successfull people

Lilith polarities

Lilith in Aries:

Active: You are an aggressive person with an extreme energy flow and the desire to do. You can be blunt, rude and impatient. You enjoy obsitcles in the forms of other peoples opposition. Bending the will of others and forcing others to do what you want brings you enjoyment.

Passive: You are an easy target to manipulate. It is easy to lie to you and to force you to succumb to others opinions, You become lazy and lose initiative, it is easier for you to push your responsibilites onto others. 

Lilith in Taurus:

Waste: You are unable to use your money responsibly. You buy a lot of things you dont need and throw your money around. Because you are unable to retain you energy, you will often be drained of it by others.

Greed: You become a greedy person with a hunger almost nothing can sate. You always desire more and want to be bathed in luxury and material comforts. The desire to own the entire world will make a you a jealous and envious person.

Lilith in Gemini:

Talkative: You waste all your energy on connecting with others. You obtain a lot of meaningless human connections, become superficial and shallow. You are not careful with your words and often say the first thing that comes to your mind.

Reserved: You are obsessed with gaining new information.You spend your days constantly reading something, watching television and surfing the internet for the hunt for new information, which is meaningless most of the time. When trying to express your thoughts you find you are unable to put them into words.

Lilith in Cancer:

Power lust: You are entirely focused on your family and use it as a means of exercising your ambitions of becoming the leader. You want to be the head of the family, a person who controls others and gains pleasure from being the tyrant. Conservative, traditional, you fight for your opinions to the death, never admitting that you are wrong.

Evades power: You never want to be in charge of anything and try your hardest to stay behind the scenes. You become lazy and easily manipulated. The thought of family is unacceptable to you, you dislike children and either dont want to have them or are unable to.

Lilith in Leo:

Vanity: You think of yourself as the center of the universe, the most important person. You have a lust for power and manipulation. You indulge in your vanity and seek flattery from others. You impose your ideas and ideology on others and punish those who dont agree.

Insecurtiy: You become an extremely insecure person with a very low self esteem who only wants to disappear in the crowd. You lack individuality and are influenced and manipulated by those around you. You take on the mask of other more successfull people and spend your life playing roles.

Lilith in Virgo:

Control: You are obsessed with being pracitcal and keeping things under control. You analyze and overanalyze every single situation in your life, often blowing things out of proportion. Often you become unbearingly critical, criticising every single little thing.

Chaos: You almost completely lose the ability to analyze, do not notice any little details. You live in a dirty and chaotic environment and cannot bring yourself to straightening things out. You become unresponsible and undisciplined, neglecting your own hygiene and health.

Lilith in Libra:

Coveted: You see imperfection in everything. Your expectations of others are unrealistically high and often unfair. When choosing a mate you only rely on their physcial attractiveness and social status. You think of yourself as a member of an elite socity. judging others through a prism of prestige and success. You easily win the favour of others to then use them for your own benefit.

Dependent: You are unable to make a decision.When you are in a relationship you fully depend on your partner and cannot exist on your own. You easily agree with everything anyone tells you and try to push your responsibilities on others. You seek to improve your material life through your partner and exist on their funds.

Lilith in Scorpio:

Tyrant: You have a desire to bend the world to your will. You like risk and interesting experiences. You lie and decieve others. You are a person of a hypersexual nature, perverse, this sometimes also leeds you into becoming abusive.

Victim: You are weak-willed and easily tricked. Often you become the victim of lies, manipulation, psychological and sexual abuse.Feelings of jealousy become obsessive and you become mailicious. There is a loss of interest in sex.

Lilith in Sagittarius:

Megalomania: You have a desire to constantly patronize others and teach them the “right way” to do things. You are constanly giving out advice and opinions, especially when not asked for. More often than not your self esteem is incredibly high, you think of yourself as a god or a prophet. 

Suggestibility: All of your views are dictated by the society you live in. You fully trust all ideologies and ideas that others present to you, you become part of the flock. You have low self esteem, dont develop your own opinions and only follow a teacher that you idolize. 

Lilith in Capricorn:

Responsibility: You pride yourself on being responsible and in charge.Being in control of others, bending their will to yours and imposing your beliefs and opinions becomes your life goal. If you are unable to exercise you ambitions in society, you become a tyrant at home, gaining pleasure from controlling your family.

Unresponsible: You are unable to reach your goals, any slightest obsticle throws you off.You easily say no to any kind of power and career growth. You only want to follow orders from others, and are panically afraid of being given even the slightes responsibility.

Lilith in Aquarius:

Eccentric: You strongly oppose any kind of limiations and supressions.You experience strong mood swings and have a violent and unstable personality.You often do strange things just to gain the attention of others and show them how much you despise the norm. You try your best to avoid having any responsibilites in life.

Conservative: You block any ability to expand your consciousness. Instead, you devote your time to setting boundaries and certain standarts that limit you from going further. You develop emotional blocks. 

Lilith in Pisces:

Meddling: You are always seeking to help those in need, but your help mostly resembles meddling in other peoples affairs. You have poor judgement and often end up feeling bad for the wrong people and offering help to those that dont deserve it, while ignoring the ones that actually need it. 

Manipulated: You lose your sense of self and are easily tricked and subconsciously manipulated by others. You are unable to look deep withing yourself and find your true meaning. If you are asked to offer empathy , you enter a psychological crisis. You are emotionally unstable and prone to different kind of addictions, specifically substance abuse.

anonymous asked:

can you list your favourite things abt the foxhole court??

I’m probs leaving some things out because my memory is terrible but yes!

  • “People want to pretend people like us don’t exist, you know? Everyone hopes we’re someone else’s problem to solve. They don’t understand, so they don’t now where to start. They feel overwhelmed and give up befor they’ve taken the first step”  This is the quote that hooked me to the book and made me fall in love with it. 
  • the trope of ‘a band of misfits finds family together’
  • it’s one of the few books i’ve read that awknowledges that you can be happy and go forward in life while still being broken. you can be broken and in a healthy relationship. you can be broken and be successfull. some people have gone through unfixable things and this books says “hey, it’s chill. you’re never going to be whole but that doesn’t define you. it doesn’t stop you”.
  • MIXED SPORTS, awknowledging that girls can kick ass in a field surrounded by 6′+ beeffy boys.
  • the characters are really well fleshed individually and cohesionate well together
  • the main romantic plot feels natural. it’s so slow and well developed that when they finally do something romantic it feels natural to the reader, not forced or rushed or cheesy.
  • these kids lifes have been so shitty you can’t help but root for them hard 
  • it’s gritty and has some very dark scenes, but it’s not overdone. it’s not that pretentious and cynic (and so common today) ‘life’s tough get used to it’. the characters want to be happy and do things to get there. darkness is not seen as edgy and necessary but as something horrible and haunting most commonly shown from the perspective of the victim.
  • the book deals with sexual assault without using it for shock value and (as a few survivor friends have told me) accuratelly and respectfully.
  • NEIL is smart and driven and you’re rooting for him since page one and he won’t stop getting himself in problems but you’re there in the bleachers like “GO SON, ROAST THEM! NO NO THEY’RE GOING TO HURT YOU RUN YOU IDIOT” i didn’t even find him frustrating. he’s probably one of my favourite book characters ever
  • Exy is so interesting and if it was a real thing i’d play the shit out of it
  • “ Some of the strongest people I’ve known are women”
  • the background characters are interesting and cool and help me i’m invested (JEAN MY FRENCH SON ILY)
  • F R I E N D S H I P also develops naturally over time and forming bonds of trust and love and caring and it’s beautiful and important
  • I’m a sucker for happy endings
  • Wimack’s speech before the final games against the Ravens gives me so much life
  • the fandom is so nice and there are no problems or hate and it’s chill