swearing for ramadan

i know i should probably give a shit about selena hassling a girl on instagram (power imbalances, 2 wrongs don’t make a right, shaming ppl for their looks = not good fun etc) but listening to that girl give her explanation about her TAGGING of selena in something which says that she’s not good enough to be justin bieber’s (JUSTIN BIEBER’S. I KNOW THIS ISN’T THE POINT BUT JUSTIN BIEBER’S) girlfriend and how selena’s so mean, and must’ve taken it the wrong way because her criticism was totally innocent!!!!!!! literally only reinforced that

  1. the world is lost
  2. we should stop holding celebrities to higher standards because they’re people and people are, on a fairly regular basis, assholes
  3. i am also an asshole because SHE WAS RUDE FIRST. THERE IS A SIGNIFICANT PART OF ME WHICH IS ALMOST (ALMOST) WANTING MORE CELEBRITIES TO DO THIS, JUST SO THESE KIDS REALISE THAT THE INTERNET IS NOT A VOID, AND THAT BULLYING IS BULLYING, EVEN IF YOU ONLY HAVE 3 FOLLOWERS ON INSTAGRAM AND YOUR TARGET IS A FAMOUS MILLIONAIRE. 

i’ve got a growing list of cis people close to me who are about to get either a serious shouting from me or cut outta my life completely.

got no time, energy, or patience for you to deal with your shit about being the cis friend of trans women. none at all.

you get over the guilt or insecurity or whatever the fuck it is with your vastly greater supply of available resources, not my or my sisters’ tiny little bit of space we keep for ourselves.