surviving the distance

10 things to appreciate in your LDR:

  1. You don’t always need to shave
  2. The texts you get from them make you smile at your phone like an idiot
  3. You still get butterflies just hearing their voice
  4. You get to have the cutest Skype dates
  5. SKYPE KISSES
  6. You get to be a total romantic when writing letters and mailing them stuff
  7. You always get excited planning visits and talking about closing the distance someday
  8. Every visit is technically an adventure
  9. You really appreciate the little things that close distance couples overlook
  10. You know that if you survive the distance, you both can pretty much survive through anything
i decided to rant.

Logan can represent Chris as a  type of guy but he isn’t Chris, he will never be. Rory and Logan’s relationship isn’t and will never be the same as Chris and Lorelai’s relationship. Rory and Logan have a different story than chris/lorelai.

They met each other at Yale, they fell deeply in love, they lived together, they told each other everything, they spent three years together and in love, they shared trips and breakdowns, failures and victorys. they survived long distance and after a proposal that went wrong they still loved each other. 9 years later those feelings are still there. telling each other everything, calling one another when they are upset, encouraging one another to follow their path and what they need. There story was done dirty. Where was the Logan Huntzberger that would give up everything to be with Rory?The Logan Huntzberger that would even go to the extent of asking her mother for help just for her to forgive him? the one that wouldn’t have gotten on the plane if she asked him too? the one that broke free from that caged life he was supposed to live in? i stil feel like the one that had to make the move in the revival was rory tho. After he proposed to her, he wasn’t about to take such a jump without Rory giving him some indication she wanted him to take it. It was Rory’s turn to say “you trust me?” and Logan to be the one saying “you jump i jump jack”. it was rory’s time to tell him “don’t get on that plane, blow off your father, the whole huntzberger destiny” and i KNOW that he would, just as he wouldn’t have gotten in that plane if she told him not too 10 years ago. Both of them ended devastated bc of fear of communication, they didn’t express the words they needed to say to each other and you could see how miserable they were. Logan is not a 16 year old Chris, he is a 34 year old Logan, just as Rory isn’t a 16 year old Lorelai, she is a 32 year old Rory. R/L have both lived more and have both been through so much more than C/L had been through. They have more history, more passion, more confidence and more love than C/L will ever or had ever had.

i am not an anti Jess person, i am not the biggest supporter of the R/J relationship but Jess as a character is someone i like and the revival was able to show me that again. I dont see him as Rory’s Luke, he is Jess, he is his own person. He didn’t needed Rory to grow up and face his problems, he did it on his own. Jess will never be her Luke, he will be his Jess. He has his own life, he is happy with his publisher and not living in SH which is something he never wanted to. They hadn’t seen each other for 4 years and i they still not see much of one another during the year, so him still having feelings for her (that’s what i took) just seemed so wrong and sad. Jess became a great guy who deserved so much better than to still be pinning for the same girl 15 years later who he doesn’t see much and that she clearly doesn’t have the same feelngs. Jess deserves better than Rory. They played a 6.18 again on him in some way. and i guess the “it is what it is, you and me” is true.

Luke for Lorelai is the guy that has been by her side for years and years, who tries to get every aspect of her (not all cause you can’t fully know a person), who has try to give her everything, who has messed up cause yes, he is human. Luke gives Lorelai her space and tries to respect her but at the same time tries to be involve in the type of life that comes with her. For me Logan has a lot of Luke in him, and i guess we will never know but for people who don’t feel the same then her Luke will be someone new, someone we don’t know cause, Luke wasn’t in Lorelai’s past he was in her future.

This whole full-circle thing left me hanging when it comes to Rory cause we know that Rory isnt the same person as Lorelai is and that she will do things differently. After thinking about it and reading people’s thoughts i undestood that it is endeed a full cirlce for her, it’s once again Rory being the bridge between Lorelai and Emily’s world. It was her getting pregnant by a guy that could easily be Richard. Cause thinking about it Logan is not only Christopher, he is Luke and Richard. He is Chris cause he is the rich guy who’s charm won Rory over, he was Luke cause he was the guy that supported her through out everything, who let her be her own person, cause he was the one that won her heart as Alexis said, because as they say many episodes ago he was “the one”, and he was the guy that tried to fit in both of the worlds she lives in. And he was Richard, the guy she met at Yale, that was well read and that had a passion for enjoying life ( episode 3.08) and that was engaged to someone else but at the end he chose Emily, the diference here is that Rory never gave Logan the chance to chose, she got the courage to ask him too. As i said before i think it’s pointless to compare the characters but i found it interesting how Logan has all this little pieces of this men

I like to think that Rory tells Logan about the baby and that he finds the way to really get out of that prison in which he was destined to live. Rory is the rescue Dan and Amy talked about for Logan. I want to believe that their characters growth is still there and that they will be able to talk about the things they need to talk about, And what i most want is for that baby to feel loved by both his parents and that they find happiness in whatever form they do. Cause they both deserve the happiness this revival didnt give them

and the days blur into one

requested by anonymous

10k au in which the reader is reckless and takes things too far


While the zombies only showed up a few years ago, your world ended a long time before, and you rebuilt it overtime. When things officially went to shit it was almost a relief. The rest of the world had caught up to the chaos that was your everyday life. You were no longer alone; everyone else was just as lost as you.

You’ve survived. You’ve kept yourself safe, kept yourself alive, kept yourself alone.

Then 10k came in and screwed it all up.

You’ve never cared about others; you haven’t been able to. Your entire life has been a game of survival, a game of distance. But now, there’s that boy with his clear eyes and his weapons and his shy smile.

Most of the time, you’re able to forget that you care about him. That’s the only way you can survive.

It’s just that your method of survival is a bit more dangerous than everyone else’s.

“You’re not actually going in there, are you?” Addy asks, brows pulling together. You look through the dusty windows of the grocery store, mentally counting the Z’s that amble inside, looking past them to the fully stocked shelves of food.

“I’ll be fine. I can get in and get out.” You say.

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distance. distance is sitting here typing out “i miss you” rather than being able to say it to you. distance is sleeping in your t-shirts to feel like you're close to me again. distance is shitty connections, and dropped calls, its fights where someone hangs up the phone and you can’t reach out and stop them from walking away. its sleeping with the phone on the pillow next to me, rather than with your head on my chest. distance is running to you in an airport and hugging like we’re the only two there, but standing in that same airport days later tear stricken face trying to walk away from your world, its leaving the person who feels like home, for the physicality of the “home” that is the roof over your head. distance is spending more days apart than you do together. distance is anything but easy. distance will test every aspect of your relationship. but if you can beat this, if you can survive the distance, you can survive anything with her by your side. this is the hardest test your relationship will face. distance is anything but easy, but with the right person it’s more than worth it.
—  you’re worth it.

Does long distance relatioship last?
Was it fine? Loving someone whom you can’t be with every time you miss him?

He’s the moon while you’re the sun. He’s the sky while you’re the earth. He’s the fire while you’re the water. To sum it all up, there’s a lot of effort for the both of you to meet and there’s a lot of differences between you and him. But those hindrances does not matter, you took the risk of being with him out of the distance in between because you love him, because you wanf him in to you life. A moth passed and everything went well, both of you survived the life. A year passed by and everything went well, both of you survived the distance, the differences, survived the relationship.

Not until this day came. He changed, he became someone you don’t know. He’s not the man who used to love you and the man you used to love. But you choose to bare with it, you tried to understand the rude and mean inside him. You tried to set aside the pain because you thought he’s gonna change and love you the same way as he loved you from day one. But you came into realization that everything wasn’t easy as you thought it would be, he can just let go of your hand for a second but you’re holding on so tight.

People, I just waant to tell you my realization about long distance relationships. It really was easy, not until the day that only one is holding on so tight. It was easy to keep when everything was perfect but not when everything is falling apart, not when everything became…. one sided.

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  • If you survive the distance, your relationship can survive anything.
  • Knowing how important communication is in a relationship. You value any and all messages from your partner.
  • You have the chance to become more independent and be in a relationship.
  • You get better at planning and know how important good planning is
  • The relationship is more than just physical. 
  • You get enough “me” time.
  • If everything goes well, distance helps trust grow exponentially.
  • You can travel. Adventures are great, especially when the person you love is your destination.
  • Gifts and surprises are worth more.
  • You can unleash your inner romantic. Writting handwritten letters and postcards are the best.
  • You learn to appreciate the little things you get from your parnter.
  • If you are successfully maintaining a long distance relationship you can be sure he/she means a lot to you and vice versa.
  • You can rest assured that your relationship is pretty golden.

wow bear with me but I’m crying watching train to busan, I thought this was gunna be some casual zombie movie with all the people surviving n looking into the distance @ the finale but boy…………was I fucking wrong. I’m a year late, if you haven’t seen it don’t read this but when gongyoo turns……that was so fucking sad I was not stable whatsoever. that was way Too Much like that one scene was honestly fucked but also such a work of art. when he has flashbacks of his daughter n hes smiling n then jumps off the train ugh BITCH !!!!!!! I HATE YOU !!!!!!!! its finally over…………that was so fucking depressing like first ma dong seok, then woosik, then gongyoo…talk about overkill, literally.