I just saw a sugar baby bash on another sugar baby and it pissed me the fuck off! We are suppose to be supporting each other that is what the sugar bowl is all about! When I read about babies having successful daddies of course it makes me a little jealous, but I am also truly happy for them. It makes me hopeful that I will find a good daddy again. Maybe some of you haven’t been sugar babies for that long, but I have and one thing that you don’t realize is how lonely it gets. Yes you will have a iPad, Louis Vuitton bags, and more money than any of your friends but you do pay a price for it. I personally could never tell any of my friends or family. I’m constantly lying about how I own all the shit that I have. You don’t want to know how many times I’ve cried myself to bed. These girls are on this website just like you. These girls understand you more than most of your real friends. We all need to empower each other not tear each other down.
See what comes up because I have had SD’s tell me they have google searched me. It doesn’t even have to relate to being a sugar baby, but this is what employers do before they hire someone. You don’t want people to get the wrong impression of you through the internet or your past.
From my personal experience being a sugar baby is so much easier than real dating. I’ve been hurt so many times that I honestly don’t care about relationships anymore, it’s all about the money. If I focus on money rather than people I assume it will bring me more happiness. In my mind all guys are assholes and they just use girls. So why not use them instead? And the few that I think are good I stay the hell away from them because I don’t want to ruin them. I don’t want anyone to feel the way I feel. I wouldn’t wish it on my worst enemy. It’s like your numb to the pain and the worst part about it is you don’t even know why you feel this way. I was blessed with a great life. My parents were strict, but they were also very supportive as well as my siblings. I lived in a mansion and went to private school my whole life. If they knew I was doing this they would… Well I don’t even want to think about it. At the end of the day I’m doing this for myself and for right now it’s keeping me happy.