all these 20 - 30yos on here have only reached the point where they feel correct in characterising themselves as “bitter old queers” / “queer elders” bc they’re adults operating in online spaces that are occupied mostly by people much much younger than them. and that’s weird !! why do none of their peers look around and see that it’s w e i r d that a handful of people in their late 20s/early 30s, or even 40s in some cases, have such influence over a huge following of teenagers, many of them minors ??!!
you’re not “queer elders”. my octogenarian great uncle and his boyfriend are “queer elders” (but i’d never fucking call them that unless i fancied giving them a punch to the gut). you lot are weirdo 30 year olds who get a power trip from wielding this bizarre online social capital uve accumulated amongst internet kids. get the fuck away and make some friends your own age