Okay but people with bpd and similar disorders with dependency issues/separation insecurity aren’t going to “threaten suicide to manipulate you into staying” however they legitimately may get suicidal, or start self harming or relapse or literally anything, as a result of the emotional damage we often inflict on ourself as a result of what we precieve as abandonment, it has very little to do with you so stop making us out to be abusive monsters, especially if you don’t suffer anything close to the internal hell we have to live through daily, you will never understand and it’s insulting to try to speak for us.