Hello. I admitted to my loved ones today that I am unsure of my sexuality. I currently feel more lonely and dejected than I ever have in my life. So is mommy right? Is it stupid to question my sexuality because I should just know? It would be great to know that I've torn a huge riff in my family for nothing! Thanks a bunch. Love your blog.
its not stupid at all, sexuality can be fluid, you dont have to know exactly who you are or exactly what you like. Just live your life and don’t limit yourself because you feel you have to define yourself to the T for others.
Trust me, i get a lot of shit for saying im pan with a preference for guys because its not a tightly defining label which annoys some people for god knows what reason, but i just live my life cause at the end of the day, youre the only one living your life so you gotta live in a way thats right and authentic for you (i say as i acknowledge, obviously and unfortunately, that some situations make that much harder for some people than others)
also if you makes you feel better, after i came out i felt uncomfortable in my house for a bit (even though my parents both showed support) which (at least i think) is kind of normal. it is an adjustment for everyone and hopefully as time passes and everyone begins to adjust everything will start feeling more normal again (just without the weight of hiding who you are on your shoulders anymore)