subject: personal

When they get married, Keith tells Lance that their wedding won’t abide by gender roles, so they both get a best man and a maid of honor. Hunk and Shiro are the best men (Hunk is Lance’s, Shiro is Keith’s) and Allura and Pidge are the maids of honor (Allura is Lance’s, Pidge is Keith’s.) Coran officiates, Klaizap carries the rings, and Rover 2.0 is the flower bot. 

friendly reminder that alec lightwood is so much more than just the gay character. he’s brave, smart, loyal, practical, sarcastic, dependable, honest, loving, and so much more than just the one half of malec.

GOT7′s kinks

Mark. Although I thoroughly believe he is a fuckboy, he is a vanilla fuckboy. I’ll bet he’s really into vocalization, basically his partner’s moans. It doesn’t matter if he’s going down on you, or if he’s fucking you, every sound you make is legitimately the most delicious noise in the world. You could probably turn him on just by moaning. It’s almost like subtle praise, letting him know he’s doing a good job. He’s probably also into biting, usually just soft bites, that little bit of an extra sensation, dragging them over your skin, but every now and then harsh bites. When he’s about to cum, he’ll drop his head into your shoulder and sink his teeth into your skin, a muffled moan coming out. He probably appreciates it just as much when you bite back. I think he has a pretty big kink for thigh riding, and giving oral. He just wants to please you and he’s not content until you’ve cum at least twice, no matter what you’re doing.

JB. I think passion is important to him, and that leads to rough sex. He’s probably also into hair pulling, but more so on his end. He wants your hair in his fist, tugging while he fucks you from behind, other hand tightly gripping your hip or thigh. He’s the type to need to go another round once you’re both ready, just because once isn’t satisfying enough for him. Dirty talk would be something that’s pretty present, but nothing degrading, more so telling you how good you feel, how fucking badly he needs you, that you look so gorgeous when his cock is in your mouth– positive things. I think he’s into public teasing, trying to get you as needy for him as possible and leaving you like that until the two of you are alone. It’s both an establishment of dominance and almost like he wants you to know that your his, and only he can make you feel the way he does. Really though, he just likes intensity.

Jackson. I think when it comes to him although it’s not a kink, above all he craves intimacy. He wants that connection, and knowledge that there’s reasoning behind the sex. He wants it to mean something, he wants the sex to be about needing you as close to him as he can be. I think that he also would really like some form of praise. He wouldn’t necessarily want you telling him how great he is, but just reassurances that he’s making you feel good, and that you love him– again it adds to the intimacy of it. Now, on the other hand, that boy doesn’t know his strength. You have to understand he’s going to f u c k you, and afterwards you’re going to have bruises in the shape of his fingers and hip bones. It’s not his fault, and he feels terrible, he just can’t control himself because you feel so fucking good, and he genuinely doesn’t realize how much strength he has. He also probably wants to make sure you get off before him as often as possible, because he just wants to treat you right. I think he’d also be really into oral, but on the receiving end. He loves tangling his fingers in your hair, and running his thumbs over your face, and the look you give him.

Junior. Our boy junior wants control and dominance. He has the capability to be soft and sensual but his preference is that his you completely submit to him. He absolutely has a thing for eye contact. He wants you looking at him– watching– as he goes down on you. He wants to see you when you cum, and he wants you to know damn well that it’s him getting you off. He probably really likes giving oral, honestly, mostly because he can tease you and make you beg for it. He’s the kind to tease you relentlessly until you’re so desperate for release you’re practically crying. Every time he goes down on you he puts your legs over your shoulders and has one hand on your stomach, another on your hip forcing you down so you can’t control the situation at all. When it comes to actual sex, aside from that overall dominance and control, he probably has a bit of a spanking kink. He absolutely loves fucking you from behind, one hand on your neck, almost pushing you down slightly, all the while smacking your ass every now and then. I’m also going to be honest, I think he might have a low-key daddy kink. He isn’t the typical daddy everyone thinks of– he’s the type to raw you, and then after he’s running his fingers through your hair, making sure you’re not too sore, and then he’s making you snacks and spoiling you.

Youngjae. For the most part, I think it’s your pleasure that’s the most important thing. He wants to do everything he can to make sure that he’s pleasing you exactly how you need. Because of that, he can really go either way, either submitting to you, or dominating you, but his preference is really just balance. He does like you riding him, as it gives him a sense of intimacy. He can look you in the eyes, and press sloppy kisses to your lips, and brush your sweaty hair out of your face, and after you’ve both finished he can whisper ‘I love you’ really softly with his forehead pressed against your own. I think with him, vocalization might be another thing that gets him going, as it gives him a boost of confidence and reassures him that he’s doing the right thing. He probably likes it when you call his name, or a sweet pet name, and he more than likely does the same in return.

Bambam. 10/10 I think his biggest kink is oral. If this boy could spend every waking minute between your thighs, he would. He wants to go down on you literally anywhere, all the time. He likes it when you pay the favor back of course, but he goes down on you because he wants to. He’s also the type to be into teasing, making you beg for it, subsequently, he’s also the type to overstimulate you, until you’re begging him to stop because you just can’t cum anymore. You will never get off just once with him. I believe he’d also be into public teasing, the type to touch you when no one’s looking, or try to get you off beneath the table, even if you’re at your parent’s. He’s also the type to be into public sex, if it escalates, dressing rooms, bathrooms, cars, probably even an elevator until you tell him that there’s cameras watching and it’d be /really/ bad if that footage got out.

Yugyeom. I think he’s young, and he’s probably yet to discover his true kink potential, but he’s definitely got some– he’s a hoe. He likes oral, because what guy his age doesn’t want to get sucked off? But above all I think he’s really into face fucking. At first he’d try to control himself, but halfway through the blowjob he’s just lost control, and his hands are on either side of your face, his cock is all the way down your throat, and even though the squelching noises sound disgusting to you they’re just so divine to him. (Afterwards he’d be sweet of course, and he’d rub your throat lovingly, and then really sheepishly ask if you want a halls or something. He’s also probably got a system worked out for when you can’t breathe.) He’s probably just into really rough sex, with slight dominance, anything that strokes his ego. He’s also really into hair pulling, and he’s the kind to physically put your hands in his hair. The aftercare is just as important though– the cuddles, and the pillow talk. It’s a total contrast to how he was during sex, because now he’s sweet, and whining for your attention.

The fact that Maggie’s wearing a suit in this picture

means so much to me. I’ve always hated wearing dresses and was never comfortable in them. It’s only recently that I’ve started gathering the courage to wear suits in front of my family and I’m still uncertain and scared about it each time. But to see this, a woman wearing a suit for a formal event, on a show like Supergirl just means the world to me. It’s not just a pantsuit she’s wearing to work or something like that, but a suit she’s wearing because she wants to dress nice for her girlfriend.

There are still so many people out there in today’s society that do a double take and stare when girls or women wear suits, with or without ties, as well as tuxedos. And to see Supergirl dress Maggie in a suit instead of a dress like many other shows would’ve done, makes me really happy. It’s helping to normalize women wearing something other than dresses. And quite frankly, this picture alone is helping me to realize that I have every right to wear a suit and I should be comfortable with my choice.

My impressions of MBTI types
  • ENTJ: Self-confident, objective and direct. Have a great drive to succeed once they set their mind to do something. Can appear stubborn and bossy. They are the first ones to call you out on your bullshit.
  • INTJ: Seem serious, calculating and overly rational. Project an aura of "definiteness" and self-confidence. Very private and independant - at times to the point of isolation. Inhabit rich inner worlds that make them seem aloof or absent-minded. The ultimate bookworms.
  • INTP: Adorable, analytical nerds. There's a 150% chance that they'll suprise you with random knowledge that they'll casually throw in a conversation. They questions EVERYTHING. Very logically precise and tremendously original. Probably have eccentric interests.
  • ENTP: Nerds with social skills (!). Excellent conversationalists. They are the ones to argue a point they actually oppose just to annoy you. Have highly imaginative and original minds which makes them come up with THE wildest ideas. They're very outspoken which sometimes manifests itself in the form of harsh comments if they're not careful.
  • ENFJ: Unbeatable people-skills. Have a gift of understanding and emapthizing with the feelings of others. Their enthusiasm, grace and diplomacy is truly inspiring which makes them great motivators. Very warm and trust-worthy friends.
  • INFJ: Mysterious, complex and thoughtful. Hard to figure out and get close to but once you do, you have a true friend for life. Have "layers" to their personality that they strip down once they'll let you in.
  • INFP: Quiet, agreeable and gentle. Can seem overly dreamy or idealistic and have their "heads in the clouds". Seem calm and reserved but have a burning flame hidden inside. Creative and unique individuals.
  • ENFP: Charming, compassionate and enthusiastic. True free spirits that crave creativity and freedom of expression. Their energy and charisma is irresistible. However, they need to watch out to not become overly care-free, unfocused and unrealistic.
  • ISTJ: Serious, practical and put together. Tend to be formal and impersonal in their approach. Can seem slightly insensitive and judgemental but in reality, they make very honest, loyal and reliable friends.
  • ISFJ: Big-hearted, generous and considerate. Have an eye for details. Intensely loyal and patient with the people close to them. They are dependable and take their commitments very seriously. True altruists.
  • ESTJ: Can appear bossy and insensitive. Incredibly ambitious and like the ENTJ, can succeed in doing whatever they set their mind to. Factual, objective and pragmatic. Highly perfectionistic.
  • ESFJ: Incredibly caring and warm individuals. Good at reading others and make them feel loved and cared about. Most likely to be seen as the "moms and dads" in a group of friends. Might appear controlling or close-minded.
  • ISTP: Independent and always up for an adventure. Realisitc, factual, usually easy-going and adaptable. They combine two, seemingly paradoxical, traits by being both rational and spontaneous at the same time. Can sometimes become too stubborn and display rebellious behavior.
  • ISFP: Creatures of passion and creativity with a vivid imagination. Incredibly expressive and charming individuals that see beauty in everything. Like to push the limits of conventional ideas. Can seem shy and overly sensitive to other's emotions.
  • ESTP: Bold, fun and confident risk-takers. Always down for a party. Cracking jokes 24/7 and always seen with a big smile on their face. Very persuasive and can charm the pants off of anyone - they truly have a way with words.
  • ESFP: Charming, friendly, witty and full of life. Have a strong sense of aesthetic (often nicely dressed). They are the ones to cheer you up when you're feeling shitty. Can pretty much get along with everyone. Their optimism is contagious!

I’m really hesitant about that Dog’s Purpose video because not only was it PETA that released the video, but TMZ is one of the most unreliable news sources available. I’d wait a few more days until more information is released before jumping to conclusions. 

Musing about being a POC and queer individual in the TMNT fandom:

I think the hardest part of being in the TMNT fandom for me is the fact that I am not white, am not straight, am not cis, or even neurotypical, and… I identify fairly hard with the turtles because of those things. 

But then… they’re drawn or written as all of those things probably 90% of the time when people are humanizing them, and its just. so hard. to let that go, even though those people have no idea they’re affecting some random person across the internet. Compared to the hundreds of others who don’t feel this way, my personal opinion doesn’t really matter.

I don’t hold it against anyone for their headcanons, and I have never a day in my life sent hate to a person for having those headcanons, since I know those depend almost entirely on the personal life and experiences of those individuals.

They still bother me though, since I feel like it erases a large part of what the turtles’ identities are, which is being a minority among minorities.

They’re the only four of their kind, and pretty much utterly isolated from the rest of the world. They’ve never fit in, and never will, because they are inherently different from the rest of society. They are, in a phrase, freaks of nature.

My circumstances aren’t as extreme, not even close, but I know that feeling on a personal level regardless. Having them portrayed as the socially acceptable norm, it erases a large part of what makes them so interesting; which would be their sheer alien-ness from the rest of us. By making them ordinary cis white straight etc etc in humanized headcanons, I feel it takes away from their original characterization as a minority.

And it just really bothers me, as a single individual in the fandom, to have characters I identify with so strongly become pretty much the complete opposite of who and what I am, and thusly become no longer relatable. It’s just a difficult thing to deal with sometimes, especially since I have no power to change it other than ignoring the content I don’t like.

I hope no one takes this as an insult to their personal headcanons about the series; its just the words from someone who’s never fit correctly to any box, and found a strong connection to four characters who I felt were similar to me in that sense.


This one was for the knb_69min  on twitter theme TEACHERS.

so here they are,  the GoM as teachers  ◝(⁰▿⁰)◜✧˖°

( click the pic for some small hc+the subject each kiseki would teach )


ever since I saw this post I knew I had to draw something for it.

after the war, when grissom academy is a smoking ruin and most of the kids have gone on to exciting jobs in the alliance anyway, miranda hits jack with a proposal. its weird and pretty dysfunctional but somehow they make it work. they eventually manage to rope kaiden into teaching too, and between them they end up with the most well-behaved, most badass, and most sexually frustrated students in the galaxy.


When a friend of mine complains about being single and goes on to tell me how she really needs to have a man in her life: