Random fact of the day for you all, just in case you don’t know! Sebastian once said in an interview that Sven, Nuri and Schmelle took him under their wings and showed him around upon arriving. That quickly made him feel very comfortable with his transfer aaand makes my heart flutter knowing how genuine these guys are!

this is my discourse blog where i post about queer things. my main topics are cishet ace inclusion, men who are only attracted to women and woman-aligned nonbinary people inclusion, men who are straight but polyamorous inclusion, and destroying the LG gatekeeping assimilationist homonationalist homonormative hegemony. i call this radical inclusion and i think it’s totally new and liberating. what do you mean all my politics prioritize straight people. how could i possibly be a homophobe

Free yourself from negative people. Spend time with nice people who are smart, driven and like-minded. Relationships should help you, not hurt you. Surround yourself with people who reflect the person you want to be. Choose friends who you are proud to know, people you admire, who love and respect you – people who make your day a little brighter simply by being in it. Life is too short to spend time with people who suck the happiness out of you. When you free yourself from negative people, you free yourself to be YOU – and being YOU is the only way to truly live.

*catapults my canoe into the midst of the navy fleet of Sheith war ships* 

Is this like… not a thing or… 

I’d never paid attention to this before

But I’m willing to bet the context of this:

is along the lines of ‘If I could be anything in the world I’d be a singer’.

That, coupled with this:

(first day of boot camp)

Makes me want to throw things at walls at how casual and unaffected they’ve always made Louis sound about his singing career. ‘He wanted to be a teacher, he actually was more of the desire of being an actor, he’s constantly playing pranks, he’s not that serious about it.’ Bullshit. They gave him no solos, ever. His mic was lowered or muted during 99% of the performances. They destroyed his confidence, they made him look like a goofy, aloof, uninterested clown instead of the dedicated, hard-working, strong-minded person that he is.

I could never forgive the people behind that mistreatment. I can’t express how much I admire him for everything he’s accomplished despite the awful people that surrounded him, those who were supposed to help him and have his back.

Louis deserves so much more.


love is about sitting in silence and enjoying every second of it simply because your partner is sharing it with you. love is about reading another person’s mind and finishing his or her sentences — because you know that person that well. love is about wanting to be as physically close as possible because you can’t get enough of the other’s smell, feel, or mere presence. love is about putting another person before yourself because, quite simply, when that person is happy, you’re happy. love is about staying in on the weekend, ordering Indian food, and putting on a new documentary because you wouldn’t want to be with anyone else. love knows no gender, race, shape, or size. love is love — an energy that fuses souls. and when you fall into its warm embrace, you won’t want to let go. that’s what love is to me. that’s the standard i hold, and i can clearly see a person in my mind that fills the mold. can you? if not, keep looking. that love is out there. It exists and finds us all. 


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