Where in the world was Carmen San Diego?

Wow I’m cheesy lol

I’ve been getting a lot of asks and messages asking where I have gone and that I’m missed. That alone makes me feel so loved despite no longer having interest in being part of the sugar baby community. Actually even the term “sugar baby” makes me cringe at this point. Idk, I find something really demeaning in the term sugar baby, I prefer sex worker or gold digger honestly lol

But I digress. I decided that I wanted to start 2016 with a fresh slate and new state of mind. That meant not being an active member of tumblr. Since December I’ve realized how much energy and time I have to do things. It’s crazy to think how much my life revolved around tumblr. Not only that but there was just so much negativity on my page that it started to effect my own life.

After this break I’ve decided to unfollow a lot of blogs (some mutuals) who just cause unnecessary drama on tumblr. I want this space to be an outlet from my outside life where I can connect with like minded women. Sadly I’ve realized that I’ve been following people out of convenience because once upon a time ago they posted something interesting. Now my newsfeed consisted of the same fucking picture or text post reblogged 7x…so fucking annoying.

Idk why I writing this lol I don’t owe anyone an explanation, I guess this is more for me. A reminder as to why I’m coming back lol I do want to share my story and I’m still interesting in many lives of sex workers here. I just really don’t want to be apart of the drama anymore lol