won’t have to see anything with certain tags. I have the same right to ship and draw what I please just as you and everyone else do, regardless of what anyone says. If you dont like it then oh well. Maybe you can take something from this and not post hurtful things like that again.


Also. @mickeyofficialtwitteraccount had wanted to say this to you for a while now.

“Listen here ya lil shit; its none of your business what someone else does on their blog. Oh, your worried about offending gay people? I’m only attracted to people who identify as female in any way and I myself am a female, but it doesn’t offend me. Its just a tag. There’s no need to attack someone over this. You should be ashamed of yourself! You didn’t even try asking nicely first!”


Also if I receive anon hate for this. There are many ways for me to deal with a coward hiding behind a mask…

Why I don't think this ship is wrong

I’m not interesed in fighting with antis, or trying to change other people’s opinion forcefully. However It may be usefull if I collect some things I and others have said

TL;DR: This ship *can* be handled so badly that it makes our beloved conman into a pedophile, but I think the grand mayority of the people being bullied on this site don’t even ship it like that. Don’t put everyone on the same bag. People don’t deserve to be bullied for what they like in fiction and there are clear differences between reality and fiction.

I don’t think this ship is pedophilia simply because I dont ship it that way. Pedophilia implies fetichistic sexual atraction to kids under 13, and a horrible abusive element of “I don’t care about you, I just wanna fuck u cuz ur young”. Now, if you see this pairing as reigen sexualy taking advantage of a very young mob or simply not really caring about his well being and preying on him, that would count (and also be horribly ooc and a sad way of doing it).

However if, by example, you ship them romantically as having mutual care for each other and mob in full understanding and control of the situation, even if the relationship gets sexual while mob’s still 14, I wouldn’t call it pedo. Questionable or innapropiate? Yes. But not pedophilia. And then you have many, many, other scenarios that get really away from all that.

An important distinction should be mentioned here: While I’m ok with a romantic relationship between this two characters despite their age gaps, If I saw a similar age gap in real life and the younger party is still a minor, I would probably call the cops. For me that is the difference between fiction and real life for this issue. Minors in real life should be discouraged from dating people much older because they could easily be taken advantage of. However in fiction, you have control over these characters and you can make sure their relationship is healthy, especially if you keep them in character as much as you can.

You can have them being romantically involved but not turning sexual until mob is older. You can have them being platonic for a long time before they develop romantic feelings. You can have mob being assertive. You can have reigen feeling conflicted. You can adress the age gap issue. You can have it not mattering at all and them just slowly getting closer witouth noticing. You can have them being only platonic, in a very strong friendship.

There is many many ways to make this ship beautifull and I don’t think it’s just to put everyone on the same bag as the worst content and condem them all using a really severe accusation of condoning child abuse or being abusers themselves.

It’s just not alright to make call out blogs and tag whoever ships it, regardless of how they ship it, as “pedophiles”. I remember one of these some months ago tagging a user who only had like two barely shippy posts with grown up Mob as “condones pedophilia”. Neither is ok to send mean messages to users with death threats or fill their asks with insults. Or flood the main tag with complains about which, I have to be honest and say that to have so much nsfw noncon underage content popping on your dash as some people complain, at least on this site you literally would need to follow the 2-3 blogs with such content and have them on notifications. I know what Im talking about, I check the main ship tag nearly daily, follow most shippers and have stumbled onto that only like twice on my dash.

Continuing with the list of shit people have been puting on with, it’s even less fair to ramp up the generalizations and make really rude comics portraying all the shippers as disgusting creatures. Or say you get disgusted if a shipper reblogs your content, even if they respected your tagging preferences and/or the content has nothing to do with the ship at all. Or to claim “x has great art but they ship reimob, nevermind, their art is trash”. What’s the necessity of doing all that? I frankly doubt people who do that have the best interests of minors at heart. At best I have seen questionable beliefs about content on a site as tumblr being influencial enough such that a fanart with less than 50 notes of a niche fandom can “normalize pedophilia” in american society (because you know, we are all americans and america is the world). At worst it just seems to be used as excuse for harassment.

Speaking of that, regarding the users who make really wrong content: While I won’t defend that, I feel another distinction should be made. Do I think certain content is gross? Yes. Some of that content nearly made me throw up? Yes. Do I think the autor of that content is gross/deserves to die/etc? No. Do I harass them? No. Some of them have turned out to be csa survivors. I try to abide to the notion that nobody should be bullied for their likings in fictional settings, even if I don’t like it. What I do to deal with that is simply not follow the blogs with such content and so far it works.

As I said, I’m not interesed in discussing with antis, I just wanted to put some things together. Maybe it will help confused bystanders understand the shippers aren’t defending pedophilia. We are just defending a ship we like and love. Let’s try to respect each other.

Three’s a Crowd

Summary: Namjoon’s annoying girlfriend gets on your last nerve, causing friction between you and your best friend

Genre: All the angst 

Part 2 | Part 3

Originally posted by go2bedjungkook

    ‘Wish we could turn back time, to the good ol’ days, when our mama’s sang us to sleep but now we’re stressed out.’ 

 Stressed out blared from my headphones, while i sat staring at my best friend Namjoon, and his girlfriend of six months argue for the umpteenth time that night. Krystal was sitting on his lap, her long athletic legs dangling over his knee,  picking at his shirt. She was annoyingly pretty and wearing only a short halter dress, despite the chill in the air. Even though i had music up incredibly loud i was still able to occasionally hear her shrill voice over the music.

   “What…doing here… such… bitch.” When she spoke the last word she was looking right at me. I could tell Joonie was annoyed with whatever Krystal had said but she continued glaring at me. Rolling my eyes, i popped the left earbud out of my ear.

   “Did you want something?” My tone was cold and apathetic. The bitch had been an outright terror towards me since the day we were introduced, Always whining and complaining about my constant presence in his life. So after six months of pretending to like her for Namjoon’s sake, i was completely mentally drained. I gave zero fucks about her, so why pretend?

   “I was just asking Jooniepoo what you were even doing here? I mean this is a party for people that actually matter.” I rolled my eyes at the ridiculous nickname and glanced around the dimly lit backyard. It had been completely packed a few hours ago with relatives and friends for Namjoon’s Birthday but no one was even out here anymore. If i looked in through the sliding glass door to the house i could see Jackson talking to Jimin in the living room. But besides that, everyone had gone to sleep, or back to their own homes. I let a breathe go out of my nose in annoyance and looked her straight in her dark eyes.

   “I wasn’t aware that his birthday party was a VIP event, my mistake. But you do know that you were only invited because you’re Jooniepoo’s fuck buddy right?” Krystal sucked in a breath and looked up at Namjoon with an expression that could only be described as a wounded puppy. But on her face it looked more like the face those kids on toddlers and tiara’s make before they throw a fit. I expected her to start yelling at me or crying but that didn’t happen. Instead it was Namjoon that looked pissed off.

   “Seriously Y/N? What the hell is wrong with you!” He set Krystal down on the bench next to him and strode over to where i was sitting.

   “Get up.” His voice wasn’t loud, which scared me a little bit. I stood slowly and he grabbed my arm pulling me inside. While being yanked through the hallway toward his bedroom i made eye contact with Jackson for a few seconds, who started to ask what was up but the question was left unanswered when the door was slammed behind me. I scurried over to his dresser and hopped on top of it, beginning to half ass my apology..

   “Joonie, i’m sorry she just-”

   “No excuses y/n, i’m sick of you treating krys like shit. She’s my fucking girlfriend! I don’t get it,” He stopped when he was directly in front of me to glare. “she’s been nothing but sweet to you.” i was taken aback. Sweet?! I don’t think there was ever a time when she was sweet to me.

   “Krystal is anything but sweet Namjoon, You fucking her doesn’t change the fact that she’s an actual demon.” I pushed him hard in the chest for emphasis and he didn’t move an inch.

   “She doesn’t even love you! she’s just using you, but because you’re such a narcissistic idiot you can’t see past her body and the fact that she to worships the ground you walk on because you’re an idol! I never knew you were this shallow.” I maneuvered my body past his and got to my feet, ready to walk out the door but his voice stopped me.

   “Why can’t you just be happy that i’m happy y/n! I’m sorry that i don’t love you the way that you love me but you don’t have to take it out on every girl i date!” Silence fell over the room, my hand felt like it was glued to the door knob. I felt hot from my chest up to the top of my head and before i knew what i was doing my hand flew straight across his face. Namjoon’s eyes were full of guilt and anger, and mine were full of tears.

   “You know what Namjoon, I was wrong. You and Krystal are perfect for each other.”

   “y/n, wait a second.” he reached his hand toward me and i shoved him back, refusing to look at his face. In my peripherals i saw his shoulders slump down but quickly correct themselves.

   “Fine, if you’re going to be like that then i think you should go. I don’t have time to babysit you anymore.”  With that i opened the door and ran straight into the she demon herself. I caught her smirk before it turned into a look of pity.

    “Three’s a crowd anyways y/n.”

    “Fuck you.” my shoulder rammed itself against her before i shuffled down the hallway and out the front door, ignoring Jackson’s concerned questions. when i finally got into my car i broke down.

           The car roared to life about 10 minutes later when i finally calmed down enough to drive home, and Stressed Out was playing once again. Funny, i felt like the words held new meaning now.

        ‘Wish we could turn back time, to the good ol’ days, when our mama’s sang us to sleep but now we’re stressed out.’  

    i wasn’t sure if i’d regret falling for my best friend. But i sure as hell knew id regret losing him.


this is a short series, so there will be two more parts and an epilogue if y’all like it! the next part will have smut so be pepared! ;) 

-D ( i feel like i should go by midge though since everyone else has a cute nickname ahh) 

Third final list and a story!

1. Block us antis and then wail about our posts because they still stalk our blogs.

Not only that but they reblog their friends with angry profanity (while claiming to not be mad. Lulz) rather than you directly so you won’t call them out in their abundance of butthurt.

“Orgs” “bitch” and “little shit” are quite common of the self proclaimed BFNs in the fandumb section if this ship.

2. Are ignorant of their own history.

Just from experience as a former Rugo ( I still kick my own ass for having been one) over 7 years ago, Ichiruki would refer to themselves as:

Rugos
RukiIchi
RukiGos

Believe me, its actually a compliment to be called one but if they whine about it being insulting they look like an ignorant rookies, thus losing the ‘Rugo’ title and going to straight up 'Batshit Fail Rugo’

( as if they are fail at trying to look like they know everything about their ship when they are wannabe BFNs that can’t measure up to the veterans in their fandom)

Unfortunately the true Rugos are no longer present in Bleach shipping leaving behind these infantile failures attempting to copy them.

See I’m quite nice for an anti. :)

3. They still don’t understand why people dislike them personally…

Most antis could actually care less about your ship and its canon or lack thereof. Most of us simply don’t like your shitty online behaviour that you call shipping.

If you say your piece, fine; but going to anti tags, blogs, other shipping tags, calling people that dont ship it stupid or delusional, and bitching 24/7 about a different ship or character in your own shippy places is what we look down upon.

I PROMISED STORY TIME!

Not everyone knows why I dislike the fandumb section of IR.

Well… This is a Star Wars moment, but I was an IR. I had a different penname, memberships at shippy sites and had even written fanfics in an old account.

I used to really adore my ship. I mean, everyone was nice and we didn’t talk out of turn in places that weren’t for our ship. We contributed greatly and read the manga and all had our own interprations of what was happening in the storyline.

Hell, we were pretty calm and could actually be coherent and reasonable when talking of all Bleach characters.

Back in those good old days, ichihime was seen as a crackship, so there was no hate towards Orihime or the pairing at all.

And if there was, we brushed it off because it was very rare for someone of our ship to bring any other ships into discussion.

Such was the confidence of IR back then.

All of that changed when FLOL scene happened. I’ll admit I was shocked, but I quickly brushed it off because we never cared enough for the pairing to even talk about it.

At least that was what I’d mistakenly assumed.

The next day, after all of Bleach fandom had read that chapter from their computers, the IR FC became like an anti IH or anti-Orihime FC.

Jesus effing Christ, I wanted to talk about my ship, not see people wanking about something I didn’t ship in our freaking FC of all damn places!

The so-called crackship we had ignored suddenly became something 'serious’ and debatable for the first IRs .

Over the following months all they could talk about was IH and Orihime. I was even scared of having a conversation with them because I knew that 90% of the time they would start up again.

How could you ship while talking constantly of another pairing?

All translations and interpretations of the manga became downright ridiculous. As if IR was desperately seeking more proof of a ship they had before once claimed to be canon without arguments or essays.

They seemed far too defensive and after the defensiveness came the self-righteous anger.

I could still recall seeing them having little lols while publically planning on going to the tiny IH FC to rub their canon all over their faces.

I did call them out in the bullshit, because I just wanted to ship, and what did they do…?

They humiliated me. I was amongst one of the first IRs to call them out on it and I wasn’t the last either. Plenty of other IRs were accused of being Origo or “fake” for not wanting to waste our time on that other ship.

And let me tell you something, back then ichiruki dominated Bleach fandom more than now. Easily 85% of the manga/anime fan base was IR, while the rest were either neutral, crack or yaoi and yuri.

What happened after this started…? The IR fandom split. That’s why there’s so much diversification now and looks like Bleach fandom is gigantic.

A lot of IRs left. Some simply disassociated themselves from their wanky friends and started their own FCs with strict “only talk of Ichiruki” rules that if they were broken could result in an unapologetic ban. Others started liking other ships.

I was a bit of everything. I tried to hold on, but my ship was tinged with so much negativity that it caused me nausea. I knew the hateful artists that drew my fave fanarts. I knew the trolling fanfic writers of my fave fics. I knew the meaness of the supposedly nice IRs that gushed over my stories.

So I gave up. Yep! I deleted my fanfic account with all sixteen stories. I asked the Admins at general sites to get me off their member lists, I changed my email only letting two IRs know of me. (One left and became a Wincest fangirl while the other still loves IR but doesn’t associate with any of them and simply enjoys her ship).

After cleaning the slate I remained idle. I went to my old fandom’s and talked to old friends… Then when I came back to Bleach fandom I saw new batshitting faces attempting to recreate yet another devide.

I mean it when I say more and more IRs are fed up with the bullshit. You ignore them when they say it or attack them… But all you’re doing is creating another anti that knows you better than anyone else.

As a former IR I know what makes you have a complex. You may lol to hide it, but your ilk does indeed display insecurity in your wank. That’s why there’s so many 'biased’ sites that appear to be bashing you personally.

And as a former IR, I know exactly how to make you snap. In fact I’ve made quite a number of you write lenghtly insults towards me, proving the anti theory number one …

IRs are sensitive and so wanky because they deeply know they aren’t canon. XD

Stew on that before wanking next time. All other fandom’s know of your epic sensitivity, so don’t complain at having your attitude put on display and even reflected back at you in a confrontation, kay?

anonymous asked:

I came too star wars late in my life (just watched the original 6 before seeing tfa) and stuff live "neu star wars" really makes me scared to talk about how much i love luke and freaking adore padme and idk... i just idk

Hi my dude!!!!!!!

okay

please please please understand something

when i, at twelve thirty am, say “sometimes im really bothered by the neu star wars”, it’s not directed at you

see, i love star wars. i grew up with star wars. star wars is very important to me. but guess what??? that matters not at all

im not entitled to star wars, which means that i am not allowed to tell you how you should love your star wars, even if i disagree with it, as long as you’re not actively hurting anyone. please, lord, love and adore star wars as much as you like

however

i will say that i’m allowed, on my personal blog, to lament at the fact that i no longer feel safe in the post-tfa star wars fandom environment. it’s hostile and angry and everyone’s salty towards each other, and im incapable of expressing my opinion without getting torn down. everyones operating in extremes, in a very “u r either with me or against me” kind of way

on top of that (and im gonna get Anons for this i know it) it really really really bothers me that i can no longer go into the sw ao3 tag without feeling profoundly uncomfortable or unsafe, because there’s no longer just one thing to blacklist. r*ylo (a toxic and disgusting concept) is taking up 99% of the space, but there’s also LITERAL INCEST, between ESTABLISH PARENT CHARACTERS AND THEIR CHILDREN. it doesnt matter that the kids arent by blood (even though angels and ministers of grace, sometimes they are)

i cant access happy, safe sw content anymore. there is 0.00001% finnrey content on my dash and on ao3 (an issue which makes me angry for a whole other array of reasons), and maybe 0.001% finnpoe. maybe a little bit of platonic goodness, but not nearly!!! what there should be!!!! and i tell myself, but phil, make ur own content, dont just complain, but!!! creative content happens through collaboration!! and inspiration!!!!! 

and when i feel uncomfortable and am turned off by half the sw content being flung in my face by bitter peeps, i dont have anything to give in return!!!

so. i am allowed to be tired by that Discourse.

i am not allowed to make u feel like you’re not allowed to be excited about star wars, and for doing that in any way, i apologize profoundly

anyhoops. the point here is that i love star wars with my whole being and i am so happy that more ppl are getting into star wars and i am SO GLAD that new star wars canon gives us such a diverse array of characters!!!! so glad!! and they’re all so good and happy and unashamedly sweet!!!!

and yet despite that the environment of the fandom is the opposite as it was only this last summer, where i felt it was a safe space where people bonded over their love for space dorks

u know? for me, personally, anyway, tho i know that some others also feel this way

im sorry if i made u feel upset or unaccepted or like u arent supposed to belong, anon. u deserve to feel safe and happy