sucky-parenting

My dad keeps telling me that no pill will make me ‘feel all better’ even though my second day of therapy is tomorrow and I have never once asked for medication and in fact turned it down when my therapist offered to send me to a psychiatrist that could prescribe me it. So. Then he called me selfish and naïve and a liar and stated that I better get used to nasty old men staring at me and their abhorrent comments. Then he said he didn’t say that and got personally offended when I told him that yes, he did.

literally one of the worst things ever is when a parent is ruthlessly yelling at their child while the child’s friend is in the car with them. like, it’s bad enough without anyone around, but parent, you are not only humiliating your child but making another uninvolved person extremely uncomfortable. when you’re the friend, you feel helpless and immensely bad for the one getting scolded, and when you’re the kid, you feel like scratching your face to shreds and melting into the car vents. when you’re the parent you’re just an asshole.

I don’t have a bad relationship with my parents but we all suck at communicating our feelings and needs and I really just want to talk to them about all that I want to do and update them on my life but it’s so HARDDDD. 

anonymous asked:

Why does it seem yall only post things that bash out parents?

cause aint nobody care about how good your parents are. i mean its great and all but if you have sucky parents and you come on tumblr to see someone posting about how great your parents are thats depressing. people like to feel like theyre not alone. let someone read this and say that i said that its bad to post good things about your parents. thats NOT what im saying at all. share the good things about your parents. people come here to vent. so if they vent whats bad and  i can relate then ill reblog it. even if i cant relate i know i have follwers who can relate and its helpful to know youre not alone. its helpful to also know that the way youre being treated is bad and you can get away from situations like that. please if you dont like what i post theres always the unfollow button. plus african parents are funny as hell and can be difficult someone saying bad things about their parents isnt bad at all maybe they have a sucky life. its your job to go into their ask and tel them itll be alright and give them advice instead of stepping into my ask. stay blessed idk where im going with this

anonymous asked:

Send me a ship and I'll tell u who: Mike & Sarah

  • Gives nose/forehead kisses: Sarah
  • Gets jealous the most: Mikey…
  • Picks the other up from the bar when they’re too drunk to drive: Sarah picks up Mike.
  • Takes care of on sick days: Sarah takes care of Mike.
  • Drags the other person out into the water on beach day: I think they drag each other.
  • Gives unprompted massages: Mike.
  • Drives/rides shotgun: Sarah
  • Brings the other lunch at work: Sarah
  • Has the better parental relationship: …hey both have sucky relationships with their parents.
  • Tries to start role-playing in bed: MIKE!!!
  • Embarrassingly drunk dancer: Mike
  • Still cries watching Titanic: Sarah
  • Firmly believes in couples costumes: Sarah
  • Breaks the expensive gift rule during Christmas: Mike
  • Makes the other eat breakfast: They take turns.
  • Remembers anniversaries: Sarah
  • Brings up having kids: Mike
For an only child I have a lot of siblings

So one of my friends told me he loved me today (which was kinda awkward cause we’re both guys and he has a gf) but then he clarified that he meant as a brother and I was so touched because I always wanted a brother, and that he’d completely accepted my ftm identity.

Anyway, it got me thinking about how many siblings I really have.

Will- the guy from the description. Really sweet, we have our differences but he always means well. The kind of guy you can go months without seeing or talking to and then pick right back up where you left off.

Kelly- Will’s girlfriend, but I actually met her first. Really adorable and always peppy but she does have a serious side and is super smart.

Alex- we joke about not having feelings and sucky parents together. Also probably the only person who knows more intellectual crap than me presidentgotez

Leigh- totally random and amazingly talented. Also practically a mind reader. Introduced me to almost everyone on this list.

Stephanie- I never know what to say about her. She’s all flower crowns one minute, then she’s wearing all black and beating everyone at shooting games im-hiding-behind-blue-eyes

Chloe- we don’t have much in common except for scrubs and Pentatonix but she’s adorable and always supporting the people she loves

Mike- we’ve always been rivals as drummers because he’s always #1 and I’m right behind- but I’m more likeable (read: less stuck up) so I get the edge with teachers. Going on seven years together in band and we realized we’re basically in sync. Also the only person on this list who doesn’t know about my gender identity.

fandomraceblog asked:

You are not the only one who wanted to commit suicide online, the reasons being, sucky parents, no friends at school, getting raped, bullied, and bad friend choices. I had three friends online wanting to commit suicide, but they realized they had friends online who cared, and the people who are begging, and pleading wanting you to stay alive care for you, you should be really appreciated, and those anons can shut the fuck up cause they have no reason to bully you and I am really sorry yougotrape

…life is rough…yeah…

So I’m watching 5SOS on gma and they sing “She’s Kinda Hot”. I don’t really like ‘em but this song and how they look. I just was watching and made comments such as “= - = hmm…they look like a cheap version of Green Day.” or “There is just a sea of girls here. Come on, I would make a much more snappy comment but. Ugh, come on.” and even, “STOP WITH YOUR SHRILL SCREAMING THAT ISNT WARPED TOUR. WHY IS THERE AN 8 YEAR-OLD THERE?! THE GIRL WILL GET TRAMPLED AND I DOUBT SHE UNDERSTANDS WHAT THESE SONGS REALLY MEAN.” O ^ O. In actuality yes, these are nice guys but they are literally not my cup of tea…ugh i hate ranting on bands i may get hate for not liking.

anonymous asked:

"I would hate it if you were gay. With girls, it's not so bad, but with guys. eurgh!" - Mum today :/

Well that’s sucky :( although sometimes parents make offhanded comments like that without realising why they’re problematic because they don’t know your gay and are actually really supportive when they do find out. My parents were but then again I can’t speak for everyone just personal experience, sorry that you had to listen to that tho, I know it sucks x

anonymous asked:

1, 2, 3

1. relationship with my parents?
sucky with both tbh

2. last time i cried and why?
i had a bad headache last night

3. least and most favorite quality?
i dont like how i have a lack of effort. i cant think of any good ones