Secrecy is key. I didn’t believe M and K when they said that even your friends will judge you for this lifestyle. I regretfully inform you that they were right. Today I was hanging out with some of my closest friends, and I made the extremely dumb decision to tell them about this lifestyle choice. Two of them kept their opinions to themselves, one wasn’t paying any attention, and the last two were very vocal about the negative views they have about this lifestyle, and now me. All I can think of is the last thing one of them said which was “I thought you had more self-respect than that.” Now I’m just unsure what to expect. -D