Something I don’t get

I’ve been a member of Tumblr since the beginning. I’ve deleted accounts, changed names, and wandered off now and again - but pretty much I’ve always been here. There’s something I don’t get about Tumblr though…

Why do people send negative comments, asks, or fanmail?

If I don’t agree with something, I move on. If I see a photo I like, I click the heart icon, or comment “great photo”, or if it’s somebody I know a little bit I might write them a fanmail saying they look amazing.

I don’t understand why anybody would question how somebody looks after they have shared their picture, and while I will never react in public, it makes me pretty pissed off with people in general sometimes.

Sometimes you can see somebody is having a hard time, and maybe seeking a little attention - and almost no effort at all is required to tell them they look nice, or to ask how they’re doing, or to just be there.

What am I saying?

Maybe that it seems to me that being nice is much easier than being nasty, so I don’t understand the people who are nasty.

anonymous asked:

How would Suga, Hoseok, and V help out their girlfriend with social anxiety? like in crowded places and that kinda thing

Suga - Suga wouldn’t be one to say much, rather I feel like he would give more physical cues, signals, and things to kind of reassure her and help her out? Simple things like holding her hand, making sure that she was closer to him / people she was comfortable around, respecting her wishes if she wanted to take a break or leave, etc.

Hoseok / J - Hope - J - Hope would verbally and physically help- he would be asking her if she was okay (in a shushed and private voice, of course) and would do things to kind of not draw attention to the two of them. If the crowd could easily be avoided he would kind of get her out of it calmly and quietly- he would be the one to make the excuse as to why the two had to leave if she needed to.

V - Taehyung would be like Suga, more physically reassuring and helpful than verbally. He would be the one to guide her out of certain situations without raising suspicions, calling attention, etc. Sweet hand squeezes and small little skinship-y moves would be more of his style when it comes to making his girlfriend comfortable in an environment she isn’t fond of.

- Darby

Originally posted by rninjoon

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